let's raise our kids to never question us or our authority, never give them any emotional support and make it very clear they are weak and stupid for wanting it, and then repeatedly blame them for all of it while calling them lazy!
Let's raise our kids to never question us or our authority...
Let's spend all our tax dollars keeping these fucking assholes alive as long as possible
Let us all be sure to blame our parents for our own faults. It is far more comfortable to turn our anger outwards than towards the deserving target that lays inward. You are literally the captain of your own fate and yet you blame circumstances of weather for your inability to steer your vessel.
at what age does a person decide to ruin their own life out of spite for their perfect parents?
Lmao. Did you get bored of the other thread??
Very valid question. I hope she replies
Let us all be sure to blame our parents for our own faults
THAT'S RIGHT! I forgot it was my fault for being molested by my dad. I should've known better at 6yrs old than to be slutting around in my looney toons t-shirt. I'm a whore of a moid clearly. I deserved it huh, anon? I shouldn't blame anyone else other than myself for being diddled. I just need to pull myself up by the bootstraps and stop complaining about being a human fuck toy when I didn't even have pubes yet.
You are literally the captain of your own fate
Except when you aren't the captain and you're too small to fight back against the evils that surround you, oops, sorry to burst your self-righteous bubble retard.
I don't know if that anon means what they're typing or not but if they do they're a delusional antisocial schizoid so either way it's best to not really engage with it
Are you still physically 6 years old? Your behaving as if you are.
Not so much bored, I'm just no longer getting responses. (You) are important to me, and I blame myself for that. I figured that this post was made by one of my detractors. I thought I'd make it easy for them and come here so that they could blame me for their problems.
delusional narcissist pissbaby
Remember. Always gray rock the narcissist
They would have to take my advice about self-actualization before they could follow your advice about ignoring me.
That is an interesting insight on your part. I am a narcissist for telling you to look inward and to solve your own problems. I'm a schizo in need of medication because I must be delusional in thinking that someone who is posting on this board is capable of change. Isn't that something you would say to your parents?
that's only if it's family or a boss or someone you can't call a pissbaby without serious consequences
your fragile ego amuses me, pissbaby, keep throwing a tantrum
Oh hey it's this faggot again
piss baby
throwing a tantrum
Is that what your parents would say to you, or is that what you wish they would say to you, or are you really saying it to yourself? I am here as a stand-in for your parents because, clearly, you are all so ineffective at expressing yourselves that you have to take to an anonymous forum.
Lmao I'm glad people see these types for what they are
Sounds like he didn't get beat badly enough by his parents tbqh
Yep. That's me, the faggot that is telling you your problems are your problems, and not your parents problems. I'll let you in on a little secret: venting your rage outwards saps you of the energy to change yourself. It's the same issue with people protesting Trump; they are expending their energy in wasteful protest instead of in useful change. There is a reason that things will never get better for you.
people are actually starting to catch on to narcissism now that one is our president, EVERYONE'S algorithm is full of information regarding NPD
nobody takes you seriously except for serial abuse victims, you really should feel pathetic for taking advantage of those people
I am lazy its true. thats why i shitpost on company time
schizoid
why would you think that, non?
it's true blaming them probably achieves nothing, but she doesn't owe them anything. It'd be moral to kill them for their parenting.
Doesn't OP or to themselves to forgive their parents and move on? Keeping the rage won't make them feel any better inside. Venting about it might make them feel better temporarily, but will not result in the change that is needed for them to self-actualize.
hey I'm just saying, they don't need to ever see their parents again if they don't want to. Sure they can forgive them; forgive their debts so to speak. But when they start asking for money, they shouldn't give them any if they don't want to.
Oh I agree with your point entirely. The idea is to give forgiveness to the parents of the past, not the assholes that are in front of him today.
to be clear, when I said "asking for money," that included if the parents were begging them to let them see her/him again. This is an action that might not seem like a payment, but it is if doing so would make OP/her feel negative emotions or would inconvenience them. Regardless of whether the parents are assholes right now.
