Aunt wants me to start dating

aunt wants me to start dating

ask me about my taste in men blah blah blah

gets mad when i say older men with dad bods

"forbids" me from trying to go out with guys like that and only wants me to date men closer to my age

still too afraid to date but whats wrong with wanting a guy with a little more experience you know? i just feel like guys around my age (early 20s) are too immature

Your Aunt is right
Retard.

Written by a gay btw

yeah like a 7 year age gap is "bad"
not gay sorry

yeah like a 7 year age gap is "bad"

I assume you're 23 and wanna date a 30 yo so what stops you from giving an r9k wizard a chance? If you're really a foid kek

I thought you were gonna say more, honestly. If you're older than 21 that's fine imo.

your family has no right to determine who you want to date. It's fine to go for older men, but if you do end up with one, make sure they have a good job, don't do drugs, aren't losers who couldn't sleep with women their own age and preferably without a dad bod as that is an illustration of how little they care about their appearance or outcomes in the long term.

Find yourself a quality man, regardless of age and ignore your fucking family and their bullshit. Move away from them and go no contact if you have to.

Beware your choices though, they have consequences. You'll be fine.

im 22 but yeah 30 would be a good age imo
but dating a guy from here? no way literally unhinged
LITERALLY
its not like im 18 and dating a 40 year old
its funny bc my aunt is the only one with a man in her life so on one hand i feel like she knows what shes talking about but on the other hand like omg stay out of it
all the other women in my life are single mothers though

all the other women in my life are single mothers though

holy shit what is wrong with your family...

but dating a guy from here? no way literally unhinged

ironic, but you're here too

unironically mental illness
to a varying degree but my mom and grandma have it the worst
and bc my mom has it the worst and all that stuff i genetic i have it bad too lol
im better than her though bc i chose to get on meds but she has refused all treatment

im here bc im a loser but i dont wanna date someone from here bc they would also be a loser
like the guy is supposed to be better off than me so he can FIX me

damn you're a walking time bomb

yeah probably lol
i for sure dont think im like marriage material or whatever but like that doesnt mean that i couldnt at least have fun with a guy before he dumps me and i end up killing myself over it

are you at least aware of birth control?

i cant have kids
even if i could i know i never want any

both of my best friends were told they couldn't have kids (by doctors) and guess who are both mothers now?

idk what im supposed to make of that
i like LITERALLY cannot have a biological child

im here bc im a loser but i dont wanna date someone from here bc they would also be a loser

like the guy is supposed to be better off than me so he can FIX me

that's... quite the entitlement. :/ nothing new though

oh you're a tranny? I see

how is that being entitled? dont men WANT a girl who they can fix? or is that just an internet thing and not actually real?
passing but bingo

how is that being entitled? dont men WANT a girl who they can fix? or is that just an internet thing and not actually real?

yeah, but it's like you just want to be given everything while giving nothing in return

no!
i mean what do men like? sex and homecooked meals
i can do that soooo whats the issue?

she's just trying to cure the zoomer male loneliness epidemic, she's looking out for guys on this board.

bingo

oh well what do you mean you didn't know what to make of that? are you really incapable of understanding why real girls shouldn't trust it when they're told they can't have kids?

Whenever I see "dad bot" I have to ask for a visual because 99 out of 100 times it's some delusional cunt who's thinking of a bodybuilder who's just not as shredded as a young roidmaxxer, not an actual working dad who's job isn't bodybuilding.

i mean what do men like? sex and homecooked meals

i can do that soooo whats the issue?

yeah, but this is what normie men want. do you think normie men want to deal with the whole bpd and "save me uwu" bullshit? nah

with the exception of very good looking girls

(not to mention the penis)

uhhhh
yeah?
fuck dude idk?
i have hella daddy issues so when i say dadbod i mean it
i can change my personality if needed i can be whatever he want me to be

i can change my personality if needed i can be whatever he want me to be

then if you can change your personality, why the fuck are you hanging out with the losers here? why don't you stop being a loser?

how to obtain sexually frustrated zoomer gf bros

why don't you stop being a loser?

bpd and excessive childhood trauma makes me incapable of having friendships
for me to stop being a loser i first need to make friends but everytime i try i either self sabotage or get cut off for being too clingy with ppl i just met

i hate that i look a lot like that... but without the glasses and my hair is a bit shorter now
i don't have any experience with relationships however (and i probably never will get any), so all that potential is wasted

anyway, i haven't seen this tripfag here before
guess a month was enough to throw me off the loop

im not anyone important
im just addicted to attention since this is literally all i have lol
or well the only "positive" attention i have since at home im just emotionally abused or whatever
i know i get lots and lots of attention when i whore out so idk could be worse i guess

a common story around this place, unfortunately
but if you're fine with that kind of attention then by all means i guess, i don't really get it despite being invisible most of my life, but i can at least not bash you for it

im not anyone important

like anyone here is that important on a large scale
although to someone, you may just be the one most important person, so don't sell yourself short, anon

for me to stop being a loser i first need to make friends but everytime i try i either self sabotage or get cut off for being too clingy with ppl i just met

ok but then you aren't able to just change yourself to be appealing, you have lots of work to do

An 18 year old wanted to date me when I was 25. I cringed.

