Did she lost interest already?

go on date with girl to some dessert place

goes great

her mom picks her up (shes 22 but does not have a license yet)

after the date, I tell her I had a nice time

she said the same and said she hoped we can do it again

i text her asking what she told her mom about the date, just out of curiosity.

she told her that she had a fun time and that I seem like a good guy

she asked me what I told my family, and I told them I had a pleasant time with her

she then randomly asked me if she was bothering me. that confused me so I asked her why was asking me that

pic related is what happened. I responded to her story about her love of the film 500 days of summer, and she only hearted it. She did the same with me letting her know when I would be free again.

Am I going crazy or does it feel like she lost interest already?

excuse my typo in the subject line

Holy shit what a boring exchange, no she's not losing interest hearting just means she doesn't know what else to say and she already mentioned that she thinks she's annoying you so she's probably just self-conscious about responding with something that could be interpreted as "annoying", also 500 days of summer is gay so honestly she should lose interest

I'm actually laughing lmao

Actually

So it comes as a surprise to you that she would be in any way amusing, ngmi son, also yes she's losing interest because that's a stupid boring simp response

nah she just lost interest. OP asked a question. that by default means he waits for a response and gives you a free pass to annoy him

Sorry I dont walk on eggshells

unironic skull emojis

You're cooked

You're supposed to reassure her and tell her you like spending time with her idiot. Now she's dubbing you because she thinks you're a rude guy. Fix it before she detatches completely.

Throw caution to the wind and hit her with the "Were going out Saturday at 7" and say nothing else until she replies.

"Not yet" might've been the wrong call there.
Better get used to walking on eggshells if you're trying to date wamen. It's probably still salvageable, since she would've ghosted you otherwise.

Such an insecure girl.

youre cooked

I hate zoomer speech so much. Ironic you call him out on his zoomer emojis and then type that. Why do you faggots all talk like retarded wiggers.
Can I get a w in chat? Fr fr ong.

Not yet was a dumb thing to say but OP seems like kind of a dumb guy which means she's probably dumb as well, this is just the stupid shit dumb people say to each other so there's probably no need for correction there

Thats how normies communicate though. Nothing weird about that.
How can I fix this?
I am just trying to fuck more than anything. And its pretty humiliating to walk on eggshells since I know for a fact chads dont have.

How do you miss the joke this hard dude

Double texting

Those emojis

"I am actually laughing lmao" to a message with no comedic value

Yeah you're insufferable, im surprised she put up with you this far

I am just trying to fuck

eggshells

Why are you walking on eggshells when youre just looking for elaborate masturbation?

Get the stick out of your arse you'll never breed at this rate

"not yet" answer to "am I bothering u"

Are you dense?

This summarizes it perfectly, idk why I even care at this point I guess I'm just hanging around for more opportunities to abuse the idiot who said those foul words

Did she lost interest

Of course she did you're an illiterate Indian

The dessert was nice and expensive so she gave you a few pity messages and is doing the "woe is me im not good enough for you" BPD long play that basically means "fuck off negro"

I would like to think she wouldn't have asked me that but if she did I would have reassured her. I want it to be obvious to her that I value our time together. Haha.

why the fuck did you add (t yet) "LMAOOO"
nigga you's wildin

This is what happens when normies with no wit or ability to be clever attempt comedy

it just sounds like he meant that she is annoying but hasnt talked to her long enough to the point where hes annoying but will in the future
just tell her that shes not annoying or bothering you its just cringe
"not yet am i that annoying?", nigga didnt even understand what shes saying

It's fairly obvious it's a clumsy attempt at negging

you were just fucking rude dude. you've acted like an unemphatic retard, maybe that's how your personality is but what clearly happened is that you were just rude and that made her "lost interest"

You are doing great, dont listen to these virgins.

This OP, listen to this virgin

its just cringe when he writes the "LMAOOO"s and the emojis

how come whenever someone posts their text exchange on r9k they're both so boring??? can people actually capable of conversation post some

To be fair we wouldn't be here if we were able to constantly have vibrant conversations.

I would personally not post an interesting conversation with someone because it feels cherished
Failed normies like OP love to humblebrag tho

She's so insecure (hot). I've never dated an insecure girl even though I find that very cute. I usually pull the more extroverted ones.

Oh you were simply acting retarded. You got me

This reads like some shit I would have written when I was 16 and desperate to keep any girl's attention. Nowadays, I don't text nearly as much as I used to, partly out of disdain for the medium but mainly because I don't want to be bothered by anyone. Unless you're my mom and maybe my sister you're not getting a text until I have shit else to do but respond.

Im clearly not walking on eggshells. The people in this thread are advising me to do so though.

Holy shit what terrible texting skills. I'll be real with you OP, I'm just as bad. It's one of those things that you can only really tell when someone else does it. There's a lot of mistakes here.

Ignoring the "am i bothering you?" question

From this you can tell she's pretty insecure. This is a good sign because it means she's sees you above her in value. But it also means that things like negging will backfire heavily.

That over-the-top "I'm actually laughing lmao" just hurts to read. This is the shit you say when they send you a dumb tiktok. Not this mundane convo.

Btw you like 500 days of summer?

Honestly, not a bad play. But the heart react is a bad sign because it means she doesn't wanna elaborate. You probably made her too insecure.

I'll let you know X

Fucking blunder here. You literally did not give her a reason to respond. The heart is the best response she could've given. You gotta give an open, easy to answer question to put the ball in her court, when she doesn't respond you will then have a clear answer of whether she lost interest or not.

this anon is right everyone else is wrong