Is this cope? Redditor is so close to the trvth

The difference is that rejects reject themselves, because they're unironically narcissists and build their identity and self value on external circumstances. So if (someone) rejects them, that is who they are now.

This unironically made me reflect on my life anon, thx

Because it's not mainstream female behavior, it's that simple.
Are there some women who do that too? Sure. But it's a small, fringe portion of people.

Nigger you'd kill yourself if the incels stopped caring what your ass thought of them

You know what an incel without worry is? a nigger
Nigger gonna rape your sister
Kill your dog
Steal from your store
Not pay rent, argue about everything, and beat you up if you get uppity

You'd already be dead you fucking moron. Just stop being a jew and give them the mediocre gf

If you want a gf, go out and earn her like everyone else has had to. You're not entitled to get a gf for no work,

Its pretty copey. Whenever they try to compare the experience of a GIGA Chad to a normal dude I know they are coping. Don't get me wrong its better to accept harsh reality, but drawing a comparison between Chads and Incels is just trying to downplay the extreme difference, its a form of just world fallacy that normies cling too so much which prevents them from seeing the darkest truth.

its a great post. my GIGA CHAD buddy has said the same thing

Wrong
Literally entitled to everything
Would kill your dog and rub his carcass on your face till you apologized to me

what he leaves out is how much work it is. what incels are trying to answer is:

was it worth the effort?

Almost noone really put that much energy into "earning" stuff. Most women certainly don't. People just go with the flow and achieve what their natural talents, looks etc. allow.

No, that's you. You don't put much energy into earning anything, and as a result, you don't get anything in return.

I can guaratee you that most people don't actually push themselves until they are in any real pain.
So the girl finished high school, not hard if you are naturally a social butterfly. Maybe she even finished college, not hard when someone else pays and there are degrees catering to women.
The Chad goes to the gym 4 times a week, not hard when your 900ng/dl testosterone level boosts your recovery and women constantly mire.
Less than 1% of people actually work so hard that they feel substantial pain, which is the only real sacrifice.

This is normal human behaviour. Obviously taken to an extreme by type 2 personalities, but being sensitive to rejection is totally ordinary for, not just humans, but all social animals. Only a mentally deranged person would have no reaction to being rejected. In my experience, most of the time people pointing the finger at others for narcissism are usually narcissists themselves

Liar who likes to defame others
Dig up your buried dog i killed
Jack him to a car battery to give him life once more so he can hobble around crying and shitting on your front lawn

You don't learn

And with social situations it's even clearer. You think Chad needs to meditate or take Xanax before going to a party? That's just laughable. Things come easy to some people and if they don't, you might even do more harm than good by forcing it.

These are exactly right. I had a Giga Chad roommate in college. I saw firsthand just how fucking different his experience and mine are.

his Tinder

nonstop flood of 8+/10 Stacies, they message him first and reply to him with effort and ask him to meet up

they also send him nudes without him even asking, which he always showed me

my Tinder

95% of matches are with bots and OF/IG shilling, the other 5% are 3-5/10's who never message first and send one word replies (if they even reply at all) and don't have any interest in meeting up

inb4 "bro just get better pictures" coping, roommate and I hung out a lot and used some of the same pics from when we did stuff together (we blurred each other out)

It carried over IRL too

we go literally anywhere, grocery store or bars or fast food or the library or taking our dogs to the park

hot women we do not know (anywhere from college freshmen to milfs) approach him and hit on him and laugh at everything he says and break the touch barrier first and offer up their number

I might as well be a ghost, the one time in my life a woman stranger approached me in public to start a conversation she was just trying to shill a pyramid scheme

I'm sure he has experienced rejection at some point in his life, but I never saw it and he had enough top shelf pussy thrown at him to get over it in a hurry. Meanwhile I feel like Sisyphus pushing the boulder up the hill just to get a woman to even acknowledge I exist. Some men get 100x better results just for rolling out of bed than other men do no matter how hard they work at improoooving and putting themselves out there. Denying this reality is just world nonsense and gaslighting

narcissists and build their identity and self value on external circumstances

That's not what a narcissist is. A narcissist is someone who would not give a shit if they get rejected because they just think they are awesome and the person has to be retarded to reject them. I have noticed this strange pattern of calling those with social anxiety bad names because it feels good to the retard spewing it though.

You just don't know what words mean man. STFU and pick up a dictionary.

I had a friend who was relatively Chad and sometimes I was the one approaching a woman and they just immediately ignored me and only talked to him.
I even had a girl I hadn't spoken to for years suddenly contact me because she saw some FB post of me with him so she asked for his number.

You know nothing of the real world. Pretty much everyone pushes themselves to pain. You're the type of person there's no point in even conversing with, because you know literally nothing, outside of your computer screen.
Of course it's normal. That can be said about literally every disorder, all the behaviors that categorize them are normal. But the frequency and severity they happen at is not normal, thus it becomes a disorder.
But in normal people, the behavior doesn't cause any sort of meaningful disorder in their life. When the behavior has consumed every day of your life for an extended period of time, you have a disorder and have left the realm of "normal behavior".
Incorrect, narcissists typically have a very low self-esteem. This is often why they will put other people down, and do things like showboating, grandstanding, etc. They feel terribly about themselves, so they need the external world to validate their existence.
They might do it by showing off their super fancy watch to get a compliment.
Or they might do it by insulting you so that you become inferior and they feel superior.

But, again, more often than not, they do not have high self esteem or high internal self value. They're often very depressed and have an extremely negative self perception.

Next level cope. I will start believing you when you show me the Chad that got burnout from going to clubs with a group of Stacies.

If they study the winners and still lose, then their interpretation is shit. If their interpretation somehow is correct, it means the game is unwinnable.

There is no universe where listening to losers is the winning move. Former losers turned winner are the only people with valid and applicable worldviews.

Except... that does happen,
Not only that,
It's completely unrelated.

The difference is that rejects reject themselves, because they're unironically narcissists and build their identity and self value on external circumstances. So if (someone) rejects them, that is who they are now.

that's a retarded take. humans are social and innately desire acceptance from others. if you get rejected, especially a lot, then that has negative impact on your esteem and makes you more socially disconnected from others.

Bluepillets live in a strange fantasy world where psychologically everyone is a totally detached zen master and anything else is oathological. And physically everyone is Son Goku pushing himself to the absolute breaking point at 100x earth's gravity.

