So, tell me r9k, who was in the wrong here?

What if the babies come out black and you're a white couple?
Trust only goes so far

Women truly hate the idea of accountability

just trust me :-)

Of course the man was in the right. There is no reason not to check, ever. Paternity tests should be mandatory. They're not expensive. It would've been more pragmatic to do it behind the wife's back, though, I imagine.

The problem with dealing with women, as many prominent redpill commentators have already noticed a long time ago, is the fact that you have to constantly express disinterest towards them under the the threat of entirely losing attractiveness to them. It's a truly psychiatric situation. You cannot display any doubt, insecurity or uncertainty even if on a rational level it is obvious that you possess it due to the very nature of the matter.

behind the wife's back, though, I imagine.

Is this possible?

I'm going to ruin my Son's life by taking his father out of the picture because you offended me

she's in the wrong
roasting out because his husband is paranoid and insecure instead of a perfect stoic chad
the relationship could have gone smoothly afterwards, but she took an opportunity to make a mountain out of a molehill.

What if retarded scenario I invented

It's not a gender issue. If you love someone enough you trust them. It goes both ways.

nta, most countries yes.
There are a few places like france, where they made it illegal to check, some dumb "protect the family" law.
So what happened was all the men would take their family on vacation, to places like Spain/Germany etc and then get them tested there.
Not sure if true, but I remember also reading a post on Anon Babble where the anon claimed i's now illegal to travel to another country and test them there.

It would've been more pragmatic to do it behind the wife's back, though, I imagine.

This is clearly the lesson from this. Just do stuff behind your wife's back because she will bonobo roast out if you're honest with her. Women fail the Sally-Anne test.

The bumbling fucking moron that posted this, OP.
Meaning YOU!.
Why?
If the father lives with the kid, as the retarded story implies, then he doesn't need his wife's permission and she doesn't need to know.
Do a mouth swab on the little fella' and send it off.
Also, inside a marriage this entire 'asked permission thing"? DOESN'T FUCKING HAPPEN.
That image was written by a KHHV with delusions (probably OP himself).
tl;dr: OP is a retard that needs to get back to plebbit

the woman, of course, as per usual
everyone should not only be entitled to a paternity test freely, it should be actually mandated they get one by your medical institutions as routine procedure
i am so tired of the "but just trust me bro" argument about such an important thing. imagine NOT wanting to give your partner peace of mind and get rid of any worries they have, and will continue to have for the rest of their lives
if you don't want to do that, you're a piece of shit and never cared for them anyway
if you want to be trusted you have to prove that you can be trusted, repeatedly, on major issues for a long period of time
media and society has educated women to be complete clowns who expect forced inherent trust from the get go despite the horrifying behaviour and statistics of what the average woman does in the modern era

Both, but mostly him. She's right the trust is gone the moment he demanded a paternity test, though he is right to get it done anyway. He should have done it secretly if he had his doubts.

The woman. She herself admits that the child looked nothing like him, so the man's concern that it might not be his child is justified. The situation was essentially solved with the paternity test, which thus allowed the man to be certain that the child is his, but this woman had to needlessly complicate it and divorce him over it.

ITT: Retards that believe OP's LARP

the conversation wouldn't be any different if he stated it was a imaginary scenario.

If you love someone you have to trust them completely

Wildly incorrect
If you love someone you want them to feel secure and worry free, if you don't want to take a 5 minute test to alleviate their fears then you didn't love them in the first place retard.
Trust and love are not related, that's social propaganda and media propaganda insisting on lies purely to allow women to get away with far more negative behaviour unpunished.
Trust is earned, trust can be lost and you have to re-earn it, just beacuse I love someone does not mean I trust them at all. What you are speaking of is people faking trust, they're still worrying they're just bottling it up and never discussing it because, hey look, societal propaganda and conditioning has created the scenario that if you ever speak honestly about your worries the woman throws a tard tantrum and leaves you.
Almost every modern couple in the world is COMPLETELY faking forced trust outwardly, where substantially less exists inwardly. And you retards think this is somehow a positive step

impossible to say as this was written by one of the parties. there may be many good reasons for him thinking she might have cheated on him, not just because the child didn't look like him. she may have wanted to leave him for a long time and he may have noticed her pulling away and this may have been just what she wanted- an excuse to get out AND blame him for it. hate reading the replies to these posts, i'm just gonna guess literally everyone blamed the guy

There's ample evidence that she was through with the relationship, hence her being called out for being a cheater, and this is just an excuse to run away and divorce rape him like she was planning to do anyway.

i'm just gonna guess literally everyone blamed the guy

Yes, it was an absolute bloodbath. I was shocked.

Arguing about shit that would never happen is ok

You argue about Harry Potter and Iron Man, too, right?

the evil ugly cunt who cheated on a man, falsified the test results, and of course divorced him as usual.
But, the man is wrong too, because he is a fucking braindead retard. A man must know better than to marry in 2025.

LMAO another marriageKEK gets KEKED

try this

visit google.com

type 'divorce over paternity test'

press enter

/thread + didn't read

WOMEN ARE FUCKING SEMEN DEMON WHORES, LOOK AT THE SHIT THEY CAUSE IN SOCIETY. HE WAS RIGHT TO BE SUSPICIOUS, IF THAT WOMAN CAN'T ACCEPT THAT HE'S JUST REACTING TO THE TYPICAL BEHAVIOR OF WOMEN SHE CAN GO FUCK HERSELF, WHAT A WHORE TOO.

Media is constantly 24/7 reporting of men and women cheating on each other.

What a cuck to trust media propaganda over the person he married, took virginity of and has spent countless hours around.

but the son didn't look like him.

If he would have paid attention in basic human biology class in high school he would have understood how this is possible while still being biologically his.

and creating a broken family.

Why voluntarily stick around someone who will be so manipulated by outside sources?

Bro. there's a reddit post about this, bro. that means it totes real, bro. Trust reddit, bro

She is.
It was reasonable to take a paternity test if your baby looks nothing like you.
Paternity tests should be commonplace whether you suspect cheating or not. If not obligatory.

If you love someone you have to trust them completely

Why? You do realize that people you love do not always love you back and have the capability to lie to you and betray you right?
Love does not even equal trust.

The insecure losers always slef-identify

Agreed. Which is why we need things like the absolute freedom of speech and the mandatory paternity tests on every child in the entire world.

There would be no insecurity without cheaters. Reminder that schools ban projects about family blood groups because it always turns out that between 10 and 30% of the kids discover that one of their parents is not their biological parent.

I don't think the relationship was working even before this happened if she's willing to end it all over something as inane as this

Obviously the woman. Frankly she was probably not chaste before marriage, ergo the husband had a right to suspect she might not be faithful during it, in which case he has every right to demand a paternity test.