Help me understand the male brain

why does he say he misses me and is thinking about me but then ignores my texts ?

context we're dating no he's not chad no i'm not getting pump and dumped

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Maybe you have an ugly pussy. Post it and we will answer all your questions

fembots with boyfriends aren't allowed to post here gtfo -_-

why would i get naked for strangers

He is giving you bare min attention to keep getting puss and have you on the line
If a man really likes you he will be incessantly in your dms

Whatever. Don't then. But he's leading you on and cheating

leave me alone i'm still a loser

he is isn't he

Post a pic of you like this in this pose

Prolly sending too many texts. Dudes like to exist in whatever physical area is around them. If youre not around and he has to constantly think of shit to type up for your text it gets easily tiresome, especially if a lot of the texting can be repetitive. If a guy says he likes you thats it, should be enough, but ladies like the reassurance and hearing it multiple times so this is a clash of sexes a bit here.

texts? why dont you call?

could he just be busy?

Thats what you get for *dating* "chad"

I do this to people, main reason is that I'm usually busy or too lazy to text you back.

If he responds too quickly you'll think he's "needy" or "desperate" and get the ick and leave. Guys respond quickly to fellow guys because that's how we are, but when talking to girls we have to pretend we're not that interested and/or act like we have tons of people texting us constantly and forget about the girl. It's ridiculous. Why are you like this?

/r9k isn't for losers, it's for misogyny

i do want to call but he doesn't answer

hes busy rn

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i highly doubt it he doesn't have that much stuff to do i think

He's talking to other girls, sry.

he's not chad i already said that

what a chad kek. i wish i could do this

something that everyone seems to be talking about nowadays is this anxious attached and avoidant personality behaviours. I guess he falls into the avoidant category.

Busy, exhausted, doesn't want to be desperate, doesn't want to talk all day, immersed in something, cheating on you (doubt, but worth mentioning).
Could be many things, since you didn't provide context or dynamics.
Talk to him (nicely), since you're wasting your time playing a guessing game

i'm not like that and he knows it

well you should get better at it then

most of the time ill do this when i dont know what to say, or if im scared of being boring. I have no friends though so he may just be talking to other people

since you didn't provide context or dynamics

this. what the fuck do you expect from us when you provided no info. we are just going to affirm our biases in your thread and you will eat our diarrhea

It is like that, though. You can claim otherwise but if he reacted quickly to your texts like he does to his guy friends' texts you would leave him.

no i wouldn't that would just make me love him more

don't project your bad experiences with women onto me

this, hes getting his cock sucked, op

i already said that

Ya. Women lie all the time. I will be waiting for your *I got pumped and dumped by Chad again* thread

well there really wasn't that much context

i text him asking if he's busy

says he's making food but replies quick

i tell him i just want to talk

he replies two hours later with some random stuff

i reply a little later but when he replies i text back immediately

he then says he misses me and cannot stop thinking about me

i reply a couple of minutes after

no response

text again in a couple of hours to not spam him if he was busy

still no response

and i don't really know what to say about the dynamics, i guess i'm kind of clingier than he is but he tells me that he likes it and that i shouldn't stop

i'm a virgin and saving myself retard

what do you like about him? dick size? face? height? hunter eyes? i need to know what to improve so i can string females along

Yes, we're failing behind

I had a *gf* that responded to my texts like this. Come to find out she wasn't just my gf!!! What a shocker!! I even found some other guys overnite bag in her closet.

i like his personality and how he treats me

i'm a virgin and saving myself

Prove it

retard

Can't argue with your there

When is the last time you saw him irl?
And you like how her ignores your texts?? Nice way to treat a lady. Lmfao

Prove it

if i'm not a whore irl why would i be one online

her

*He

if i'm not a whore irl why would i be one online

Because that's the only value you have here. It's why your boyfriend only calls you when he's horny

He's obviously getting pussy somewhere else. Chad sure as fuck ain't waiting for marriage

well none of my threads are sexual and they still get replies so

Since he isnt chad has he ever had any past girls? Sounds like this may be a case of wanting a clingy gf until having to deal with it. Or what do you usually text about? Since he ignores calls too the only thing I can think of is that youre pretty boring to speak with.

ignores my texts

Too busy jerking off to your texts to respond

idk but i did this too. sometimes i just dont wanna talk actually often times

And why do you think people waste their time interacting with you? It's the same reason your "boyfriend" does.

he's definitely giving mixed signals. sounds like the avoidant behaviour I said in my previous message

Does he do anything mentally draining like gaming, working out or jacking off at home?
If not, I'd say he's either shit at talking in general and doesn't know what to say or just doesn't like you, since he doesn't seem to be interested in holding a conversation in real time.
You don't seem particularly old, so it could be any of these, but again, you're probably better off mentioning this to him, since it's just a drag for both of you.
Tell him what you want or he'll treat you like a toy.