I can guaratee you that most people don't actually push themselves until they are in any real pain

I've won a major in my hobby. If I told you what it was it could expose my identity. I've only ever trained when I felt like it, and I've never attended a tournament that I didn't want to attend. Thing is, I was addicted to the hobby. At my peak I was putting in 40+ hours per week and my grades slipped. It was more uncomfortable for me to go to bed than it was to keep grinding.

It was never pain, only joy. People confuse work and effort all the time. Compulsion is stronger than will power, and you will always lose to people who compulsively work at the things you have to will yourself to do. That's not even factoring in talent or genetic advantage.

I'm sure he has experienced rejection at some point in his life, but I never saw it and he had enough top shelf pussy thrown at him to get over it in a hurry.

This is the key difference. Rejection isn't as bad when you've had positive reinforcement before, but Incels have had 0 positive attention from women, so its more debilitating. They have no foundation to build confidence on top of.

There is a difference between "part" and "the entire thing" that they seem to have missed.

Most people do not base their entire identity and self worth on the external

Literally everybody does. Period.

Yes, being rejected causes an emotional response and makes everyone feel bad, that's completely normal. It's totally fine and acceptable to get rejected and feel down for a little while.
BUT, building your own identity around being rejected, and then turning around getting bitter and resentful and rejecting society is not.

Can you identify the difference here, and how the thing I'm describing is not the thing you're describing?
No. You're simply projecting.

i went to two speed dating events and both times i received zero likes from women, meaning no one wanted to go on a second date with me. before the events began, i could already tell who would get matches based on how extroverted and handsome they were. financially-wise, i think i'm doing very well in life, but when it comes to women, i feel like a disformed gamerbro type of loser that would be known as the small town's loser. i think i wouldn't mind having a female friend, but i feel like i get rejected the moment but i open my mouth. online, speed dating events, approaching at the bus stops, it's all the same. born to be alone.

Exactly. Old roommate gets rejected, who cares he can find an even hotter woman throwing herself at him as soon as he opens Tinder or steps outside. But for me? There are two types of rejection now.

rejected in the form of turned down immediately/ghosted before meeting/completely ignored?

numb to it at this point because it has happened countless times, I can shrug it off and keep trying

rejected by a girl who actually showed interest and went out with me a few times?

absolutely devastating because it took so much effort and luck to get that far, God knows when I'll get another chance

Women, Chads and normie men think we're exaggerating or just not trying at all because they've never experienced this. Women and Chads get nonstop attention and validation from the opposite sex. If they're alone it's entirely by choice. Normies get into long term relationships pretty easily. These people have no frame of reference what it's like playing the dating game on hardcore nightmare mode where it takes hundreds of no's to get a yes and then that yes could just as easily fall apart, putting you back at square one.

I resigned myself to losing before I even started

Well, geewillikers, anon. I wonder why it failed?! It's almost like you WANTED it to fail so you could prove to yourself that you are what you think you are.

No.

It's delusional to judge yourself through your own definitions because you're judging those very definitions at the same time. If your theory was right people wouldn't feel bad if anyone insulted them because what others say hold no worth to them.

bro just pretend what has happened your entire life won't happen again lmao, being delusional is actually healthy!

Fuck off retard

It's delusional to judge yourself entirely through either the internal or the external lenses. That's literally and unironically how insane people are made.
This is why childhood is so important, because it can instill in you bad habits in how you judge your own character. And if you rely too heavily on either the internal or the external, you will have a misalignment of your judgement of yourself, and who you actually are. Which will lead to you being severely depressed, because you cannot identify who you are.

If your theory was right people wouldn't feel bad if anyone insulted them because what others say hold no worth to them.

Absolutely incorrect. You've misrepresented my point. Being bothered by other people is completely normal. Being influenced by the world is a separate idea entirely than being completely influenced by the world, and having no sense of internal self value or worth.
If someone rejecting you completely destroys your sense of self worth, and warps your identity, you have a problem. That is not normal.

Sounds like you're upset because I was right. You didn't even make an attempt at saying I was wrong.

I'm nta and you're wrong for >implying he should just be detached from reality and delusional instead of acknowledging his lifetime of dating experience getting rejected. Chad could show up to speed dating, have the shittiest least confident attitude there and still leave with a dozen numbers.

What does chad have to do with anon? Chad is irrelevant to anon. Is anon Chad? If no, why does what Chad do matter?
The answer:
It doesn't.

It's almost like you people DESIRE to intentionally make yourselves feel worse by comparing yourselves to other people. You just want to wallow in your own self pity because someone else has something you don't.
Like a fucking child throwing a hissy fit because another kid at school got an iPad or some shit.

Bringing up Chad was making the point that attitude makes no difference at all. Chad doesn't have a good attitude? Women don't care. Chad isn't confident? Women will make the first move. Why? Because looking at him makes their pussy tingle. Anything else is just cope to cover up the fact that pussy tingles determine how women interact with you. You make their pussy tingle, they want you no matter what you say or do. You don't make their pussy tingle, you are hard capped at friend zone or betabux that will be cheated on.

Anon doesn't make pussies tingle so it's irrelevant whether he takes a defeatist attitude or the delusional attitude you're suggesting. Either way women aren't into him. If he achieves sociopath levels of delusion and faking it that might con some gullible woman into a relationship, but it will ultimately be a trainwreck because he's pretending to be someone he clearly is not.

Being bothered by other people is completely normal.

Because you cared about their judgement.

If someone rejecting you completely destroys your sense of self worth

No the issue with the world at large is commonly just "Everyone rejecting basically everyone" where the source of the blame becomes a lot more subtle than just there being a few odd ones out.

That is not normal.

It will be.

The thing is in todays world you can't have a mix of both judging yourself internally and externally, if you care about what others say in any capacity your opinion will be overpowered on a scale of millions to one and if you don't care about others opinions you will eventually become deluded. This is also why people just run from this issue by going to echo chambers, but that causes them to eventually become insecure and volatile anyways.

It's almost like you people DESIRE to intentionally make yourselves feel worse by comparing yourselves to other people. You just want to wallow in your own self pity because someone else has something you don't.

when faced with overwhelming compounding insurmountable superiority its kinda hard not to flinch
back in the day maybe someone like me would've bagged a looksmatched mid and had a average life
but times being what they are i'm the bottom rung that has been denied by the system's newly established standard
the declining birth rates are a direct expression of this in action
humanity is experiencing an artificially induced culling, and i'm afraid i didn't make the cut
no amount of individual struggle and zen meditation will change things unless women reign themselves in (it won't happen in my time)
Don't expect me to think/act otherwise i no longer have skin in this game

Bringing up Chad was making the point that attitude makes no difference at all.