:)
i AM appealing at first like the problem isnt meeting ppl the problem is keeping them around
why? sounds normal honestly

perfectly normal. now you're whining about being 5eva alone

that smile somehow makes me wary for some reason...
do i want to know? hmm...

well either way, just to reply to what was in the OP, if you're of age then aunt can't say shit about who you date or not date
you're no longer a child and can make your own decisions

you're no longer a child and can make your own decisions

i think this simple fact is why they are so pushy with me
like im not allowed to grow up or whatever

She was dating a guy a couple of years older at the time and he was kind of an asshole. He went to jail for stealing some guy's moped but even a little while before that I could tell she was trying to monkey branch to me. The two of them stayed together after he got out.

why did she even ask, then?

i just feel like guys around my age (early 20s) are too immature

they are, but so are you lol

i AM appealing at first like the problem isnt meeting ppl the problem is keeping them around

and why do you scare them? being clingy isn't enough reason

It's normal to date someone who's still in high school when you're already well into adulthood? I don't think so lol

i dunno, if i had to hazard a guess, i'd say it's a bit of "controlling goodwill"
lots of that around, we push people around toward what we think is best for them without much regard for what they think

in that regard i'd say to simply ignore them and do whatever you want, even if they show resistance
let's just hope they don't actively try to sabotage your decisions, they can get mad all they want so long as they don't interfere

passing but bingo

Disingenuous, eh?

i AM appealing at first like the problem isnt meeting ppl the problem is keeping them around

this was meant for that

yikes
sure sure im immature but im young so im allowed to be lol
probably bc of my self mutilation hobby and my tendency to use cutting and injuring myself to get what i want
oh i doubt they would interfere
as soon as i can find i guy to move in with im going no contact with my family

probably bc of my self mutilation hobby and my tendency to use cutting and injuring myself to get what i want

yep, you're definitely not finding a normie man anytime soon.

Fuck you for posting that, you deranged asshole.
Stay away from other people.

so im just marked? like what the scars on my arms are gonna scare off men?

this scares the normie man, yeah. personally, i find it depressing, more than scary

acting like this over a few baby cuts

dude...
but no ur right staying away from ppl is probably for the best

of course it's normal? what are you even talking about?

im going no contact with my family

if they're that bad then sure, by all means
build your own family out of friends
but if they're not that terrible i'd highly advise against it, as that'd obliterate your mental health

and do stop self harming if you can help it, find other ways to achieve your objectives
something that preferrably doesn't involve basically blackmailing people
you might stumble on someone who won't care and you'll push it too far, no telling what'll happen then
take better care of yourself, you're the only one you can truly trust unconditionally

its not like im a threat to other ppl though? i mean like to myself? sure but not to any potential bf

you're the only one you can truly trust unconditionally

real
everything i have ever done has been correct and i can do nothing wrong
(i only partly believe this)

Look at me! I am so deranged and mentally ill!

Fucking dick.

yikes

Yeah, it was clearly about him, not me.

It's absolutely not normal unless you're from a third world country or something.

i didnt say this but common
no way you use this site and havent seen worse

its not like im a threat to other ppl though? i mean like to myself? sure but not to any potential bf

yes, of course you are. most people wouldn't want to spend all day stressed about "oh no audreyposter wants to cut herself again, i am walking on eggshells so i have to do whatever she wants". having a boyfriend doesn't mean you have a people that lives with you and feeds you, it means you have to care about their feelings too unless you just want to be homeless again

It's absolutely not normal unless you're from a third world country or something.

it's 100% normal the world over. YOU'RE the weird freak in this situation, not the girl who flirted with you.