It's always abusers teeling everyone else they need to *forgive*. Fuck that and fuck you
the change that is needed for them to self-actualize
you delusional fucking narcissist just shut your whore mouth forever
>I VIL NOT FORGIVE
I VIL CURSE THEM TIL ZE DEATH.
rent free.
So are you a narcissist abuse victim role playing as your abuser to regain control over the trauma, or are you yourself an abuser that just utterly lacks self awareness?
Please answer honestly, this goes on your permanent record.
I'm praying for you
don't do that anon they're a fucking cunt
Please answer honestly
record
You DO know this is an anonymous website where ANYONE can respond right?
There's just free (You)'s sitting out here ripe for the taking!!
But to answer your question, the first one would match best.
I'm curious about your use of narcissist. It would seem that a narcissist would focus on themselves, to always turn the attention back to themselves in some way. How is telling someone to accept their past and to move on from it being narcissistic? As to your other point: if I were in denial and not self-aware, how would I be able to answer that question?
Generally, only a borderline personality speaks in absolutes when confronted with generalities. I've noticed that many individuals with components of personality disorders tend to react negatively when confronted with the need to change themselves by addressing their trauma. They have made their trauma a feature of their personalities. They feel they are erasing themselves by changing their feelings about their past. Also of note the amount of transference going on here in regards to me is fairly astounding. I am a narcissistic schizo that is also an abuser and a victim simultaneously that is acting as a stand-in for adults in your childhood centered minds. I'm not actually your parent, I'm not your boss at work, I'm not your teacher at school, I'm not your landlord, I'm not the police officer coming to your door to demand to know why you've called 911 and threatened suicide, again.
Narcissists see other people as themselves. It's super fucking weird. It's the same way narcissists take on proteges. It seems counter to the concept of narcissism until you realize they project themselves onto their protege SO HARD they don't even see them as a different person at all. Narcissist parents also obviously do this.
Also narcissists are ENDLESSLY pedantic and will argue the fucking definition of narcissism to try and dodge the diagnosis. This is just an ego protection measure, of course, because all narcissists KNOW they're narcissists and think it's absolutely awesome. That is, of course, if they even acknowledge narcissistic pathology is even something that ISN'T shared by 100% of all humans, a narcissist typically believes literally every single human thinks and functions EXACTLY like them and they fundamentally can't even fathom different pathologies so another good option is the "everyone is a narcissist secretly" mindset that many narcissists have.
Narcissists love themselves and love talking about themselves, they are literal attention whores.
Even while being called out, they don't seem to understand they're being made fun of and just enjoy the attention. It's a very dire and pathetic pathology.
yeeaaah we're fucking old, yeeeeaaaahh!
Remove social security for people born in the 1930s-1950s.
I know what a narcissist looks like and you are one.
You know what BPD looks like because as a narcissist you simultaneously attract and trigger the absolute fuck out of BPD, and they're also your favorite victims because they lack the emotional maturity and oftentimes self awareness to recognize your blatant NPD which makes them an INCREDIBLY good supply for you.
Narcissists love themselves and love talking about themselves, they are literal attention whores.
I'm not the narcissist you speak of. You're talking about the other guy....
anon you chose to make that bullshit attention attracting post... you have to know what you look like, surely
not me.
Not this guy.
My conscious is clean.
Go call that other guy such things!!
Are you sure about your diagnosis? An individual with psychopathy might behave in the way that you are describing. A better armchair diagnosis for me would be antisocial personality disorder, which would make more sense based on my childhood diagnosis of conduct disorder. However, I was never diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder, because while still in my youth I addressed my childhood trauma in therapy. I wonder as to the actual ages of all of the individuals here, because diagnostically, personality disorders can only be diagnosed in adults by other qualified adults in a clinical setting.