And that's where you're completely wrong. If Chad had a bad attitude, he wouldn't be Chad. How many Chads do you know that sit in their rooms 24/7 and never leave their house? How many Chads do you know that never put any effort into anything at all?
Literally zero. Chads are always out trying stuff and doing things. And when things don't go his way, he doesn't buckle and give up. He just goes again.
The thing that makes Chad Chad IS his attitude.

The reason anon doesn't make pussies tingle is because of his shitty defeatist attitude. He does everything in how power to fail. He will defeat himself and make himself feel like shit at every moment. Just so he can prove to himself that he is a failure all so he can give up and take the easy route.

Because you cared about their judgement.

I never said don't care about other people's judgement. I said don't base your entire identity and sense of self value on other people's judgement.

It will be.

It will never be normal. The average person has a decent balance between the internal and external when it comes to their own self worth and identity.
There is no new standard. Things are basically the same as they've always been. You could bag yourself a lookmatch quite easily. If you did the work, and actually changed your attitude.

"Everyone rejecting basically everyone"

yeah women experience this too later in their life when chad is no longer interested in 35+ roasties
but instead of realizing that maybe their father was right and whoring out in your 20s isn't optimal strategy they direct their hatred towards incels not because they think its a pejorative for "men who i won't have sex with (their only meaningful measure of value)"
young men had no say in this happening to scoiety and women deserve all the blame/shame to help restabilise he species to the age of slut-shaming and societally enforced virginity until marraige

They also experience it their whole life, just like everyone else.

I said don't base your entire identity and sense of self value on other people's judgement.

I'm just saying the internet makes keeping a balance next to impossible to do, before it this was basically the norm.

yeah women experience this too later in their life

Nah women do catfighting among each other even before that.

bro posts a literal zen master

That's not how people operate, it's not how my dad married my mother or how normies today do it. It's just cruel to hold people to that standard, making them feel guilty when they can't meet it.

And that's where you're completely wrong. If Chad had a bad attitude, he wouldn't be Chad. How many Chads do you know that sit in their rooms 24/7 and never leave their house? How many Chads do you know that never put any effort into anything at all?

Literally zero. Chads are always out trying stuff and doing things. And when things don't go his way, he doesn't buckle and give up. He just goes again.

The thing that makes Chad Chad IS his attitude.

nigga there are child molestors/drugdealer/serial killers with women fawning over them
women aren't attracted toChads because of "le good attitude"
its just that chads (men who have had a healthy upbringing with no shortage of female approval) are more likely to have normal healthy self actualized personality
the "good attitude" is a consequence of, not the reason for female attraction and even then it isn't gauranteed (see all the handsome criminals with exclusively female fanclubs)

their rejection starts when they realize what they've done to themselves
which atleast occurs after they've experienced a fulfillment of their animalistic desires throughout their prime years
rejected men don't even get that since satiating their animalistic desire would land them in jail for rape/harrasment
rejected men are expected to have extraordinary self restraint while the rejected female are such entirely by choice
there's an undeniable assymetry in their experiences and its silly to try to equate them
rejected men have it undeniably worse, not even up for debate its a fact of life
when this pool of rejected men hits a critical mass society will topple and women's liberation movement will be walked back
women don't deserve to be treated as equals capable of agency in their lives the last few decades have been proof of that
no number of exceptional women scientist/ceos/doctors is worth total societal collapse

If rejection is even a factor when asking out women it's pretty much guaranteed your gonna get cucked or even worse divorce raped later down the line even if someone decides to put up with you, might as well quit while youre ahead or at best pump and dump if you can even manage

The problem isn't the internet. But, I will give you, that the internet does exacerbate it. Social media has definitely made the problem worse, and given people an easy way to band aid their problems causing a negative loop.
An example is someone feels bad or sad, so they post some picture that shows other people that they're really happy. Then the other people will say "omg your life is so good!" and then they feel happy.
But this behavior isn't the norm, the population of these people is growing though. It's growing much faster than it did previously to the internet.
The zen master picture is an ironic joke. It's the opposite of what zen teaches.
There is no cruel standard.
Nigga, that's not having a bad attitude, that's being a bad person. They're completely different. Bad people often have very good attitudes.

men who have had a healthy upbringing with no shortage of female approval

This is actually extremely unhealthy. Constant approval fucks you up just as bad as constant rejection. They do NOT have a self actualized personality.
Not only that, a lot of Chads actually came from not so great families.

their rejection starts when they realize what they've done to themselves

Everyone is rejected all the time their whole lives. Even Stacies are rejected. Nobody has this perfect imaginary life you're picturing where everything is all cotton candy and rainbows. That's childish.

narcissists typically have a very low self-esteem.

You're talking out of your ass and have no clue of what you're saying. Even how the word narcissist came to be originated from a story of a guy drowning in his own reflection in the water because he was too obsessed with himself.

What do you mean by attitude?

Constant approval fucks you up just as bad as constant rejection

The most delusional thing I've heard of in a while. Even by your own logic, it's a very positive thing, as it helps cultivate a good attitude.

Everyone is rejected all the time their whole lives.

This competes with the last remark. Constant rejection is not normal. Mediocre-looking women and attractive men get very rarely rejected, attractive women almost never

Uses mayo clinic as a source

Wow. People actually do that?

nyu.edu/about/news-publications/news/2021/march/narcissism-driven-by-insecurity--not-grandiose-sense-of-self--ne.html

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6070240/

sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0165178116306989

Many narcissists have an extremely low self esteem. That's why they engage in the stereotypical narcissistic behaviors. It's why they're sensitive to criticism, it's why they're arrogant, it's why they attack other people, it's why they present an image to the world that they are secure. Because they are not. They want YOU to believe they are, because alters their perception of themselves and quells their unconscious, habitually negative, critical self perceptions.
They are obsessed with themselves, but it's not exactly in a positive light. A very small percentage of narcissists actually think highly of themselves and have a positive self image.

Narcissism was what I did my finals essay on for my bachelors in psychology.
By attitude I mean perspective on the world, a perspective that lends itself towards success. Good attitude does not mean good person or good personality. It just means your mentality is one that propels you forward, rather than holding yourself back.
Someone with a bad attitude is constantly negative, and constantly defeating themselves, constantly setting themselves up to fail, constantly engages in self sabotage, engages in self fulfilling prophecies of failure, etc.

