"Duuuude, just like, stop being insecure bro"

mentally fragile and give up so easily

i am fully aware of and accept this about myself. that's why i dont try

You want a decent life? These "normalfags" are giving you the best route to getting a decent life. Whining on a Laotian pottery forum will not get your a decent life, ever.

Because it challenges the notion that they got to where they are through merit. They're narcissists.

how to get a good nights rest, by geert godmust

nah, I think I'm gonna keep bitching. as long as it keeps you crying you fuckin queer.

I want you to bitch in my arms nonny that would be so embarrassing youd actually stop lol

Or, "they" could just stop being pieces of shit and be so kind as to offer a slight bit of sympathy. Instead though, "they" take the fact you are upset about life being unfair as a declaration of war

You have to work on yourself.

But Chad doesn't do it!

Yes, and you're not Chad, so you have to do it

But it isn't fair!

Yea, it isn't.

Then I'm not gonna do it!

Then you can keep wallowing in your loneliness and suffering forever. These are the only two options you have.

Sounds more like you're scared of that aspect of yourself. There's people who can continue living fulfilling lifes with disabilities. If you could accept your flaws, you'd try to work around them or turn them into strengths. Accepting you suck doesn't mean you have an excuse to give up.

As anons said life isn't fair it's brutal and mostly stupid. You can literally try your hardest every day of your life, try to do everything you can think of "right" and still get fuck all nowhere. Just get fucked over again and again. No amount of pissing and whining is going to change anything and NOBODY wants to hear it and nobody cares about you and your shitty life. That's why normalfags give you the advice to stop caring that people have it better and just try anyways because otherwise you default on getting nothing and being miserable anyways. And you young fags live in a sort of childish denial that if you just sit and pout someone else will do something about it for you. They won't, nobody will ever come and save you. Plenty of the guys I grew up with are dead already and their life was a humiliation ritual nightmare start to finish all for nothing and they never had ANYTHING good ever happen to them. That's life get used to it you're not special it not going to change just for you. Also there is no limit to how bad circumstances can get for you, it's a bottomless pit no matter how awful your situation there is always a way for it to get even worse until death releases you.

okay I'm still not gonna do it

<WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK DUDE WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU I'M GONNA ANTAGONIZE YOU FOR THIS
you aren't being logical you're provoking people until they give in to your mindset and you throw a spergout whenever they dont

these retards act like working on yourself means you wont be suffering anymore...

Chad does it, you just think he doesn't to try and feel better about your inaction. It doesn't work obviously

slight bit of sympathy

But who does that help? All the sympathy in the world won't change your problems. And there's no sympathy to give you because there's not much to give to strangers in the first place. You could earn sympathy, but you earn that by doing good while suffering thru tragedy.

Sympathy for a stranger isn't much more than pity. A feeling you have to deal with so you feel like you're not just ignoring them. It's like when a homeless guy asks for charity or a waiter expects a tip. It only works if they make you feel bad. People don't want to feel bad for some anon on the internet. It just is what it is.

protip: if life is that bad, then it is not wrong to feel despair about it. read it helps because it's better than being completely isolated in a hostile world

we never even ask for advice anyways; instead, moralfags just give it to us unprompted

Anon you dont need to ask for advice directly, no one is going to give you advice out of context
When conversing with someone about your struggles they'll give you an advice as an act of courtesy. That's their way to tell you "you're not a completely hopeless subhuman, i have sympathy for you and i hope you change for the better but i cant directly help you"
Everyone does this, if you dont want it then you'll have to forfeit complaining about your misfortunes lel

We're men. Being completely isolated in a hostile world is what we do. Even in a brothership. Even in a romantic relationship. Even Chad suffers loneliness while surronded by bitches he doesn't care about.

