is it unethical to fake orgasms if you just can't orgasm and want to make your partner happy? i suffer from total anorgasmia due to a rare untreatable condition, and basically i can't feel sexual stimuli. all of my previous boyfriends (2) have broken up with me for being a dead fish in bed. i think that's silly because i'm letting them use me to feel good and frankly they should be happy with that but anyway men are weird i guess. basically i'm thinking in the future i will just get really good at faking orgasms and not tell the truth about my condition, but is that unethical? i know fake orgasms are generally considered a bad thing but if it makes them happy and they literally never know it's fake is it still a bad thing?
Ethical fake orgasms
there's nothing "unethical" about faking orgasms, men are just fragile creatures. what they don't know doesn't hurt them.
I am never getting a GF ever
not with that attitude, that's for sure
we can always tell when you fake
deadfish
Stopped reading there. Most guys are ok with the woman never cumming (if thats the case that you actually have that bullshit disorder which you fucking dont) the problem is what you exactly said, you did nothing, you are a dead fish, you are not sexy, you do not spit on your bfs dick, look him in the eye with a craving cock slut face and then deepthroat him until you couldnt breathe, you didnt ride him while touching all over his body, you didnt lick his sweat, you just laid there. You are fucking boring, thats your problem. Watch some porn, learn to be fun and sexy. Jesus christ women are fucking retarded
That's porn shit, sex doesn't work that way
i'm suggesting that i do this
not just faking orgasms but also pretending to be into it. not to that extent though.
I seriously pity you if you think this is a product of imagination
I honestly didnt read the rest, the deadfish stuff gets on my fucking nerves because most women think its enough to just exist. It takes a lot of work to get them to do anything remotely amusing unless they are unhinged nymphos or lust too much for you
women don't owe you a porn actress performance. you're pornsick. it's such a crazy thing to suggest when most men don't know where the clit is and will never do oral. you want so much in exchange for so little.
just don't fuck?
I know wheres the clit, how to touch it and i love eating pussy, i take care of learning what they like and how they like it. Laying down with your eyes closed and a sad face is not enough for me, so i guess i wont fuck you if i have the disgrace of meeting you. Different people like different things, get a bf that fucks you good and you will stop being a bitter bitch
i am willing to act to a reasonable degree, but i refuse to do ridiculous porn shit just because porn convinced them that's what sex is like.
that sounds made up to me consider just taking more dick
I faked one because a woman was trying to give me a hand job but was being to rough and I just wanted to goto sleep.
I have had a few women that had a hard time having an orgasim, yeah it's kinda lame, letting me use you as a cumdumpster is sweet but takes a lot of the fun out of sex.
how does a man fake orgasm? it's pretty easy to see if a man did or didn't spray jizz out of his cock
I have had a few women that had a hard time having an orgasim
what if they pretended to like it? and you knew? would it be the same as if they actually liked it?
I think you should tell them about your condition but make an effort to enjoy sex any way you can. I bet I could train you to get something more out of sex if I were your bf. failing that you could try hypnotherapy.
The lights were off and sometimes not a lot of jizz comes out, she did inspect her hand for cum but didn't say anything.
due to the nature of my condition it cannot be improved. i have tried.
I think you should tell them
but it has ruined it before and it will ruin it again. i can't just "make an effort" to enjoy it, its not possible. wouldn't a man be much happier having sex with someone he though loved it than someone he knew didn't like it and was just doing it for him? like sure it's not honest, but if he never knows, so what?
Op was sexually abused and now she can't get aroused. See a therapist op.
she knew anon
i was not. i do not struggle with arousal: i have an above average libido, just nothing to do about it.
vague poorly defined problem
op is larping to entertain some shitty gotcha question about faking it
Post actual medical diagnosis and steps you've taken to fix it now. Use details and be descriptive or this is a bullshit troon larp.
i have an intersex condition where my clitoris is not fully developed and buried inside my skin.
do not struggle with arousal
above average libido
LARP thread. Pack it in everyone OP is a lying faggot.
what is wrong with you? i am not larping. why would i larp about this? i have nowhere else to ask
i refuse to do ridiculous porn shit
eating pussy is ridiculous porn shit
what is your condition called?
there are lots of ways of enjoying sex, just like any other experience. you could train yourself to really enjoy sex mentally, be able to feel when you're wet, enjoy saying things to your partner and doing a husky voice, being dolled up, etc, or even just learning to feel generic pleasure from exerting your muscles or from intimate touch and incorporating that. and aside from changes in mindset there may be some weird neuromuscular cure you haven't found yet.
