I'm curious, in which environment do you need to grow to be like that?
If someone say that shit in real life I wouldn't even have a conversation with them and would just laugh at their face
I'm curious, in which environment do you need to grow to be like that?
It's called cope, we need to cope in some way in order to not go insane
You haven't refuted his point. Incels are hung up about virginity because they know with any comparison at all to other men they fall flat on their face.
I'm not a cuck. If that isn't enough for you, you're too far gone already
Also I'm 6'1, fit and have a big cock. It doesn't matter if the guy that fucked my woman was a manlet with a small dick or a giant with a huge penis. It isn't an argument to begin because relationships shouldn't be based around comparison and transaction
If someone say that shit in real life I wouldn't even have a conversation with them and would just laugh at their face
That's a truth nuke though.
You want a virgin because you know you can't beat the competition
instead of grooming children why not just kill all the competition
I want to constantly COMPETE and be compared to the best trait of every guy a jaded whore with an enormous cock count fucked.
lmao
nobody on r9k has ever denied this
My wife had sex until she couldn't pull chads as well as she used to die to age and then settled down with me in a loveless relationship because I'm the only one pathetic enough to take her while still having the income for her to bother
There is nothing to refute because they didn't make an argument they just lied.
you NEED to compete
Those same people talk about "love" and say that appearance doesn't matter btw. They contradict themselves at every turn
No one engages with my impotent, rage filled insults
If a retard walked up to you in public and called you names would you argue back with them or just walk away because they're visibly mentally challenged?
Imagine kissing the mouth of a 30 year old roastie who has sucked on multiple cocks before meeting you.
You want a virgin because you know you can't beat the competition
Well yeah, I'm not a competitive guy I don't want to be in constant competition with some guys constantly. I also don't want to be judged for not being good at sex, what was i supposed to do? have sex with prozzies and meaningless casual sex all the time? I just wanted a cozy relationship where we can go on picnics and decorate the house or something why does everything have to be this duel to the death?
laughing at someone is badass
Is this nigger serious?
Women are whores and simps will defend them. News at 11.
There is a thing called being settled for, no one wants to be settled for
I'm obviously not competing with anyone if the woman's single
maybe I'm a bit too drunk, but what is this retarded bait about? You do realize, that anybody, who wants to marry and have babies is a fucking normie who never belonged on the internet in the first place, right? fucking RIGHT?
It's not that chad thundercock like myself opposes marriage as an idea of marital fidelity and other good things. No, we oppose marriage on principle and because we won't get fucked by the government and females with the divorce. MGTOW, OP. Have sex, if you're willing to risk it. Marry, if you wish to sign your life away and inevitably lose at life.
There are only two kinds of divorced raped by the law and systems men: Those who already were and those who will be in the future.
I just wanted a cozy relationship where we can go on picnics and decorate the house or something why does everything have to be this duel to the death?
That's just how the modern world is. Everything is a competition now and relationships are no longer le comfy and wholesome like they used to be.
Also, survival of the fittest. That's how it's like in the animal kingdom. It's all competition. The female chooses the most masculine one to mate with, while the weak ones die off.
relationships shouldn't be based around comparison and transaction
What is this claim based on? They are absolutely in all cases based on these two things more than any other feature.
refuting this point would be like telling a kid santa isn't real. let him believe he's not being settled for.
why does everything have to be this duel to the death?
Those who want to live, let them fight, and those who do not want to fight in this world of eternal struggle do not deserve to live.
i dont give a shit
i dont want no nigger dna in my precious women or any mens cum leftovers really
so virgin only
Because being better than 199 men in everything is extreme delusion.
John had a bigger dick, Tom was better at eating her out, Mike was great at making her laugh, blah blah
You aren't competing with any one man, you are competing with a frankenchad that's an amalgamation of all men she was with. She will remember the best guy for a particular thing each time you do the thing.
You may be the best at one particular thing, congrats, that leaves everything else.
Those guys call incels delusional but they think they're the main character kek
She chose me because I'm the best
Yeah, yeah, keep dreaming. Unless she fucked only literal retards that's very unlikely to be the truth. Confidence is just one step away from being delusion, and the vast majority of them are into the delusion camp
Ah, yes, but she got roasted and ghosted by those guys. So she has chosen a carefully calibrated balance between
what is good in a man
and
what traits allow me to keep a man
This optimum is what allows a "long term relationship" to function - obviously any woman can get pump and dumped by someone out of her league in one way or another, as even chads scrape the bottom of the barrel now and then. The "she chose me because I'm the best" is cope, but "she chose me because I'm the best she can get to stick around" is true. This may mean she's "settling" but she is typically very aware that upgrading from you isn't realistic and that your relationship is essentially secure for this reason.
Growing up I realised that in life there are always going to be winners and losers. Not everyone can be a winner so why compete in something like love when all you're doing is setting yourself up for roulette failure as it's nearly never the case to be the best at anything in a room. Most men are losers in society by definition of there being men who will be winners at something. Love and marriage are the one thing in life where men shouldn't compete amongst ourselves as we do with everything, we should all be winners in it. Else if you're the average man and a loser in nearly every regard that else matters why bother in life at all.
