Is it better to be an incel or a cuck? At least as a cuck you get sex sometimes and have a wife

I'd rather have a dignity.

As an anon who has a small penis, I can confirm that this sounds fucking awesome

not necesarily. My first girlfriend when i was 17 had a huge thing for cucking and convinced me into it. Within 2 months i went from being able to fuck my gf to getting 1 handjob a week max. The last 4 months of our relationship before she broke up with me and started dating the guy she was cucking me with i wasnt even allowed to touch her. Shit messed me up mentally bad. Cuck shit is a fucking relationship killer

For guys like me who have never ever had sex or been in a relationship before, that sounds like heaven

oh shit this is still up? look man it wasnt heaven
I was 17, and i was just happy and extatic that i finally got a girlfriend. One day she found some really old really borderline vanilla NTR porn on my pc i saved. Asks me if i like this and if i would like to maybe try something like this? I say no and she starts pushing and gaslighting me heavily until i say maybe okay. Red flag #1 should have been that we didnt have to search for a bull, because as soon as i said the okay she had 3 guys ready to do it on standby that she called to set it up. She promised it would basically be a threesome but sometimes i would step back and just watch her take it from the guy for a bit. When the actual session happened i only got a blowjob from her, didnt get to fuck my gf, she always said not yet and kept delaying it and trying to make me cum with her mouth while the guy railed her pussy until she succeded. I didnt like it but i liked my gf and she was so good at gaslighting that she gaslighted me into agreeing to this fulltime because appearantly i was the one who started this and now i cant just stop because it would be unfair and blah blah. I went from having sex with my girlfriend 4-5 times a week to having sex with her once a week and getting some low enthusiasm blowjobs during these sessions. 2 months+ into it she stopped asking the guy to wear a condom and was pilling, and i went to 0 penetration sex, handjobs only. That continued for about 2 more months. After that i was not allowed to touch her anymore. Her declared rule was that if i try to touch her sexually i would have to rim the bull. Im not fucking gay and she knew i hated that. So thats how started the final 4 months of our relationship. Me jerking off alone watching my gf get banged by this dude. Sometimes they wouldnt even let me watch anymore and she just ordered me to get out of the room and just do something while she has her fun. After 4 months of this she broke up with me to date him.

Well, look at it from my perspective.

The entire time that you were doing that? I was alone.

When you were ecstatic to have a girlfriend? I had nothing.
When you were having sex with your girlfriend 4-5 times a week? I was having sex 0 times a week.
When you were getting blowjobs? I was getting my hand only.
When you were jerking off to seeing her have sex? I could only jerk off to videos of strangers.
When you weren't allowed to touch or look at her? Neither was I.
When she finally broke up with you, your life went back to being what mine was like all along.

Objectively speaking, it's an upgrade compared to what I've been through.

Nah anon, you can be both. It actually seems pretty common.

t. self hating agp incel cuck

It all feeds on itself in a way that's self reinforcing. If I did find an understanding woman she'd probably wind up dropping me once she realized the dephs of my mommy issues because all she has to do is go outside or scroll on her phone for a bit to find a boy who's brain isn't so fried.

cucks are glorified paypigs who have to do chore play and watch niggers rail his whore wife

I would love to be a paypig for a woman who lets me watch her get railed

I know I am an unloved piece of shit, but I rather remain like this than being in a fake relationship based on a fetish (one that particularly targets people with low self esteem, it's predatory as fuck).

Just having or not having sex doesn't mean anything to me: I want to be genuinely loved, and that ain't love.

Must be nice to have this luxury. Me, I take what I can get.

It's not a luxury anon, it's a mindset.

If you are so desperate for sex, you can just visit a prostitute (illegal in your country? then you are just a plane ticket away from it).
Sex alone is meaningless, and I say that as someone that never got to experience it once in his life. No one here is going to become a better or worse person just by being able to wet their dicks, life won't become any brighter or easier (only real love can do that, and that's far more rare and something you unfortunately can just buy).

Incel all the fucking way. Its not even close.

