I talk to this guy in my class a lot and he doesn't seem to notice that I like him...

I talk to this guy in my class a lot and he doesn't seem to notice that I like him. He is quiet and doesn't talk to anyone much. So when I teased him I thought he would get the clue that I like him. Why are guys so dense?

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Seems they're either extremely dense or horny as a humping puppy, no inbetween

i fucking hate that blue haired bitch. such a fucking baka.

Ask him if you can hug him, trust. Then tell him he feels good. He will be yours.

If he's not a normie, chances are he assumes you're just being friendly

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why doesn't shychad like me, r9k?

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This thread is mine bitches!
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I teased him

Huge red flag

How hard is it to just tell someone you love them? Fuck you OP and I hope that he would find someone quick

as someone with a neutronium-bone alloy skeleton (thus being incredibly dense), all i can tell you is that there's no helping it
if you like him then you'll have to be the one to tell him so, otherwise he won't get it unless someone else mentions it

Yeah I had this happen to me. Some foid flirted with me. But I had no alternatives so I simply ignored her.
Pursuing her would have bought shame upon me. I would have to pursue some "nobody" just because "it" has a hole. And I was thinking about her every day. At the same time I was aware of my inability to get other girls and that there is no way she is the "right one" because relationships are about more than some emotions. In the end she had a lot more leverage on me than I had on her. I would have been led on by her, she had the power.
So I just ignored her and let her go.
I know, I should be more open minded but I just dont care about other people. I do care in the sense that I am analyzing them and trying to get leverage on them but that's about it. Ever since I fell in love with her its all about gaining control over people, having some female friends, having some social status.
Now I'm 26, so it doesn't matter anymore.

My only goal is to be more attractive to women and people in general desu. It is the thing that keeps my depression away. I don't even need the sex, just knowing that they want it is enough to keep me happy.

You should be aware that you are being really manipulative with your stares and laughter. He sees through that facade.
He probably is too weak to do anything about it anyways, too weak to put you in your place. It's completely illogical to love somebody you dont know and it brings trouble.

You should tell him that you're looking for someone to share the bed with, because it helps you with your terrible, terrible insomnia.
I'm sure he's nice enough to help out and it might even lead to something of slightly more lewd nature, such as holding h-hands

if he isn't giga attractive he's probably doing the good old men's self defense mechanism: ignore any and all "signs" and "clues" from women because they've already been through a cycle of

she's friendly, surely she likes me?

holy fucking bullshit i hate my life kms kms all day every day she didnt like me grrr im mega upset

you're going to have to be a little more direct

How is that deceptive
Im not hurting him though
What wrong with teasing
Im afraid that he doesn't feel the same
How am I being manipulative by staring and talking to him

lol Im not gonna do that
He is attractive and I doubt he think like that

He sounds autistic. I had this same problem with foids when I was in high school/college. Like I could broadly tell they liked me because I'm tall and pretty good looking, but I never thought they really liked me. idk.

I was very dense! as I got older and more experienced, I remembered some conversations and realized what tons of these girls were implying.

probably just really dense.

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The two times women have done this type of "flirting" with me I completely ignored it and pretended not to notice it out of disinterest.

He sounds autistic

No he just very dense
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No he just very dense

Here's the autism test. next time you talk to him, pay attention and see if he'll look you in the eye at all. If he doesn't, or just looks for a second or two before looking away, he's probably got aspergers, like what Elon Musk has.

If that's the case, you will have to be VERY VERY direct with him.

I was thinking about this thread in the shower. There was a cute girl in HS that hit on me. I thought I was Stacy only. Oh boy do I have regrets.

Your average young man these days receives almost nothing besides negative reinforcement or social attention from every other group in society besides perhaps his closest and dearest friends.
Many young men are completely oblivious to the playful nature of flirtatious teasing because that is simply totally alien to the social environment men are accustomed to in modern society.

In fact, many young men will take the playful teasing as yet another form of unkindness, even if you didn't mean it that way.
This is because the general background noise men deal with socially is either constant low-level shaming, or unprompted scorn and accusations for no reason whatsoever.
In short, society in general is kind to women, it is unkind to men in general. This shapes the expectations and habits of both groups immensely.

I assume you're a young woman. You need to realize that men and women live in two entirely different societies.
Good luck on chasing your boy, but I think you need to understand how much of a stark difference there is between how men and women are treated in general.

How are you manipulative by staring and talking to him ? You want him to chase you. You want to seduce him. You are playing his feelings instead of being rational, instead of giving him a good logical reason to love you you just completely breach his head space and force him to feel things he does not want to feel.
It's downright cruel and selfish of you to behave like this. If he had good self confidence and social skills he would probably put you in place for playing with his feelings

Fuck off stacy, he's chad and you only notice him because he's chad. If he was bald or shaved head you'd look at him in disgust.

how about you just ask him out fucking retard

Based bait-thread derailer. Thank you for your service.

So when I teased him I thought he would get the clue that I like him.

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wow so when I did the same thing bullies did to him he didn't magically understand my intentions, why the fuck aren't guys mindreaders?!

But what if I get rejected? I don't want tha

At the rate you're going, you will be ignored. Then you will be left wondering, for the rest of your life, "wow if only I said something to him I could maybe be married and have kids and be happy instead of drinking alone with my seven cats".

Anyway. The way things used to work, is the girl would send a signal she's interested, the boy would pick up the signal, he would approach.
Things have broken down now. You don't know the right signals to send. "Staring at him". "Teasing him". What a fucking retard.
Even if you could magically figure out the right teehee signals, he would need to be able to decode your cryptic bullshit to then act on it.
So let me give you the secret passphrase. The sword to cut the gordian knot. "I LIKE YOU GO OUT WITH ME". You have a mouth, and a facsimile of a brain, use them.

b-b-but I'm shy teehee

Okay. I guess that's all the guy means to you. He means little enough you wouldn't step a smidgen outside of your comfort zone.

Idk ask him lmao wtf is this thread

lol this reminds me of a bitch in class from back when i was still going to school
i was the quiet kid that talked to no one and no one cared about me but she kept glancing at me during class when she thought i wasnt looking
even tried talking to me out of nowhere, even though no one else ever did
i rejected that hoe, hate her