Probably, but it was ether that or tell her she was terrible at sex.
Use a vibrating egg. Thank me later.
Also post pussy pic
tried it before, did nothing. i've tried every kind of vibrator.
can't ask doctor
can't ask sex therapist
can't ask specialist
Hurr I know I'll ask the sexless virgins of 4chinz, yeah that'll do the trick!
LARP Thread.
hmm look into how testosterone could fix that, a lot of people get major clit growth and sensual enhancement from it.
anon it's inside my body how could it grow
also i do not wnat to become a man?
Don't waste your time. OP is literally lying and every response is going to be some combination of
already tried that
Or
don't want to do that
This thread was not made in good faith and is farming (you)s
they can't find YOUR clit, but they could find it on a normal woman no problem. they can totally see that it's not there but they don't wanna say anything.
plays dumb
asks for clarification to self evident statement
LARP thread
even if it only grows internally, it'll make it easier to stimulate the back side of the clit through the vaginal wall (the g-spot). and it won't make you a man, at worst you might have to do a bit more shaving or end up with a deeper voice but there are ways of avoiding that too.
i literally prefaced the thread with "this issue cannot be fixed" an you're still giving me your "suggestions" even though they are unrelated to the question...
i have talked to a doctor about the medical aspects, it has nothing to do with thread question
therapy is a scam
where else on the internet to ask? fucking reddit?
you need a sex therapist, not a bf. I'll do it for free.
I came in a girl and I didn't make any indication I was cumming and I got to watch her keep shoving my progressively-getting-floppier cock back inside of her as she blamed her pussy being too wet (it was my cum all over her at that point)
Should I have pretended to do a loud orgasm to signal that we're done?
One of my gf could only have an orgasim with her vibrator, I probably could have learned how to give her one, i think part of the problem was she was really tight and sex was uncomfortable for her.
The other one started fucking really young and probably just needed a 9 inch cock to get the job done.
as to your question, I think if she faked it it would be more insulting, just tell your guy what's up, one of my gf's was would wake me up in the middle of the night for sex and I was too tired to put in the effort to have an orgasim, sex still feels good even if you don't cum.
So who molested you and why aren't you in therapy?
you are so low iq
i literally said it can't be fixed you dumb moid
just don't fuck
How else is she gonna get Chad?
I think if she faked it it would be more insulting
but why would it be insulting if she was doing it for you? and what if you never knew?
I know vastly more about sex and human bodies than you do, you have to trust me. anyway no, no bf is going to be happy with this, lying to them won't fix it, and you can just enjoy being unloved forever or try being more open about it. if you want intimacy you have to accept letting other people take the lead on things that involve your body sometimes instead of just stonewalling them.
the whole point of lying is that they don't know that you're lying. are men mind readers?
lying won't make you happy and it'll be a toxic loose thread in your relationship, and someday you'll wanna come clean about it and you'll be trapped. just be open to viewing it as something that at least possibly can be overcome, because that's how they'll view it if they're really interested in you, and that'll make it easier to talk about.
lying and having a relationship is much better than telling the truth and not having one
not a hard choice for me
If the guy has ever been with a woman that could have a orgasim, he will probably be able to tell, but assuming he couldn't,, I still think honestly is the best policy, just save yourself all the pretending.
maybe you just don't like men
just save yourself all the pretending.
but why?
its probably ok
What if I cheated on you but you never found out, does that make cheating okay?
being a dead fish in bed. i think that's silly because i'm letting them use me to feel good and frankly they should be happy with that
You are a woman