It is kind of wild how many lonely men are out here blaming modern society for their dating struggles. Like no the world did not suddenly become unfair. It just stopped forcing women to marry men we are not attracted to. That is not oppression that is called freedom. Sorry if that is inconvenient for you.
And yeah sure back in the day you probably would have been assigned a wife. But lets not pretend you were living the dream. You would be stuck in some miserable job with no running water and dying at 40 and your wife? Probably fantasizing about literally anyone else. Sounds romantic right?
Now? You live in a time where you have food delivery and endless entertainment healthcare and freedom to be who you want and you are still mad because women are not obligated to date you. You are not oppressed. You are just not the default anymore.
And lets be honest if it is really just about sex you can pay for that. You could literally go get it today if you wanted. So what is it really about? Ego? Entitlement? Because I promise you that no woman is sitting around hoping a guy who hates women finally gives her attention.
Meanwhile we are thriving. We date people we are genuinely attracted to. We can build careers and travel and live alone or just opt out entirely without being told that we are broken. We dont have to settle anymore and yeah that means a lot of men who coasted on bare minimum energy are getting left behind.
That is not a glitch in the system. That is the system working.