Even by your own logic, it's a very positive thing,

Constant approval is not a good thing. It's just as likely to create a good attitude as constant rejection. They both can. But the person will be wildly fucked up.

Constant rejection is not normal.

Granted. But constant rejection is not the cause, it's a symptom.

Mediocre-looking women and attractive men get very rarely rejected

This is just not true at all.

I was born a subhuman into a life i hate, I reject the male experience, I reject humanity.

I live for the brutality and seclusion of nature and the thrill of battle

I WILL ATTAIN ECSTASY IN THIS LIFE AND IF NOT I WILL DELIVER MYSELF ONTO DARKNESS

NEXT!!!!!!!

Bad people often have very good attitudes

yeah fuck me man sorry i don't prescribe to your specific brand of cope idealogy
where everyone is hurting somewhat, so my astronomical pain is belittled cause stacies stub their toes sometimes
fuck you for belittling my pain
you idealogy isn't even a propsed alternate towards helping me
its just pacifying slop to keep me from walking away from this misery machine that is the modern social contract
don't forget is system's purpose is what it does not what it says it does
if i can' have a non-whore wife during the prime of my life and have children then i feel no obligation to pay into this system to fund their whoredom

Bad people often have very good attitudes

you're either a fag or a out of touch woman

Constant approval fucks you up just as bad as constant rejection

thats like saying there's no point in seeking water to drink because some people drown
you're making a false equivalence here man
constant rejection will lead to suicide constant validation will lead to an inflated ego and shitty personality
i'd rather be an annoying normie than a dead lonely incel

a lot of Chads actually came from not so great families

are you fucking retarded?
what even is you measure of chad?
someone hoodrat riddle with aid and multiple baby mommas isn't a chad and i can safely assure no incel want sto be that
stop trying to conveniently include that type of man into your definition to "own le chud" you're only alienating my kind

Everyone is rejected all the time their whole lives

no shit nigger all of us will die but i can safely say that a 90 yrold man will have lived a fuller life than an infant aborted at birth
young women in modern society are perhaps the most catered to by everyone and every thing
so much so that denial of their agency (rape) is treated as more reprehensible than even murder by almost everyone
this is like a trust fund nigger telling a poor ghetto white that he has a better life cuz "muh privilege"

>Even by your own logic, it's a very positive thing,

Constant approval is not a good thing. It's just as likely to create a good attitude as constant rejection. They both can. But the person will be wildly fucked up.

I'd think you were trolling if there weren't signs to the contrary. How can you say something like that unironically, given your definition of attitude? How does getting constant validation NOT make you positive and confident, which seems to be the essence of what you mean by attitude? What are the mechanics of someone becoming LESS confident by getting validated and accepted? I've never observed something like this.

How does getting constant validation NOT make you positive and confident, which seems to be the essence of what you mean by attitude?

NTA but i think its someone who think real life works like tv sitcoms
they see their favourite slop episode where a character gets too much attention it gets to their head and thinks irl works like that
i'd reccomend not responding to that histrionic foid anymore

they see their favourite slop episode where a character gets too much attention it gets to their head and thinks irl works like that

That's the thing, even in TV, when it goes to their head, they get more confident, brave, and willing, ie they get a better attitude. That poster has to be trolling. A "bachelors in psychology" and then such nonsense

where everyone is hurting somewhat, so my astronomical pain is belittled

That's an interesting take, you being the same as everyone else belittles your experience? Sounds like you just want to be special.

its just pacifying slop

This is a projection of your own ideology. The way you think is specifically curated to pacify you, it's your little binky to sooth your raging child.

you're either a fag or a out of touch woman

I'm a man, and I'm straight.

thats like saying there's no point in seeking water to drink because some people drown

That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. It's more like saying drinking your weight in water is bad, even though water itself is good. You will fucking die if you drink that much water. Just because approval is good, does not mean constant approval is. Too much of a medicine turns it into a poison.
Everyone knows this.

are you fucking retarded?

Why are you angry?

what even is you measure of chad?

Can use an example of a 9/10 Chad who grew up in the burbs with both his parents, football QB, all the stereotypical Chad qualities.
His mom was an emotionally drunk, his dad was a physically abusive drunk, they fought all the time. Mom loved to throw plates in the arguments. Chad was always trying to fix his parents relationship, always thought it was his fault they were like that. Maybe if he could make them proud they'd stop fighting.

you're only alienating my kind

You're alienating yourself, it's what you do. It's your whole shtick. You will do anything and everything to separate yourself from "the others" aka "normies". You did it in open of your post:

where everyone is hurting somewhat, so my astronomical pain is belittled cause stacies stub their toes sometimes

It's literally your whole thing. "I'm not like them." "I'm totally different from them."
You're alienating yourself, not me. I'm doing the opposite of that. I'm telling you that you're not so different from Chad, you're actually quite similar to him.

How does getting constant validation NOT make you positive and confident

Re-read what I said. I said it CAN make you have a good attitude. But the chances of that are about the same as if you're constantly rejected. Both can have that outcome, but the downside is that both also come with well... downsides. In that your personality will be completely ravaged.
I said constant approval is not good, it fucks you up. It fucks you up just as bad as constant rejection. Having both rejection and approval is how a fully fledged person is made.

same as everyone else belittles your experience?

yes i' doing provably worse than those around on every measurable metric both abstarct and concrete

I'm a man, and I'm straight.

yeah what ever you say faggot

That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. It's more like saying drinking your weight in water is bad, even though water itself is good. You will fucking die if you drink that much water. Just because approval is good, does not mean constant approval is. Too much of a medicine turns it into a poison.

appeal to common sense
youu had to argument from incredulity as a cope when your reframe of my metaphor didnt work
to answer your retarded take i'd rather drinky my wieght in water than slowly die of dehydration not even close
excess is prefered to extinction you moron

His mom was an emotionally drunk, his dad was a physically abusive drunk

confirmed female zoomie/millenial take
this has been the norm for human history and arguably is the ideal since it churned out the men who built modern society
compare taht to th autism troon plague brought about by modern sheltered parenting
stop projecting you filthy fujoshi fanstasy about "le ideal i can fix him chad" into your argument you retarded foid
men dont work how you think they do, you have no solid understanding of what make the male mind clicks and its showing your argument

"I'm not like them." "I'm totally different from them."

correct its my defining trait retard or i wouldn't be arguing with you now would i
don't expect everyone to be a yuppie clapping like seal at your tarded armchair psychiatrist take
cram in all the retarded therapy talk you want noone thick you any smarter for it
its hilariously cruel thing to walk upto a man die of thirst and accuse him of drowning

it CAN make you have a good attitude. But the chances of that are about the same as if you're constantly rejected

men have confidant personality because they attract female attention not the other way round

Frankly I think you're brain-damaged and trying to get you to explain the logic of how getting constantly accepted vs getting getting constantly rejected has the same chance of making a person confident seems to be useless. You're unable to provide the logic behind it, only reiterating previous statements without any sort of reasoning. There is no way a person actually believes something like that, but at the same time, I don't get what you get out of it, doesn't seem like a lot of fun trolling this way.

