Getting fucking sick of trying to use dating apps. Or date at all...

Getting fucking sick of trying to use dating apps. Or date at all. I'm a nerdy motherfucker whose ideal night is binge watching a season of an anime. I don't wanna go to the dog park with your mongrel, I don't wanna go on a spontaneous trip to Europe, I just wanna fucking sit at home and vibe. And I want some boring ass girlfriend who feels the same.
I asked the normalfags on leddit (know your enemy or whatever) "so, yeah, granting I'll lose all the stacies but idgaf, if I just be straight up with being a weeb who binges chinese cartoons and playing vidya that'll attract likeminded chicks right?"
What do I get? Paraphrased, more than a couple answers like:

"Lol well my ideal night is just cuddling on the couch watching anime too, but I'd skip your profile because you focus on it too much. You should have more normie shit highlighted. Look at my profile, I posted the one time i went to a concert and shit"

Like, 'fuck you mean bitch? I don't DO normie shit, that's the point. You allegedly are a closet weeb or whatever. So why am I supposed to larp as an extroverted normalfag, and you do the same, just so we secretly clock each other's "hidden nerdiness?" Nah, the real reason is because she'd feel as if she's "settling" with some hikki bf until a crypto bro messages her and offers to pick her up in his Porsche to take his private jet to Ibiza. Wouldn't want to publicly portray herself as a femcel, regardless of veracity, else it might scare would-be chad simps off. And miss me with that

oh well you're showing that you're not gonna be a good provider

Motherfucker the premise is that I don't give a fuck about trying to find some high maintenance whore, just wanna hang out and be nerds together (romantically).

It's so fucking tiresome

You might be too autistic and too honest with your intentions. This will give women the ick.

Yeah, got shit like that too. It's so fucking retarded that even if you end up being a "laze about chilling" couple, you HAVE to follow the "formula" of pretending to be a well adjusted human being.
Yeah, probably too much of the spectrum, cuz I don't see the fucking point in wasting time playing that game

I don't wanna go to the dog park with your mongrel

Can't relate to this one, going out with her dog to chill in the park sounds fun. Even if she insists on accompanying us. I can relate to the rest though, yeah.

I just want a shut-in weeb gf who wants to chill at home most of the time and go on comfy drives in the rain.

I mean, I phrased that poorly: would I meet her needs for shit like that? Sure, of course, I like to believe I'd support her.
My point was more how every fucking woman on hinge appears to be a cardio bunny with a fucking dog and talks about going on trips and shit

Dating is pointless these days. Women only go for Chad. If one does give you attention, it's only because she's a used-up post-wall whore who will eventually resent you. I wouldn't waste any time trying to get a relationship with these roasties.

This is basically where I've landed. Even a 5/10 gamer girl is getting spammed by 10%ers, there's no point competing.

Unironically go to a LGS. E-dating is garbage if you're not a gym bro. Easier to feel out vibes IRL too

prisma illya pic

can't imagine why you give off bad aura

I'll give you a rundown
Yes, the end state of your relationship would be quiet nights watching anime. But think of it this way, is this really a romance? Is your potential partner getting anything out of this? Because part of the appeal or point of a romance is both parties getting something they can't get without the other. In this case you want status quo, just with a girl around. You're essentially just looking for a friend, to put it bluntly. Why would a girl go for that? Let's say she's just like you fr, would rather sit around playing vidya, what benefit does dating you provide her? Even if that's what you do 9/10 of the time, she's getting with you for the 1/10 times that you go out and do something exciting. If you can't prove that you are capable of doing literally anything but being a NEET loser, even if it's out of your comfort zone, then why take the chance that she might have to cajole you to do something other than the norm when she can instead get with Chad and groom him into being into anime with her?