if he told me to stop cutting then well i wouldnt but at the least i would start hiding it better so hes not so worried about me i guess

i only partly believe this

you sure? :^)

also, yes, you may very well be a threat to other people by doing that, to complement anon's post
when people care about you, they don't want to be stressed when they think about you, stress will harm their sanity
if people come to care about you, they'll want to see you well, otherwise you'll be hurting them when hurting yourself too (yourself physically, them psychologically)

you sure? :^)

ok lol yeah i fully believe it
anyywayyyyy
yeah idk its probably a hard concept for me to understand since ive pretty much been neglected my whole life that i cant even imagine someone caring about me enough that ME hurting myself would stress them out
i mean my own mother doesnt even care when she sees me with fresh cuts on my arm or finds blood soaked t-shirts in my laundry

if he told me to stop cutting then well i wouldnt

then it's over :> simple as

i cant even imagine someone caring about me enough that ME hurting myself would stress them out

happens more often than you'd think
this whole thing is already fucking with me, even if just a tiny bit
and people may be fucking stupid, but not a lot of them are cold blooded uncaring monsters (incompetence over malice)
we're naturally inclined to care for each other, even if just a bit

just because your mom doesn't give a fuck about you doesn't mean no one ever will
and when that does happen, all i ask is that you honor their care enough not to drive them away
i don't imagine you enjoy being neglected, so what i'm saying is to not squander the opportunity when someone does care for you

how long ago did you stop using your trip?

:(
i guess
no guarantees though

:(

you're young, you're still in time to change. those "baby cuts" won't get you anywhere.

are you putting baby cuts in quotes bc they arent deep enough or bc they look really bad?

Im a dislikable nutjob but I can change that

then change it

I cant, its just who I am

Jesus fucking Christ this really does just go to show the people here, whether male or female, are all the same goddamned breed.

ummmm ok
hella rude

because that's the name you put them, to me they're just a tangible form of stupidity

im not a nutjob either >:(
ohhhhhh
i dont think they are stupid though... i actually really like my scars even if ppl try to like shame me for them or whatever

The weird freak thing to do in that situation would have been to take advantage of her. How much do an 18 year old and a 25 year old have in common? There's only one reason I could possibly have been interested in her.

I was as kind and respectful as I possibly could be while making sure to put a safe amount of distance between us. She got over it and we remained on good terms.

i dont think they are stupid though... i actually really like my scars even if ppl try to like shame me for them or whatever

you're probably better off alone. you're just going to hurt whoever you try to attract, plus you have described yourself as manipulative already. better get your ass out of the computer and find a job

i have a full time job already
but ummm anyway ok sure sure maybe no relationships for me but i can at least still like hookup with ppl right?

A thousand apologies.

I am a incorrigible oddball, but I can alter my personality to be more proper.

Then why dost thou not do so now?

I am simply incapable of doing so. It is, unfortunately, my nature.

Oh fiddlesticks. This truly does indicate that, regardless of the sex of the subject, users of this internet website are all of the same taxonomy.

Does this better fit milady's pallet?

haha ur like hella sarcastic lol :)
i like that ;)
have a body pic

i have a full time job already

ok good

but ummm anyway ok sure sure maybe no relationships for me but i can at least still like hookup with ppl right?

do whatever you want as long as you don't get involved with people in the long term

don't get involved with people in the long term

got it!!

TEEMO REFUSES TO ACCEPT THIS ATTENTIONWHORE IN THIS BOARD

yet again men ruin everything
sigh many such cases

you are also a man and also attention whoring

I am eternally grateful to have been bestowed your heavenly visage.

Now if youll excuse me, Im gonna go puke my guts into the toilet.

not a man but ok
anyway literally just POSTING is attentionwhoring
sooooo UR also guilty of that

SHUT UP YOU FUCKING ATTENTIONWHORE
YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO REDEEMING QUALITIES

last christmas iirc
sometimes i miss it since it was nice when anons came looking for me (sometimes it's nice to be noticed, i guess)
but most of the time i'm thankful since i have more opportunities to have good talks with anons around

the only guarantee i'll ask of you is that you'll try your best
whether you succeed or not isn't as important as you making an effort

uhh you're a tranny, you are a man. not a particularly cute one either.

righhtttt
as if you wouldnt agree to sex if i offered

YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO REDEEMING QUALITIES

and you...do? um lol

not isn't as important as you making an effort

sure
tranny this tranny that as if i dont know im trans
but then again i can only imagine how bad you look lol

calm down bro, just cause you're an ugly tranny doesn't mean you have to lash out at everybody.

not lashing out lol
but i know the whole "ur ugly" thing is just a flat out lie ive been hit on irl by men lol
has a girl ever hit on you anon?

and you...do? um lol

FOR STARTERS, I DON'T CUT MYSELF, I HAVE A LOVING FAMILY AND I DON'T NEED TO RESORT TO MY BODY TO GET ATTENTION LMAO

I HAVE A LOVING FAMILY

so why are you on this shithole and not hanging out with them? very curious...

sure

you don't sound like you believe me but i don't really expect to change your mind with just a few posts, lol
all i'm saying is that when you try, you get somewhere, even if it's not where you planned to be, but it tends to place you closer to that point

anyway, thanks for talking to me today
i'll retire for the night now to watch a movie with mom
gotta make use of what little time i have with family nowadays
have a great night, both you and the other anons around here, stay safe out there

ive been hit on irl by men lol

I'd hit you with a fucking baseball bat.

enjoy the movie anon! <3
ok but could we flirt a little before you do that? maybe let me sit in your lap? hmm?

so why are you on this shithole and not hanging out with them? very curious...