It literally isn't. Before civilization you had rape, and early civilization up to modern civilization had arranged marriages. Approaching women like some jester trying to win her affection has never been a thing that men had to do until the last seventy years or so.

There is no way a person actually believes something like that, but at the same time

its a woman who fels called out
thats te only obvious answer
its a foid who irked by the thought that her actions have negative consequences on herself and society as a whole
hence the constant deflection reattributing things back to being men's fault

i' doing provably worse than those around

Genuine question, how much of that is by your own hands? How much of that is a self inflicted wound? How much of it is you holding yourself back? How much of it is you wanting to fail?

to answer your retarded take i'd rather drinky my wieght in water than slowly die of dehydration not even close

This does prove my points thus far. Your entire perspective has been warped so that you cannot see the positive side to anything. You refuse to acknowledge that things can be good for you. You do not want things to be good. You don't want things to change.
How much of that is connected to some sort of fear, like the fear that if things did get better, now you have something at risk. That better life can be taken away from you.

confirmed female zoomie/millenial take

Incorrect. I am a man, born with a penis. You're just engaging in the stereotypical behaviors associated with excessive echochamber use. Anyone who disagrees with you must be "in the other group". It's the same thing feminists do, "if you disagree with me on anything, you must be a nazi, or anti-feminist, or a woman hater." etc.

correct

Right, again. So you're the one who alienates you. You did this to yourself, and you just openly admitted to it.

its hilariously cruel thing to walk upto a man die of thirst and accuse him of drowning

I've done the opposite. I've said you've got plenty of water in your reach, but you just refuse to drink it, because if you did drink it, that would make you like everyone else who is drinking water. And you don't want to be like them. You don't want to be normie. Because it's your defining trait that you're not.
I'm glad you admitted it, at least there's some hope for you.

men have confidant personality

Because they want to succeed. Confidence breeds success, not the other way around. Confidence comes first. The confidence to try precedes the success.
You want the reward before you've even completed the job.

LOOL you're literally one of those retards that just links random studies without reading through them.

The study from the NIH is about the similarities of high self-esteem and narcissism based on personality traits, not if they're correlated to each other or not. To summarize, they found that

View of self

Narcissism and high self-esteem were similar, but narcissist had an inflated ego and high self-esteem were more grounded

Confidence/Assertiveness

Similar

Agreeableness

Different, low for narcissistic and neutral for high self-esteem

Interpersonal style

Different, Arrogant and entitled for narcissistic and balanced, respectful for high self-esteem

Mental health (Internal)

Different, narcissists had more mentally problems

Mental health (external)

Different, narcissistic more likely to break rules and more aggressive

Empathy/Callousness

Different, narcissist less empathic while high self-esteem had normal levels

Also, the last source explicitly claims that no solid evidence can be found for narcissists masking their insecurities by being grandiose.

Lastly, the NYC linked to a study that concluded narcissism should be split into 2 categories. Where one is due to psychopathy and the other is due to having a big, easily bruised ego.

You have no clue what you're talking about. Narcissists are barely even as insecure as the average person if not even at all, they just have a big, fragile ego.

i hate reddit, because i am very based cool namefag. like im one of you guys, right? lol yeah because we are all based cool incels that aren't redditors. theres some guy who im just better than and is trying to make me lookbad by using my name, so if you see me in other threads, please remind me that I am a massive faggot.

You're welcome to think that, anon.

logic of how

What do you mean exactly by the "logic"? They both lead to the same outcome. It's the same way that constant rejection can give someone a strong character and a good personality.
Are you asking me to describe the mechanisms that produce negative outcomes? Do you want a list of the negative outcomes? It would be the same list as the negative outcomes for someone who was rejected constantly. They both lead to narcissistic personality traits. They both make you crumble under pressure and have a low sense of self value. They both make you blame other people for your own failings. They both make you avoid risk.

There is no way a person actually believes something like that

Well, I don't believe it. I know it to be true. I'm a people person, what I do is talk to people. I did it in college, I talked to everyone. I do it at work, I talk to everyone. I do it online, I talk to people.

I did some internship at a residential treatment center while I was getting my bachelors, because, like I said, I talk to everyone, so my professor set me up with the people. And the people there will tell you their life story.
So, the reason I "believe it", is because I've seen it first hand. Many. many. times.
The whole reason their ego is fragile is because of their perception of themselves, which is tied to their self worth. I'm not here to argue about narcissism.

What that post says is is the objective reality that 98% of men grasp by age 14.
The fact this confuses and angers robots is WHY they are robots.

Narcicist disregards the opinions of others and his self worth originates within his own delusional false self.

If you're serious and actually got a psychology degree, then it was worse than useless in terms of actually understanding human behavior. What were you doing in university?

I said you're making statements without providing the reasoning behind them.

They both make you crumble under pressure and have a low sense of self value.

You just keep repeating the same statements over and over again like an automated bot, without providing the logic behind them. Do you even understand the words I type? I keep asking you how does someone gassing you up make you insecure, and you never respond, you just say that it does and that's that, when the observable reality and basic logic indicate that getting appreciated by others will raise one's self esteem.

Here's a statement:

Sky is red.

Is it red now? Does me making a matter-of-fact statement make it true? But this is what you're doing.

