I'm 24 and I've never approached a woman ever. Anyone else?
I'm 24 and I've never approached a woman ever. Anyone else?
I'm 32 and have never done so.
not my job (31m)
I'm 24. I've approached women in high school and once or twice in college, but I learned the risks of that pretty quickly. I use dating apps now.
Women should be free to go grocery shopping etc without worrying a man will inject themselves into her attention. And now she has to deal with this stranger. They shouldn't have to worry about that. They should be able to go out and live their lives. So, I don't "approach" women. If a girl wants my attention she can start talking to me (no girl will ever do this)
I'm 41 and have never asked a woman on a date because none have ever shown any signs of attraction to me.
I don't understand why we act like a man talking to a woman is a great intrusion. I understand they feel this way, but I think that's just because they're entitled and lack perspective.
My dad tried to get me to do it years ago but I wasn't interested in her. Now though I'd never do it because it's not worth it with how hysterically they might react. You don't even need to be ugly for them to make it a crime to talk to them now. You're not getting love or pussy from these women so there's no reason to talk to them beyond what's necessary in public.
They're just another purposely poisoned well you can't do anything with
do you have a popup blocker running right now?
I'm sorry, I'm afraid I don't understand what you mean
I do, yes. But that's a false equivalence.
Only ever been approached by fat ugly foids.
A part of me feels bad because it is kinda hypocritical when I deny them.
Women are just another thing that's been tainted or trained/groomed to ruin your health by sneaky faggots with too much money if you try to enjoy it like others did in the past.
"i dont know, he was just being weird and it made me uncomfortable"
I approached a few girls in middle school so like 12 years ago LMAO
im 33. i was asked out atleast 3 times. apparently i was attractive enough for a female to take the risk and reverse the gender roles. 3 times. dragged me kicking and screaming all the way to almost having sex, too. 100% on someone elses initiative. but this was in like, 2005-2010, dunno what its like now.
this. like, i dont really care that much about what the women feel about it, but that doesnt matter. i just think about if it was me. would I want random, attractive girls randomly catcalling me as i just try to get a gallon of milk? im sure some peoples thoughts are "giwtwm" or pictures of ryan gosling and shit, but no, that shit would fucking suck.
Same age, me neither
that shit would fucking suck.
You think this way because you're an animetroon with no testosterone
And how tall are you exactly anon?
sure, okay, but you forgot to say the "your wrong" part. im pretty sure thats supposed to be in there somewhere. or maybe not, and you agree, maybe.
basically 6 feet. its so close its basically 6 feet, haha. whats the difference. 5'11, 6 feet, basically the same thing. im not like, manlytears or anything.
Me neither, my dream life never involved a wife or gf desu, and it never materialized anyway
Anyone else
Ya no.im straight. You ppl are beyond fucked up. If you really wanted a fucking gf you would have one. Just come out already. Jesus fucking christ
We're straight too, we just know our worth or lack thereof
If you were straight you would hit on a fucking woman. Everything about you ppl is so fuckin illogical
Gee, I really hope that fat balding ugly guy hits on me
And I hope he's really shy and awkward and lives with his parents
Chad's first visit to Anon Babble
unf, yes. the wafting aroma of onions on his breath, bo, socks worn for a solid week. just gets you drippin. oozing. like gushers.
35 and never have, i've always messed it up when trying to talk to them at length anyway, unless we are talking about work, i don't know how to talk to people when the conversation gets too social
45% is still too low. Approaching women irl is de facto illegal so as a society we should get the number up to 100%
because women aren't desirable
27. Haven't done it, never will
I plan on talking to a 18 year female coworker who seems to want to talk to me dont know what to say though
I'm 25 though, might talk to her tomorrow and see where things go
Ever? No, I used to be a fake normie and had a couple girlfriends in the past, but I haven't bothered talking to a non-familial woman since like 2016, after they all developed trump derangement syndrome among other things.
treat women like a human being
get called an incel
so you're 5'10. understood.
I mean how exactly do u do it? Pickup lines are cringe. Most people who do are tall or whatever. The ones who get them while being ugly or short don't get replies or anything later on. People don't realize that some women just hand it out so you'll leave
it's this. people can cite all this other shit like feminism, promiscuity, social media, women in the work force, etc, and a lot of that contributes to the undesirability of women, but the main fact of the matter is the male celibacy rates rose in direct correlation and timing with the female overweight and obesity rates. when the average woman in your society is 5'3 and pushing 190lbs, your society is going to fucking die.
Can you give any example in nature of fertile females being in "public" around males of their species, without being pursued by any of those males? it doesn't make sense.
I mean how exactly do u do it?
That's a big part of the problem. Traditionally you'd meet women in your social circles or at a "third place" meant for casual socialization, but globoshlomo has destroyed these things and people are stuck trying to use (((dating apps))) which are designed to keep you single and miserable.
I realized at a young age that I don't need a woman to be happy, so no I wouldn't bother approaching a woman unless I really like her (and this includes her PERSONALITY, something the rest of you seem to completely ignore because all you care about is using a womans body like a fuckdoll)
The first time I approached a girl was the summer between junior and senior year, during two days of makeup tests. Saw this cutie with bleached hair while I was taking mine and when I went outside she was there waiting for her ride. I was a nervous, stuttering mess with social anxiety but I tried to have a conversation with her and said whatever stupid, cringe shit came to mind. She probably knew I was on the spectrum but she was kind to me and entertained a conversation.
The next day I resolved to give her my number. Finished my test and was in the bathroom shitting my guts out for a while because the nerves were killing me but I told myself I had to do this. I handed her a paper with my number on it and she looked amused. Told me she could just enter her number into my phone. Score!
She got picked up and I felt the best I'd ever felt in my life. I thought that I'd just gotten myself a girlfriend and that my life had finally begun! ...Well, she had a boyfriend, and after a few back-and-forth texts she ghosted me. It destroyed me. I was depressed for a week straight. It didn't even bother me that much that she had a boyfriend, just that she stopped talking to me out of the blue.
The second time was a shy goth chick in my Japanese class. It seemed like we were the only two people without partners for a project so I squeezed my way through the desks over to her and said "let's be partners" or something. I tried getting to know her outside of class and it was really cringe but she was very kind and on the last day of class I tried getting her number... this time, a fiancee, and this time I didn't even get a number. "I'll have to ask my fiancee," she said. lol
But I haven't tried since, partially because my social anxiety worsened but also due to a lack of interest.
I'm 28 and have asked a woman out once in my life.
I was 18 the first time and 23 the second time, if anyone cares. 29 now and I'm just afraid of getting rejected again.