This is WHY YOU DON"T HAVE A GF

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This is WHY YOU DON"T HAVE A GF

Dear incels. As a former incel. I came here to make an announcement as to why you are an incel.
First and foremost, why are you alone?

I am ugly, short, balding, full of acne and fat/skinny

Try going outside, you'll see all sorts of couples, for the few chads and Stacies you'll see lots of ugly women with handsome men and ugly men with handsome women and vice versa.

I am mentally ill

So? there are many people that have mental illnesses that have gotten laid, hell if a retard like Sneako got laid, you should get laid as well.

I am shy and feminine

Lots of men are shy, and yet of them have loving GFs
The real reason isn't because you are short, autistic or into pegging. the real reason is because you are all so fucking negative. You always go on and on about how sad you are because you have no GF and this makes any woman's vagina to dry to Sahara Desert's humidity levels. Ask your self this question:

Would you date a genderbend version of yourself?

If the answer is no, ask yourself why wouldn't you? Once you get the answer, you'll obtain the reason why you are still a virgin and continue to be so until you change yourself to be better, ignore normies, hitting the gym won't get you laid. Alll you have to do is to change your mentality. Stop being negative and start being positive, focus on your interests and instead of telling every new person you meet how depressed you are, tell them things about your favorite hobby and overall be a more positive person that is actually fun to hang around with. I realized this and now I stopped crying over being a virgin because now I know its only my fault. Remember the only person to blame for your inceldom is yourself.

DEAR INCELS, I'M HERE FROM REDDIT TO TRY TO GET UPDOOTS AND KUDOS IN MY 'CORD. I'M GONNA DROP THIS 1PBTID CHATGPT THREAD AND THEN DIP AND DILATE FOR THE NEXT 3 HOURS

I haven't used reddit since like 6 years anon. I am just spreading my revelation as to why I and perhaps you and most other anons on this website are incels.

Try going outside, you'll see all sorts of couples, for the few chads and Stacies you'll see lots of ugly women with handsome men and ugly men with handsome women and vice versa.

This cope only works if you don't go outside. The few times I see ugly men, they are always alone, focused on getting from point A to point B

Take a closer look, You'll see that majority of men with women are either short, balding or skinny. The point is, they aren't chads like the incel wiki claims they are. They are ordinary folk like you who still got laid. I assure you you are average looking. the only reason why you are still virgin is because of your defeatist attitude.

I hate you dumb faggots who think just because you got laid, it suddenly means you have the qualifications to teach others how to get laid. It's like a moron who thinks that passing high school makes him eligible to be a high school teacher. No, dumdum. You have no fucking idea what you're talking about. Get back to me with your dating coach shtick after you build an actual resume.

a retard like Sneako got laid

He has an A-type personality, is extremely self-confident, fairly handsome, tall, rich, and famous, and has very publicly been lusted after by many women (this by itself makes a man attractive to other women). Yeah, he's a retard, but it's an atrocious example to illustrate your point.

Like I said, I am still a virgin. It's just now instead of blaming the conspiracy, I am blaming the only person responsible for my virgin status... myself.

Sneako

His personality sucks, He is an average normie YouTuber turned to Alpha male podcaster because he couldn't accept rejections.He looks average. Sure he is rich but like you said, he is confident and before he broke up, he was positive. He would make YouTube content not about why all women are bad but actual positive good vibe content which was gay imo but it wasn't incel tier.
You want more examples? Go outside. you'll see all sorts of couples. All of them look average but you know one thing that separates you and them? Their attitude to life, they don't start blaming their problems on everyone, they'll blame themselves instead and work on fixing those issues without spreading their negativity to other people and wonder why they are lonely and nobody wants them.

I really don't think dying on the hill that Sneako is a good example of anything you're talking about is a good idea. Manosphere isn't just incels. He's very staunchly a redpiller, and redpillers are despised in incel circles, and have very little cross-over. Even using a random guy from the street would have been a better example than using Sneako. In fact, using any guy with any fame whatsoever would make a terrible example, not just Sneako. If you're famous, everything else doesn't fucking matter, there will be women who would want to fuck you. Chris Chan got a gf. Fredrick Brennan got laid and later got married. But men with fame aren't representative of what men without fame can accomplish sex-wise or dating-wise.