There's some pipeline in your head that both good and bad treatment lead to narcissism and that narcissism means low self-esteem when the actual word is derived from a mythological character who loved his reflection so much that he drowned in a pond. Your thesis sounds like the only thing you paid any attention to in university, and even that must have been absolute nonsense. Despite this, it's like a brainworm of yours

im not reading all that shit
also im just posting this as a test
have a free bump

I'm using psychobabble I don't even understand

Kill yourself pseud

No, it doesn't confuse us. The thing about it that angers us is the reddit cuck mindset and just world theory nonsense.

how much of that is by your own hands?

none im perfectly primed like my father was
the toolset is the same but the world has changed to curb me out of it

You refuse to acknowledge that things can be good for you.

yes retard hence my self improvement and gym routine
but that is extraordinary effort for something my fore-father wouldv'e gotten without trying
i vote accordingly for a paradigm shift away from feminisma nd a return to traditionalism retard
liberalism is being slowly quashed by me and my kind from social acceptability
why do you think we're seeing a global right-wing swing in the masses

Anyone who disagrees with you must be "in the other group"

no shit sherlock the loneliness epidemic is an almost universal experience to majority of me
and since healthy "chads" dont browse this place that narrows the candidates down to delusional foids and aids ridden armchair psychiatrist faggots
they way you phrase yourself gives off the impression that you've been for applauded decently phrased basic observation through out your life
your argument/rhetoric lacks substance

You did this to yourself, and you just openly admitted to it

ahh yes i through my own volition with zero influence from the society and circumstances around me have decided to betray myself
and chosen to not have a better life that i just can if i stopped complaining so much
unironically kill yourself retard
my loneliness is a symptom of a larger societal problem faced by our species
if i was an isolated case i'd have accepted my fate but im unironically not alone in this experience

people underestimate the effect of social media and the internet on dating and meeting people in general, everyone has the mindset that they can just replace someone instantly with another person obviously boomers and older people got rejected less they dated on easy mode in comparison to younger people

They do disregard the opinions of others sometimes, especially when things like status come into play. This is why it's so difficult to get narcs help in a professional setting. They disregard the opinion of the person trying to help them.
But, at the same time, they don't disregard people's opinions in a personal capacity. This is why they're so vulnerable to criticism, the other person's opinion really gets under their skin. Really shallow criticisms that an average person could either take, or brush off, the narc cannot handle.
You are correct about their delusion of false self. Their perception of themselves does not align with who they are. They might think they're a nice person when they're actually a total asshole, for example. And if someone else tells them that they're really an asshole, the narc will get really angry about this and often lash out with petty insults. But at the same time they'll pretend like they don't care about the other persons opinion, and try to act as if they're unaffected.

These and others said it. Rejection is part of life, but so is success. If you are getting nothing but rejection, it is understandable to be a bit jaded.

because if you did drink it, that would make you like everyone else who is drinking water

i've been reported to hr multiple times and cold approaches don't work just chip away at my soul
instagram tindr and whatever dating app there is, are all busts
none of the women in my workplace are interested in me if not outright taken
i through the now encouraged hypergamous standards of the normie women have been precluded from viability

Confidence breeds success, not the other way around. Confidence comes first. The confidence to try precedes the success.

You want the reward before you've even completed the job.

you keep implying i haven't made an attempt and im unsure why you think that
do you genuinely believe that despite having the chosto dissect your psued takes i lack the basic self awareness to just "do the thing" and make my life better
a child of plenty refuses to even comprehend a life of scarcity it seems
are you in the habit of assuming your'e right before forming your arguments cause you keep using fallacies left right n centre
your'e the psuedes psued i've come across frfr no cap

I understand human behavior quite well, and that's not just my opinion.

What were you doing in university?

What do you mean? I was studying psychology for the purposes of becoming a forensic psychologist. Working in the residential treatment made me question if forensic psychology was really where I wanted to go though, because working with people in that regard is more of what I'm interested in.

without providing the logic behind them.

I'll ask you again, what do you mean by "the logic behind them"? Are you trying to get me to provide you the cause and effect relationship? As if it's known why specific stimulus cause specific outcomes? It's unknown. We don't know WHY too much approval causes the same outcomes as too much rejection.
We also don't know why too much rejection can have the opposite effect you would expect, and will actually make people really strong and resilient.
There's a ton of different schools of thought as to why these things happen, and they often disagree with each other.

I keep asking you how does someone gassing you up make you insecure

Nobody knows why this happens. I'm not going to make random guesses as to why this happens. I can tell you what happens, not why. Pretty much everyone agrees that too much approval is not good and causes those effects, though.

Sky is red.

The sky is sometimes red. Specifically when the sun is setting and rising, and other circumstances. The statement does not make it true, but the observation of the truth is what the statement is based on.
If I look at the sky, and see it's red. I can safely make the statement "the sky is red" and know it's true. If I then ask other people if they've ever seen a red sky and they say yes, then there's even more merit to the statement.

a child of plenty refuses to even comprehend a life of scarcity

yep, normies unironically believe WE CHOOSE to suffer willingly

this sounds like kafka trap where you go around calling people narcs and their negative reaction is used as further proof they're narcs.

forensic psychologist

get ready for being browbeaten by DEI hr women and forced to be lenient to nigger suspects so that the department doesnt have to make uncomfortable implications about the nigger overrepresentation in criminal statistics
congrats i just compressed your future career down to a single post and i didnt even need to get a gay fake degree in university

I mean, you could just take this to the next level and note suffering is just part of life. If you ask her out and get rejected you suffer, if you don't ask her out you still suffer.

All just becomes a question of what you want to suffer with. Some guys not trying would hurt them more so they keep asking till they get "yes"s other guys will hurt thinking about the rejection so they don't ask them out. Really to even care what others do or don't do in this framing is to admit you are worried what the other side gets out of it. I don't care if you do or don't ask girls out, I don't care what you think of women or dating, because it changes nothing with my life directly and the path I wanted to walk.

Bro, guys have competition but no cohesion. We are being forced to measure our influence and this competition is being inflated like a big bubble...
But the girls have a close-knit team. They have friends and girlfriends for all occasions. And then they believe a certain dictate: either it's status or it's dislike. If earlier their conversations were about the house household or children now their conversations are about hatred of men. This is facilitated by various coaches psychologists and gossips...

I've committed sudoku at your request, anon. This is now the ethereal ghost of my spirit communicating with you through sheer power of will accessing the internet via the ethereal plane. I fear I may be stuck in the internet forever now, though. It seems as though thousands of years have passed over these few seconds.

none

Seems like you're unwilling to accept the role you've played in creating the position you're in. You're the one who is in control of his own actions, your father does not control your actions.

return to traditionalism retard

Sounds like you've joined a cult. Something tells me you like Hitler.

and since healthy "chads" dont browse this place

You're very uninformed. You don't even know that a decent amount of the "incels" are just Chads shitposting. That's funny.

gives off the impression that you've been for applauded

Only later in life. My upbringing was less than pleasant. Lots of downplaying of my achievements, being talked down to by adults, bullied by my peers, etc. Eventually it got bad enough I just started beating the shit out of people, lots of repressed anger as a kid.

zero influence from the society

No one said that. Merely that you willingly did what you did. You made the choices.

