Do you really think you have the willpower to be a good dad? You understand that means you'll have to wageslave, shitpost less and play less vidya, right? Maybe being an incel is not that bad?
Do you really think you have the willpower to be a good dad? You understand that means you'll have to wageslave...
It's the only "hobby" I could ever see being worthwhile.
Of course. Family is everything.
A kid is not a hobby. You sound like someone who has to paint their face on.
That's why I put it in quotes, because here apparently a hobby is just whatever you spend your time on. Why would I want to play video games when I can just raise a child for real? I can understand someone not thinking like this if they're so completely convinced they have no path to it but that's me and I still want it.
I couldn't be one. i don't have money or good genetics and you should have at least one of those
That's not how you phrased it and riding bikes backwards is not your strong suit.
What does riding bikes have to do with anything now?
Backpedaling, turn up the wit anon.
i can say things that aren't literal but you can't
you're a tripfag anyways who cares what you think
I already have a good job I want a foid wife and a couple kids to take care of.
I have zero motivation to ever be a dad, both the kids and the women attached to them will turn on you.
No, I don't. I needed to come home to someone I love or it's not worth it. I'll admit it
I am taking care of all of my current responsibilities and duties, there's no reason to believe I wouldn't fulfill the obligation of parenthood to an equivalent standard.
Nope, I've accepted I'd be a shit parent long ago. Grew up with a shitty father. Now I refuse to have kids or be with women (volcel). I'm not going to continue the cycle of abuse. It ends with me. No grandkids for him either which is a win for me in terms of karma. He wanted kids and fucked me up and now he's reaping the rewards of his shitty behavior by me refusing to reproduce.
Just do the opposite of everything he ever did and don't let him be involved, that's my plan.
Got molested at a young age by him and now I have pedophilic thoughts and can only fap to loli porn. There's no fucking way I'm having a kid. It would be like an alcoholic working in a bar, but far worse. Best I can do is not reproduce and therefore never be able or have a chance to harm a child.
Ok so just don't molest your child. You've successfully not molested any other children so far...right?
Obviously, otherwise I'd probably be dead or in prison. I'm not jewish so I would never get a free pass on it. Still, my best option is my current position, volcel. Never approach women, avoid children like the black plague.
I'm sorry you feel you have to do that.
Nah, I'm not remotely qualified to be a parent. Dad wasn't either but it's ending here.
Do you really think you have the willpower to be a good dad?
The amount of incest fantasy scenarios, paired with constant incel shilling has probably rotted the brains of any anon to the point that if anyone here becomes a parent, I'll bet my left nut it will turn into some fucked sexual abuse case.
I absolutely believe I do. Being able to bring children into this world and guarantee that their parents cherish them and want what's best for them is worth infinitely more than videogames or scrolling the internet. Knowing that your children think their mom and dad are the most important people in their lives would be a honor.
You don't have to be a perfect parent, but you have to try your best, and I think we're all capable of trying out best to love those close to us.
Bro, a mini? For co-op mode it's worth it. I barely get to see my son and I paid for that in blood but he's still gangster.
Das rite. That's why I'd want a partner but not kids. Childfree life
Same shit, except in my case it was mostly my grandma and my father, and in a different degree my mom. My grandma destroyed my brains and guilt tripped me since I was a little kid, basically blaming me for everything wrong as absurd as possible. My dad is an engineer and he didn't teach me anything practical, in fact he encouraged me to take bad choices in life intentionally to fuck me up. He encouraged me to take an useless degree intentionally to get me unemployed and miserable (he said it openly, laughing at me). At 16 he encouraged me to get cut (he isn't) and called me deformed, laughed at me telling me no woman will ever love me, etc. I put him and my grandma on a pedestal due to her manipulation and religious brainwashing. At the same time they intentionally fucked me up, they demanded me to be married before 25, having no less than 2 children, baptized in the catholic church, bla bla bla
Now they won't hace grandkids
Children are utter scum and tradshits pushing their retarded slave making agenda should be burned alive
No. I don't care about shitposting less and playing less video games, or even wageslaving if it meant that they'd have a good chance at life. I don't have the finances and stability to be a dad. I don't want a potential kid to be a future incel, shooter, or Anon doomrotter
maybe you're the mentally ill one you ever think of that?
Do you really think you have the willpower to be a good dad?
I was told that I'd be a good dad. That was nice to hear. For about a decade, I wanted to have some sons.
Even now, I could be a good dad in the personal sense, but I could never provide for my kid (or deal with their shitting).
TFW no millionairess who wants to be my concubine. Staying NEET and siring children would be a dream life, to be honest.
You understand that means you'll have to wageslave, shitpost less and play less vidya, right?
Yeah, and that is why fatherhood is impossible for me now. I gave up the idea of kids before I turned 30.
It was clear that I was incel as fuck, and my attempts to be a wage-cuck were doomed to failure because of autism.
Maybe being an incel is not that bad?
Eh, fuck that. I still want to fuck all the time.
I just don't want all the other bullshit that comes with that, like kids and even dating.
I'd happily creampie a post-menopause woman if I meant I could have lots of sex, without worrying about pregging her.
Sadly, I'd have a much better chance of getting sex with bottom traps/faggots. Depressing.
It's not willpower, I'm chronically ill.
you'll have to wageslave
Got a kid on the way and thankfully I don't have to deal with this limitation because I own a fairly successful online business. Got all the free time I need for my wife and kid on the way.
I sure hope for their sake you aren't just a chinkshit dropshipper.
I'm not lmao. Programmer, it's web scraping related.
What range of income are we talking? Above 100k? 200k? What does parenthood and fatherhood mean to you?
I'll just say it's 6 figures. My role as a father would obviously be to be the protector and provider of the household.
Interesting, very nice. How long did it take for you to get to where you're at and how would you rate your wife objectively? not with the rose tinted glasses of she's your wife and you get to fuck her but objectively.
Would a schizoid be a good father?
It took me a few years to get where I am today. Didn't waste my time with college out of high school (I mean, seriously. How oversocialized do you have to be to willingly subject yourself to MORE school?)
I'd rate my wife at 8/10 without rose tinted glasses, 10/10 with rose tinted glasses.
Are you self-taught or did you get training not through college but by other means?
IRL are you a normie? What brings you to r9k and what general advice would you have for a NGMI, it's over, khhv robot, the average robot?
Fully self-taught. Was just autistic about tech and learned at 11.
Not a normie irl. Even before I got more stable income my primary source of income was literally just doing bug bounties (which is how I got the money to start my own business).
Just on Anon Babble because I'm bored and Anon Babble is just one big porn spam nowadays.
If you're ngmi/khhv, and you're ONLY looking to lose your virginity and nothing else, then honestly just get tinder. It's the laws of probability and large numbers, out of a large pool of women there's a very small but nonzero percentage of them that are willing to fuck you. It's the same principle used by online scammers to find targs.
If you're actually looking for romance though, you need to increase the % chance a woman would want to fuck you (go to the gym, get a better diet, etc.), and more importantly, you need to actually know women irl that you could potentially date. And you need to be completely fine with being rejected, not even the strongest gigachad gets this shit right first try. Try finding a new friend group that has women in it, or ask your friends if they know any women that are single. If it makes it easier for you, try hanging around nerdy anime/gaming circles. The women there are WAY more willing to fuck a nerdcel than some college art hoe.
There are two girls at work who occasionally tell me I'd be a good dad.
One is a single mom so I figure she is just looking for someone to take over her life and raise her kids for her.
But the other is childless so I don't know why she goes out of her way to tell me that. She has a boyfriend.