You can find an oasis of family, friends, and/or lovers. But that's a rarity that has to be searched for and protected. You will never forget Loneliness or Suffering, but you can make those experiences into either motivation or demotivation. You wasted a lot of time in your life, but if that's what it took for you to learn a lesson that many never learn... then you never actually wasted time. It was spent suffering to build character. Or more like hone character. Whatever you're looking for, it's not something that will be given to you completely free. Even Love is transactional. That's how things have always worked.

yeah I bet you'd love that you swmen addict

FUCK
semen addict

Yeah? Are you gonna bitch while im throating your incel cock too ?

I'm gonna cry like a child for you and your sweet mouth

Im gonna make you have full body stims with my lips while you scream it's over billions must cum

Booo get a room
*throws rock*

This is the one I don't understand. I should just not value others. Normoids make no sense to me.

And as I already said NOBODY wants to hear it. Just like you don't want to listen to women complain about how hard their lives are NOBODY wants to listen to a man complain about how brutal and unfair his life is. You don't like it and want sympathy and empathy for your suffering we get it but nobody cares that's what you don't seem to get. Get used to it that's life as a man. Every time you whine about how hard your life sucks some normalfags will give you vapid advice just keep it to yourself like those of us that matured past twelve years old do. You want it to be about how you feel without comprehend how they feel. THEY DON'T CARE. You're just wasting your time whining and get triggered by their platitudes of advice.

You want it to be about how you feel without comprehend how they feel. THEY DON'T CARE.

actually i do care about people who suffer in similiar ways to me, and instead of giving them stupid advice like "you have to man up and accept that your life is worse than a 1800s slave or stop complaining," i tell them that they are valid to have the same problems as i

Ok, I'm chicken anon
Nobody's shutting the fuck up about their problems on some grand scale. Would the world be a better place if they did? Arguable. Many would have nothing to talk about, that's for certain.

The OP was why are normalfags like this? Now you know they don't give a shit and don't want to relate to your misery with pointless empathy. So they offer vapid solutions so you stop whining or try to solve your own problems. They don't want to sit around and validate your sadness and I don't blame I wouldn't either. That's why people call it "emotional labor" you shouldn't expect strangers to baby you and care about your feel feelz. Every loser on this board can understand being sad because life sucks we don't need to repeat it every day thats why it annoys anons on here too. It's useless to discuss.

well now you know why we hate normalfags

Okay, but have you ever thought about what we wanted when we were suffering? Because it wasn't validation, I didn't want sympathy, and I didn't want complaints. I wanted to be told what I could do change myself, my mindset, and my situation. I wanted advice. Instead, I had to find my own advice. So I can only give others what I learned.

That's the human condition in a nutshell. You're worried about your feelings and ignored someone else's. Empathy goes both ways. You can't understand what it's like to ask for help and receive excuses, that's what sympathy is to me. Maybe it's different for you, but I can't understand that way of thinking. I can only tell you what I think.

And it's been said a thousand times on here to you retarded zoomer fucks STOP venting to normalfags. The term "trauma dumping" was invented for a reason it's because of spergs spilling their guts trying to get sympathy from an unwilling audience. They DON'T CARE they don't relate stop asking for it.

There's people who can continue living fulfilling lifes with disabilities

And then there are others who were simply miserable until they died, what's your point? Not everyone is the same.

As others have noted, to shut you up since they aren't interested in pitying you. I've got to likely word extremely hard for about the next decade or so in order to have the chance at what a normie gets as naturally as breathing. I've compounded the problem by my inaction, but only because my attempts made zero progress.

It's useless to discuss.

It gives me some relief, so not that useless.

Alright, Im going to spill the beans.

All empathy is narrative driven. It is conditional upon seeing power or the potential of obtaining power in the future. When I say power I am referring to the ability to have your words match your deeds, to manifest. The reason why (you) and I do not get sympathy is because we are weak. That is the one thing a normie will never forgive

You know, if your communities, culture, and traditions weren't deliberately torn to shreds to turn you into rootless economic units, human capital to be moved about, then the inherent absurdly balanced distributions of good qualities wouldn't sting as badly. Now, there is nothing, but the grind, grind in a shit economy with the internet acting as telescope to lives that may as well be on distant worlds-though close enough to mock you