If you've been reported, you're clearly doing something wrong. And don't pull the old "it's because I'm ugly". That shit is so stupid.
You don't cold approach people and just ask them out, that violates social norms. Especially in a work place setting. Asking someone out in the first instance of a meeting is a big no no. You need to first create a relationship through repeated interactions.

This is something I see a lot of incels talk about, they cold approach someone they've never had a conversation with in a completely inappropriate setting and ask them out in some really awkward way. Don't do that. I can explain why, but it's a really long explanation. In short, it's because you're placing a bunch of expectations onto a stranger. And that's a big no no, you don't do that.

you keep implying i haven't made an attempt

I can almost guarantee you that 99.99% of your attempts were made in a context where even YOU knew they would fail. I'm not saying you didn't try, I'm saying you're setting yourself up for failure.

are you in the habit of assuming your'e right

Only when people spell things out, you, and most incels in general, spell it out quite clearly why they have problems. It's just that they cannot see the writing on the wall.

Really, what it seems like you're describing is the lack of a father figure, which means you were never taught how to do these things. These are the types of things a father teaches his son.

you knew they would fail

yes, he intentionally asks women out to be rejected on purpose, please just stop giving advice, you're a retard

It's so funny how you have to make up a whole lore on the actions of people you don't know on the march just to justify your fair world fallacy.

Really, what it seems like you're describing is the lack of a father figure

I've said it before, and I'll say it again:

"The 1%" isn't some Monopoly-man-type figure, holding bags of cash. NOBODY has spending money, except for the select few, we're talking 0.001%.

You know what the REAL 1% is?

People with two parents and property.

They are the most privileged people on the planet right now.
It doesn't matter if you work hard every day of your life, and are mad-talented, and are 6'+, and have an IQ of 130, and several degrees, and a stellar reputation that arrives in the room 30 minutes before you even get there.

If you didn't grow up with property and two parents, you're perma-fucked. Might as well just put another coin in and start the game all over again from the start.

I've actually not called anyone in particular a narc, I'm just pointing out what narcs do and don't do.
But, I could certainly use my knowledge to hurt people in the way you're describing, if I really wanted to. Psychology is a tool, and any tool can be used as a weapon.
But also, narcissists do have a very specific way of responding to the critique of being called a narc. It's a very over the top reaction that's not a proportional reaction to being called a narc. Calling a normal person a narc doesn't get that reaction, they don't explode into anger. A typical response is mild annoyance at worst, or curiosity at best.
Yeah, that doesn't really happen. Wonderful thing about red states. We turn criminals into swiss cheese. We're not afraid of appearing racist by locking criminals away.
Quite literally, yes. Someone who has failed a lot will seek out failure. Why might they do this, you ask? Because failure is what they know. Succeeding is very often more scary than failure. Succeeding would hurt more because there's something at stake now.
This is a well known psychological phenomenon. It's often referred to as self sabotage. I'm sure you've done it too.
I didn't make anything up, he said he was reported to HR and that he cold approached people. What did I make up? The way the sentence is structured makes it seem like those are two clauses dependent on each other. Maybe I misread it and the HR reports and the cold approaches are unrelated.

the role you've played in creating the position you're in

doth the fish play a role in the pollution of the ocean?
are you retarded?

joined a cult. Something tells me you like Hitler.

is that meant to be a gotcha ?
nigga my views are going mainstream sorry not sorry

are just Chads shitposting

cope lmao
chads dont need to reassure others of thier chadliness
chads are self evident which you aren't lmao

was less than pleasant, Lots of downplaying of my achievements, being talked down to by adults, bullied by my peers, etc

only the most sheltered fuckass tards use that phrasing
you aint had a shitty childhood unless you've endured poverty/molestation
all else is just shitty sheltered shitlib therapy talk to become in with a percieved victim group to gain validation from peers
cuz thats what modern women have been reduced to a race to be the biggest victim

Merely that you willingly did what you did. You made the choices.

yeah retard hence th global push aganst feminist liberalism
me and my ilk will overthrow you gay multi culti femal liberation movement
if not in this lifetime then the next you wont last cuz women can't sustain shit on their own

you're clearly doing something wrong

perhaps but then again my trade of choice is saturated with token women with do nothing email jobs and inflated egos

and just ask them out, that violates social norms

sen my lads do that multiple tims before
works about 60% of the time hell one of them met his wife that way
not to mention how that was the primary method for my father's generation
the societal norms have been changed recently to preclude average men like me it wont kill you to acknowledge that

You did. You invented a whole story about what he said in order to justify it.
Then made a generalization based on the behavior presented on your story in order to say that's what incels are doing .

What did I made up?

All of the following:
you're clearly doing something wrong. And don't pull the old "it's because I'm ugly". That shit is so stupid.
You don't cold approach people and just ask them out, that violates social norms. Especially in a work place setting. Asking someone out in the first instance of a meeting is a big no no. You need to first create a relationship through repeated interactions.

I'm saying you're setting yourself up for failure

are you retarded?
what do you even mean im not banging my head into a rock repeatedly here
I'm following my instincts and the methods that worked since my fore-father'ss past
i haven't changed im born of long lineage that has survived since the dawn of time, the world has and for the worse at that
Its like saying plastic pollution is my fault cuz i dont put the cup in le correct token bsket instead of being the fault of the multi-million dollar industries willingly using it and the government that is unwilling to clamp that shit at the force
prescribing all of society's destructive habits as the individual's fault is such a bugman take holy shit

what it seems like you're describing is the lack of a father figure, which means you were never taught how to do these things. These are the types of things a father teaches his son.

nigger i did follow my father's ootstep but that shit don't fly in modern society clearly
you keep repeating the dating equivalent boomer myth of walking up with a resume and a firm handshake
no amount of picking myself up by the bootstraps is gonna solve women's larger innate instinct to whoredom in absence of firm societally enforced standard be it religion or basic social shaming

the force

*the source

We don't know WHY too much approval causes the same outcomes as too much rejection.

We do know - it doesn't. There's a reason why it's those with less fortunate looks that tend to be withdrawn and with low self-esteem and why it's rare to see a really attractive shy guy or girl. First doesn't get validation and the other does, hence first is confident and the other isn't.

In one case, there's clear cause and effect. Rejection leads to low confidence, because there's no rational reason to be confident around people when they keep rejecting you. The opposite is true when it comes to validation. Validation leads to high confidence, because there's no rational reason to not confident around people when they keep accepting you.