Every man should be a winner in their woman's love so that they at least can be the best at something.
that's an optimistic interpretation, but it's still the difference between rational choice and pussy tingles. The relationship, even if secure, is likely to be very transactional and sex used as a prize to get something.
for non-chads, the choice is between a 3/10 that's genuinely obsessed and a 7/10 that settles.
Your last point is essentially correct, but only speaking to the extremes - you can get a 5/10 that's had chad before a couple times by pump and dump but is under no illusions she could keep him around (or even get him casually very often) and is genuinely happy and feels lucky to have you. Or a 6 that's kind of settling but not really mad about it to the point she hates you for it.
nearly never the case to be the best at anything in a room
this is insane to me, you guys must be massive retards as well as being physically frail and with no skills of any kind
In a room of 100 average men what are you the best at? Are you the best at multiple skills or just 1? It's not necessarily about whether I am the best at anything, I don't believe I am inherently the bottom of a loser, but whether realistically those 100 men can be the best if only 1 of them can be a winner.
Why deprive all 99 of being winners in love? Do you hate them or are you an innate winner who doesn't like other men winning at something only you can naturally win at?
But they didn't "win" against 199 dudes. They waited for their turn.
Yes, but your description of 5/10 is essentially the same as for 7/10, but with higher conviction she can't do better beyond pure sex. She may be nicer, but it's still logic based. Even non-chads can get the genuine pussy tingles obsession if the SMV difference is high enough.
Do you hate them or are you an innate winner who doesn't like other men winning at something only you can naturally win at?
Both. I'm just competitive by nature, so I do in fact want to fight and win anywhere I can. You can't believe how often I wind up racing some like-minded guy on the highway. A complete listing of all skills and physical traits between me and 99 other guys would in fact make me insane though because, as you rightly state, at best I'm probably only the best on like 5 out of 50 things on the list. But, best in a few and beating the average in most is the best I can hope for.
You're the retard one to think that most men are useless. Do you know how many millionaires there are? Way more than you'd expect
There's lots of losers but there's lots of "winners" too. The random guy you see on the street might be a super skilled fighter or something like that. If you want to play this little competition cuckery, at least don't underestimate your opponents
It is well and good to always strive for an competitive attitude in life, competition is nature. Love however is the one issue that I find must not be resorted to winner takes all scenarios or comparative competition. I hope you understand that of the millions of things to be the best in you should always strive to be the best at but in the most important one, love, men shouldn't compete over women as just another partner or just another experience to her. Every man winning at just this and if else only this will be at least the glue that can hold together a strong, otherwise competitive society from sliding into sexual nihilism and life's frustrations at the realisation that you are genetically or environmentally inadequate to be her best. Without this carrot other men will simply cease to compete and society with suffer for it.
Don't cry about mass shootings then, it's just survival of the fittest.
I wonder what kind of retard you have to be to think that anyone on this board is crying about mass shootings
I don't think people here deny that. The problem is the average guy is, by definition, average at sex. If a girl fucks 10 guys, then chances are pretty good she's had one better than you. It's a perfectly normal thing to be worried about. Do you really think you're better than EVERY previous boyfriend she's had? You've gotta be better than 10 guys. They only have to be better than (you), because all it takes is one better, and she will think of him every single time you fuck her.
The other problem is that you are not actually competing against one other guy, but rather against an aggregate of all the best qualities of her exs. She had good chemistry with Chad, and Brad had a big dick, and Thad was great at eating her out. All those guys were deficient in other ways, but she only remembers and compares the ways in which they are better than you. Even an above average guy cannot compete against a Frankenstein boyfriend that has all the best qualities of every boyfriend.
Even an above average guy cannot compete against a Frankenstein boyfriend that has all the best qualities of every boyfriend.
Yeah, but if you're not a virgin yourself (tall ask, I know) then the same thing applies in reverse - I had good chemistry with Stacy, Katy had the tightest pussy and Macy had wild head game. My gf cannot compete against this frankenslut (not even close actually) but they're not here right now, so she is good enough and the overall quality of what I get from her weighted against the odds of finding or especially locking down something better with somebody else makes it worth it to stay with her. Fucking more girls does not make this calculation less legitimate, it makes it MORE legitimate because I have a more robust set of data to compare new partners to when making the targeted decision about who to pump and dump or who to stay with.
redditors youre doing it wrong youre supposed to depict YOURSELF as the chad
It's a competition based not on merit, but inheritance.
I can't change my fucking height, nor my dick size, nor my face. I can get a good job, a few skills, I can do good things, but what does that matter?
If I'm gonna be compared to those motherfuckers constantly, I'm out.
I've played this game before, and it's the exact kind of hell people describe here. Stay away.
not reading the thread. femcels aren't real, all women have to do is exists and not say "no" to get laid ergo
virgin: you outcompeted every man on the planet
whore: you were in 100th place
There's like a reasonable limit to the amount of women your partner can have without it becoming something embarrassing for both parties and not some strange testament of how much she loves you because she chose you at that point and time.
On the counterpoint I think there's something sweet about being with your first love, and that's not necessarily a bad thing. People can be happy with their partners without them having to explore like some weird sluts like to impose on their friends.