It's a mindset you can afford to have because somehow, in some way, some other aspect of your life is good enough to where you feel comfortable saying "I don't need it that badly"

I see where you are coming from. And yes it was that fear of being alone precisely that caused this whole shit. I was so happy to finally have a gf i felt like such a chad. I was scared of fumbling and loosing her and i really liked her. And yes, the first couple of months of having tons of sex with her and being a normal dating couple was amazing. That time period i very much enjoyed
But the rest? She tainted our relationship, she reduced me from a guy to an absolute loser. I was so scared of being single and she gaslighted that fear into me even more. She made me think this was temporary and things would go back to the way they were. the emotional damage of this period was in my opinion worse than the loneliness would be. If she just broke up with me after the good period instantly, that would have been better than this.
Something i forgot to mention above, during those 4 months of the full cuck part of the relationship she also told me that she has been cheating on me with this guy through the entire time we have been dating. She did it so casually it was just a turn on for her but for me that was devastating. I left this relationship a mental wreck and it took me good 2 years to get through it and dare trying to date girls again. Yeah it was nice NOT being alone in the start, but the result was infinitely worse.

Trust me i understand how you feel, the desperation making it seem like ANYTHING is better than nothing. But this really is not something you would have wanted unless you are into hardcore cuckolding

I wanna see her feet

Incels have no dignity, they spend their life throwing tantrums so another point for cuck

Omfg who is she? Name!? I wish she was my GF and i could watch her get BLACKED
Ahhh thats so fucking hot! Lucky you, did she fuck any niggers? Who did she fuck? Any of your friends??? Did she make you watch?

2 months+ into it she stopped asking the guy to wear a condom

Yessss omfg did you ever dig the cum loads out of her with your fingers? Did you ever eat a creampie???

she also told me that she has been cheating on me with this guy through the entire time we have been dating. She did it so casually it was just a turn on for her but for me that was devastating.

TFW no borderline personality disorder QT gf to cuck me with raw cock

Feels fucking awful

This question is a paradox. If you would refuse the cuck option you're a volcel not an incel.

"The only thing worse than being alone is being with people that make you feel alone." -Robin Williams, paraphrased

From niche fetish to justifying it as better than being alone. The pornbrained psyop has worked. In reality youll lose respect for both yourself and your gf if you get cheated on and dont dump them asap

Hi. I forgot i left this tab open and was surprised to see that this is somehow not dead yet
Look i understand you get off to this cuz cuck kink but the thing is i dont have a cuck fetish. I was gaslighted into this shit by my gf because she knew was a worldclass manipulator and i was a vulnerable retard afraid of being single. So while to you this is super hot, to me it was a nerve and world wrecking disaster where i wasted a year in a horrible relationship with an unfaithful slut

So no i did not dig out cum out of her with my finger or eat a creampie because im not fucking gay and not into this cuck shit. Thankfuly she also never tried to force/gaslight me into doing that because im afraid she would be able to and i would hate myself for that even more. She did not fuck niggers they arent really around here. As i said she had 3 guys ready to go on her phone but chose the 1 i basically was hoping she wouldnt chose. It was this cunt from school that was always very flirty with her and i hated him for that. After finding out that she was cheating on me with him from day 1 of us dating i understand why he was like that now, back then i thought this would be the first time he is inside my gf and i hated it because it was the 1 guy i always had to fend off that was not fucking my gf in my bed. Yes she made me watch until about 2 months before we broke up when she would just randomly tell me to get out

so yeah this was not awesome and hot, this was fucking nerve wrecking for me

Stop saying gaslight, faggot. If you werent such a little bitch your GF would have touched your cock

Well I don't feel bad for you because at the end of the day, you had sex with women and I didn't. I'm glad you got cucked.

yeah thanks guys real nice... sorry that im not getting off on being cheated on

incel but she cute

Yo that kind of reminds me of some reddit whore from a few years back. Name was princess etude. What's the sauce on op? Please tell me she's got more stuff out there.

If you leaned into it and just came all over her face while chad was fucking her she would have had more respect for you than she did after you moped like a bitch

For real imagine how cute her butthole must be. Nice little pink eye winking when she clenches up;)

id rather be an incel because being a cuck is disgusting. Imagine willfully giving up your girlfriend to some subhuman ape for sexual pleasure. I don't understand how you get sexual pleasure from sexual pleasure being witheld from you. It's the most embarassing fetish ever, i almost pity them

dude when it started and it was threesomes instead where i got blown, it literally was that way. Me cumming in her mouth or on her face while the guy was railing her. And did that stop her from progressing to what happened? or show me respect? No. She still went forward and ruined our relationship with this cuckold shit she forced me into.
And like she knew i wasnt into it and hated it. Several times while i was watching them fuck i broke down into tears and begged her to stop this and fix our relationship. And all she did was gaslight me into letting this continue. That girl was pure evil and abused me, there was no respect or anything, i was just tricked and taken advantage of by a profesional manipulator