Compare this with what you say. Heavy rejection leads to low confidence but sometimes to high confidence because ???, but at the same time, heavy validation also leads to low confidence but sometimes to high confidence because ???. And worst of all that there's no difference between the two in terms of outcomes, both have the same chance of spanning someone high confidence or low. I keep asking you the logic behind it, because it doesn't make sense based on intuition and the observable world, unlike the upper explanation. It's like saying a functional car with no fuel has the same chance of starting as a car with a full tank.

Take off your clothes and go into the street, will you be confident? No, because you'll embarrass yourself. You can keep your clothes on, but an ugly person cannot change their face. And when they go outside, they'll know from past experiences of being rejected, that it is likely to happen again and thus won't be feeling confident, whereas the opposite is true for someone handsome.

There is no truth, no logic, no reasoning in what you say. You just say things as a matter of fact "oh I know" or even "we know", and then you just expect to be taken purely on your word. Who is we in this case?

Calling a normal person a narc doesn't get that reaction

i imagine telling a bunch of depressed outcasted dudes commiserating they're all just narcs would not be well recieved as well.

You don't cold approach people and just ask them out, that violates social norms. Especially in a work place setting. Asking someone out in the first instance of a meeting is a big no no. You need to first create a relationship through repeated interactions.

thsi si the norm for majority of human history retard
men seek and women wish to be seeked
men fear rejction and women fear being unwanted
hence the entire human courting ritual is women dropping hint to a "deserving" man that they are interested if they were to seek them

modern society takes away agency from men by policing unwanted seeking too severly while women are give unrestricted power to sleep around
this doesnt affect chads who women want nor does it effect Stacy that get showered with male attention regardless
the one left holding the bag are mid women who inflate their ego getting with chad for a one night stand and thus preclude mid men hoping for a chad that never seeks thems out
and obviously it screws normal non-chad men who are left outright excluded from the ritual and forced to settle with the leftover single mother/used up roasty hafgs

religion solved this by making motherhood the ideal of female lives and having men compete and excel for their attention while ensuring almost every man gets a virgin bride for himself
liberalism in modern society pushes all that away whoredom is incentivized while nonchad men are brow beaten into paying into the misery machine tax
its not sustainable

Doth the human play a role in the pollution of the planet?
Quit acting like you aren't the one making choices in your life.

nigga my views are going mainstream

Oh, so you're a normie? Weird flex but ok.

Chads dont need to reassure others of thier chadliness

did you misread what I just said? Chads are roleplaying as incels and posting incel rhetoric as a shitpost. Being an incel is a meme.
If you think there's no Chads on this board, you're a fool.

you aint had a shitty

I'm not here to play the "who had a worse childhood" Olympics. Playing the game of "who is the bigger victim" is something libcucks do. It's kind of interesting how the nazi lovers are exactly the same as the commies.

perhaps

Also interesting. You're willing to recognize that you potentially might be in the wrong, but you're not willing to go further than that before you start shifting the blame again. What is it that you're proecting yourself from? Why is it that you won't dig deeper into that? Afraid to find that you're actually the fish shitting in the ocean too?

sen my lads do that

And clearly you're doing something different. And also, it was not how things were done in previous generations. Men didn't randomly cold approach women with whom they had no previous relationship and ask them out. Now, obviously, I'm not saying it didn't happen at all, but it wasn't the majority.
Most men built a relationship over repeated encounters then ask them out. Just like today. Cold approaches only really work in bars and hookup settings.

misspells to avoid the robot

god damn that is sad OP

He clearly did something wrong, he's acting out of turn. There's no question about it, or else he wouldn't have been reported to HR.
I didn't make up that he cold approaches people, he said that.
And cold approaching people, especially in work place settings IS a big no no.

You don't just walk up to random women and say "wanna be my gf???" that's a violation of societal norms.
The only time that works is if you meet a new person and you both hit it off. But outside of that one very specific context, you don't do that.

Anyway, I've got shit to do today, have fun.

so you're a normie? Weird flex but ok.

you know shit's dire when even the normies are taking notice
ig your libshit echochamber's pretty out of touch

incel rhetoric as a shitpost

man first you make out chads as these men of action slaying pussy and living life now you pivot to them being petty dramafags who larp on r9k for internet good boy points
pick a lane

perhaps

i concede that my virginity means i dont know everything since i've been gatekept from dating
but you take a humbling admittence and proceed to basedjak it like im subscribing to your cpe argument
such a dishonest way of framing it

And clearly you're doing something different.

no shit einstein im not exactly elvis prisely knocking women out with my looks
but my field of work that would let me have "repeated encounters" is saturated with the worst kind of women
what exactly am i supposed to do?
ditch a well paying job so i can have repeated encounters with women at the park/bar/club?

Cold approaches only really work in bars and hookup settings.

not for me bud

the social contract is no longer a fair deal for me and men like me
society will burn if it remains that way (it has already begun)
simple as

else he wouldn't have been reported to HR.

you've never spurned a blue-hair pronouns in bio type have you?
complmment another female colleague's work in her presence and her bruised ego did the rest
you underestimate how easy it is ruine an average man's social credit as a woman
who cares i quit that place long ago
being vilified by mids isnt exactly making me charitable to their plights now is it

samefagging like that isnt helpin yyour case anon san
have more subtlety than that atleast change up your phrasing for plausible deniability
next you'l pivot to "omg schizo le ebin take pills" to derail the conversation
its all so tiresome

you write like an absolute faggot and that is enough for me to dislike you, but you are extremely proud at the same time. Your worldview doesn't mean shit in reality, anon might've found a bitch that reported him just because she didn't want his attention. He might've done something wrong, but you cannot be 100% sure of that. Open your eyes or kys naive retard

well, what next?
waiting for me to gloat so you can post your pretyped cope pilpul reply
making me look like a fool who called it too early?
despite my autism i understand conversation dynamics pretty well and ii see no goo d disproval of my argument yet

erhm akshually getting *too much* approval is bad too so you shouldn't complain about being left out to dry with zero approval

erhm akshually the dated and organic courting dynamics don't exist and your at fault for not adapting to the shitty newer standards that favour self destructive behavuiour in women

erhm akshually i have a degree in cucked feminized version of psychology so my opinions trump your lived experiences

erhm akshually you lack confience because you chooe to be miserable the constant rejection from all women has nothing to do with the fact

arguing with a genuine through and through bug man is so fuucking exhausting man