WHAT A CURIOUS PERSON? IDK, MAYBE FOR THE SAME REASON YOU HAVE BEEN HIT ON IRL AND YOU HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO KEEP A SINGLE PERSON TO MARRY YOU
IMAGINE BEING "DESIRABLE" BUT AT THE SAME TIME BEING SO INSUFFERABLE NOBODY WANTS YOU EVEN WITH YOUR "ATTRACTIVE BODY"

i have no idea what you are trying to say your post doesnt make sense

last christmas iirc

i kinda hoped you disappeared from these boards, you keep bumping the retarded foids' threads

as if you wouldnt agree to sex if i offered

If deluding yourself that at least the faggots on this miserable corner of the internet find you attractive really is the last tether you have keeping yourself from suicide you have, please by all means believe it.
Arent I gracious.

last tether

hmmm
no
i dont really know what my tether is but its for sure not that

Clearly is, considering how desperately you fucking insist it.
You can be honest with yourself. Its not like youre fooling anyone else.

um ok?
yes attention from men i get on the internet for posting my body is LITERALLY the only thing keeping me from killing myself

Ugh, go on then. Let's see it.

undesirable i know

Oh hey audreyposter...long time no see. I haven't see you in a while, I took you for dead...

I was really worried about you, the last post you made that I saw was what I presume to be your arms cut in an extremely exquisite fashion. It was the gnarliest SH shit I've seen in a while...and I've seen a lot of mentally ill e-girl arms in my days.

still too afraid to date but whats wrong with wanting a guy with a little more experience you know? i just feel like guys around my age (early 20s) are too immature

If that's what you're looking for, fuck it! Follow your heart, who cares what the moralfags say, amiright? That's what I say.

Though keep in mind that there's an entire industry for and by guys dedicated to seducing girls like you. I shall warn you that since the sexual revolution, early 30s is the age that so many guys finally start getting their life together and finally start receiving female attention, after essentially being defacto incels in their 20s. It's basically when most men start their manwhore phase and that makes them prone to being bitter, manipulative and most of all disloyal than any other cohort of since they finally start having choices after being ignored by women for so, so long.

If you're not careful in the best case you might get pumped & dumped, maybe you will get groomed and abused by a guy with a lot more power in the dynamic than you...and in the worst case you might end up preggo with a little kid with no dad in sight like so, so many clueless women seem to do.

But if you understand the danger and think yourself smart/mature enough to see the red flags and filter...then I don't see why not. Go for it!

ppl know me!!! omg!!!!
wooaaooowwwww :3
im gonna go through with it im gonna get a bf

Yeah, I'd hit it. With a lead pipe.

aw
me and my mom arent speaking right now so i cant really you know...ask her

ppl know me!!! omg!!!!

wooaaooowwwww :3

Yes, you are a known quantity around here. Though I don't think it's that impressive, one thing I've learned is that if you trip or avatarfag long enough here anyone, I mean literally anyone can attract orbiters without even intending to.

Mike the schizo from the letter threads managed to attract an underage e-girl orbiter simply by howling at the moon for years. There's a guy who posts cats and the exact fucking thread about resenting women just shuffled again and again and he had girls asking him out for a chance to change his mind. Though of course not everyone is a chronically online eternal witness like me. I've literally had girls on here recognize me by name and race just by my posting style, despite the fact that I've always been avoidant, anonymous and generally reclusive.

im gonna go through with it im gonna get a bf

I pray for your success Audrey...but I'm gonna be truthful with you....based on your posting history I honestly would not be surprised if you ended up addicted to meth, pregnant or beheaded in a few years. I really have seen so, so many of you come and go over the years and your posts simply scream of a girl just waiting to be broken. If your IRL personality bears any resemblance to your online personality I predict you will undoubtedly attract a certain type of guy. Mentally ill at best and a demon at worst, and he'll take and take and take until there is nothing left to take.

Or maybe you'll be different from every e-girl who came before you. Who knows, maybe you're special.

I say this because...and I know it sounds like the cringiest and sappiest thing ever...unlike most men here, I truly care about you. I care about the health and well being of this community. Believe it or not I consider all of you my friends. You all hold a special place in my heart to me.

Please. Just be careful.
-J