I've resigned myself to the fact that my only chance of finding a husband is through online channels but even that's not working. Dating apps are pavlovian and all my attempts to slide into dms have failed.
just go outside
Good point, but consider this:
It's pretty easy to find dates as a homosexual.
If only I was born a gay male, fuck my chud life
all my attempts to slide into dms have failed
How? Are you that much of a social outcast?
Kinda yeah. Or the relationship wouldn't pan out or grow more than exchanging a few messages.
are you racist by any chance?
Where have you been looking?
Then your personality might be very bland. Anons say looks matter the most, but they won't help you if you are not fun to talk to. What are some of the ice breakers you use?
all my attempts to slide into dms have failed.
your profile must be boring then. just jestermaxx and they'll slide into your dms instead.
Can you please shut your fuckin mouth I don't even fuckinf care
On various social medias, mostly instagram.
I can admit that I'm not that great at holding conversation. I usually just meme with people, idk lol.
It helps if you don't have a cock
reading this while I got ghosted again makes me feel you're lying about everything
Seems like a bad choice to find a proper guy but idk where people even hang these days
Online communities be kinda dead people use like 2-3 websites at this point
I can admit that I'm not that great at holding conversation.
Get good.
I usually just meme with people, idk lol.
Post your best meme. Go.
jestermaxx? like whore out? no thanks
no like be funny, talented, extroverted, have some kind of persona that you project. or just post about something you're passionate about, be opinionated, antagonistic even, but give people some reason to be curious about you.
I've also talked to likeminded people on X, but that website is somehow worse. I just thought I'd be married by this year or even the next but I can't even get a talking stage. lol
Most of my "memes" are on my phone sorry but I have a feeling they're weak too
Oh okay I get you. I tend to be really reserved except for on this website since it's anonymous. All my socials are private. But if my goal is finding a husband I guess I have to show semblance of personality.
no like be funny, talented, extroverted
oh okay
How would you rate your looks, OP? I hate to say it but you can get away with being bland as hell as long as you look okay
Hmm do you do like... anything? No hobbies or whatever where you come into contact with guys?
yeah most people don't wanna do long-distance, who knew
I'm decent-looking.
Yes I do have a couple of hobbies & interests. Maybe I'm just coming off as bland when I talk to men. I tend to really overthink every message I send.
Okay
well
You probably come off as cold and aloof
Be sure to ask them questions back and seem interested in their stuff
Be sure to ask them questions back and seem interested in their stuff
unironically good advice. when you don't even pretend to give a shit about the other person, the link is doomed
Online dating has the absolute lowest statistical chance of success. People who are engaging in online dating are not looking for long term relationships, they're looking for hook ups.
Online dating is simply a cope for people who are too afraid to go out into the world and risk looking like a fool and embarrassing themselves.
I think men are more forgiving when it comes to social awkwardness
What do you talk about? You kinda need to connect over something to break the ice
Could be something as simple as music or a show you both enjoy
Online is the only place to meet non-normie people unless you live in a fuckhuge city full of events
Be sure to ask them questions back and seem interested in their stuff
but dont force it, its energy-draining for someone to turn around what you say and treat it like a box to be checked. Every gf i've had i complain that they aren't interested in what i say, then they immediately start asking low-effort questions they clearly aren't interested in but are a mental burden on me to answer. They probably don't even read the whole answer i say, they just view it as taking care of a chore they were supposed to do
Same but I'm a man maybe we can exchange notes
I've been mass joining Discord servers and trying to be active in the communities hoping to be noticed and to find a real girl to talk to
I try to stay active in the VCs because I can't really express myself well through text
I'm also looking for a nerdy girlfriend so I've been searching for non normie niche communities gaming anime etc
yes, you could be my wife if you dress up as a maid.
That's the exact opposite of true, you meet almost exclusively normies.
Wtf is this bait thread?
Online dating has the absolute lowest statistical chance of success
Isn't that the newest statistic from trust me bro & CO
Tbqh this gen is just cooked
Social spaces IRL disappeared alongside the internet dying
Best bet is finding someone in high school or college, afterwards it gets way more difficult even to just meet someone
I have a feeling they're weak too
Hey! Don't let your past struggles bring you down. I'm sure your memes are fire and will make your future husband giggle or at least exhale air from their nose to indicate it amused them. Have some confidence. I believe in you!
;_;
Most of my friends have been in LTR after meeting people online. But if you're referring to dating apps, I agree.
It depends on the person I'm talking to, some conversations I've had were strictly flirtatious and others were about things that we both liked. But again I only have a handful of talking stage experiences. Now that I think about it I feel like I'm a better conversator IRL than online. Which is ironic, right? I just have never been able to actually find someone just off the street.
I feel like you'll eventually find a lonely egirl since you're actively putting yourself out there. I don't really do that.
Exactly this
I graduated a couple years ago now I wageslave
It's fuckimg impossible to find someone, let alone make friends, once you leave college. I fucking beg every robot in college right now to make at least (one) friend and stop being a moping loser because once you go out into the real world, your life belongs to work.
Try doing voice calls if the platform allows it
Thirded, haven't had an IRL friend since college in 2012
Why would you want to get married anyway
feel like I'm a better conversator IRL than online. Which is ironic
Nah talking to people IRL is way easier than online and I say that as a sperg
find someone just off the street
Doubt anyone does that at this point (picking people up on the streets). It's more like university, through friends of friends at house parties, concerts if you're lucky... how old are u anyway
you'll eventually find a lonely egirl since you're actively putting yourself out there
Maybe but I feel like E girls in my country pretend to be normies and blend in i have to learn to filter the normies and the scams also I fuking hate socializing and I get exhausted quickly i Wonder if I can last
I feel like E girls in my country pretend to be normies
Does that matter? If a girl is interested you wouldn't want her because she's a "normie"?
Oh I forgot I'm turning fucking twenty six this year. Lol lmao
Good luck, I'm a year older and have pretty much accepted it's just not happening atp
Same for my single guy friends in the age range, at this stage the options are either single moms or truly messed up people, so might as well give up
Are you truly accepting that it's over? I can't bring myself to think like that. If you have a decent paying job, you have something going for you.
i'll be your husband i don't have anything else going on really
Nah I'm broke on top, got nothing going on
It's way more common to be stuck as single nowadays compared to previous gens, almost normal, we just missed the mark
I don't use social media or visit events either, so unless a gf magically teleports into my apartment one of these days it's benito finito for me
If a girl is interested you wouldn't want her because she's a "normie"?
I know beggars cant be choosers but I fear being in a relationship with someone who doesn't accept my simple hobbies like games anime etc because they think its childish or something like that and who doesn't try to understand me I also wish I had someone to share these hobbies with because I don't have anyone who enjoys the things I do
Okay come over then ;_;
ok wya babe