I would date a female version of myself but the female version of myself wouldn't date me because i have the personality of a fish

i don't have a gf because they don't meet my standards, and my stardards are already low. if i had to give up on any of them, then i'd just prefer staying alone.

That's my point. Normies also get laid and have no problems getting laid despite being average and not rich gigachads or famous lolcows. The difference between a normie and an incel is their attitude. Incels suffer from defeatist mentality and just give up and then expect women to pity fuck them when they tell them how pathetic they are. Like if I met a female version of myself. I'd be repulsed by the negativity and the shallow personality. Case in point I am a very boring person to be with and nobody wants a fucking wall as their partner. I have two options either cry about this like all incels or change my attitude a bit and stop spreading my negativity to other people and instead aim to be a positive person that isn't a chore to hang out with.

Then do something about it, don't just give up. Try to change your attitude, instead of waking up and doomscrolling, do a little exercise, go for a walk and when you talk with someone be positive.
What are your standards desu?

how is this going to change my personality? You can't change your personality. It's related to your genetics and environment, both things you can't choose

It doesn't. It's a myth. you can't change your interests but you can change your attitude. Case in point people will more likely to enjoy you sharing your hobby of playing vidya if you talk about it positively without self deprecation of any kind. Rather than saying "I cannot", say "I'll try my very best". Then later on you'll learn to say "I can"!

me being postive won't change a thing because i still won't be able to get a gf because i got the personality of a fish. Name one person who has a personality of a fish that has a gf
you can't.

I refuse to get in relationships on principle. I am ugly and therefore have ugly genes. I consider it a moral duty to never reproduce or get in a relationship

Normies. Have you tried talking to a single normie? They are boring, they listen to same trendy music, consume same trendy media and overall have no personal thoughts of their own. And yet none of the normies have issues getting laid,
Dude wake up. You are not ugly. you are average. Look outside. The public square of your town will be full of generic looking ugly people who are balding, unfit and very short walking with women. You aren't ugly physically. You are an undesirable partner because of your attitude.

you are being contrarian
normies have vibrant personalities. Especially when compared to me.

They don't. Talk to one and their hobbies consist of fucking scrolling tiktoks watching the most generic shit ever and all of their jokes are recycled instagram memes which were stolen from reddit.

personality is not the sum of your hobbies. I could have the most interesting hobbies in the world and my personality would still be like that of a fish. The fact that normies are able to have so many friends and lovers whilst having bland hobbies and interests speaks volumes about how vibrant their personality is.

Try going outside, you'll see all sorts of couples, for the few chads and Stacies you'll see lots of ugly women with handsome men and ugly men with handsome women and vice versa.

Unironically no.
Idk for other but im legit too ugly and poor to date

always go on and on about how sad you are because you have no GF and this makes any woman's vagina to dry to Sahara Desert's humidity levels.

Wow so women can magically sense what i post on r9k?

Would you date a genderbend version of yourself?

Yes. Would someone like me from the opposite sex date me? No because girls have all the options they want

focus on your interests

I do that but still cant meet women for shit because they dont share my interests (outdoor sports and cooking)

and instead of telling every new person you meet how depressed you are, tell them things about your favorite hobby and overall be a more positive person that is actually fun to hang around with.

Not to brag but i am currently like that. Thats how i got my job according to my manager.
Still an incel though. Never got a single date or girl interested in me, in my entire life

Their personality sucks ass. You can literally talk to them and be bored. But why they succeed is because they don't give up with the defeatist attitude. Seriously change your attitude and your life will be miles better. Trust me it will work. it will be a long journey but at the end you'll look at your past self and laugh about it.

I only adopted a defeatist attitude at 26 once learned helplessness set in. Before I was generally well adjusted and made an effort to socialise.

And yes, I do take a closer look. Seriously, it is so common for the guy to be 6 foot and well groomed. Also, I'm not average in looks, though I don't blame you for thinking that since there's so many people here that aren't bad looking and it skews the representation.

you think I haven't tried that? I tried to make up for my personality for ages ever since i was a teen
it does not work. I interacted with plenty of normies. They are way more interesting than I am.

1

You aren't, you are average. You may be poor but so do other normies which are poor but have no issues getting laid.

2

Not if you tell them. Like the only reason why people know I am a Anon is because I out myself as one either accidentally or on purpose make a joke that is appropriate for Anon Babble but in real life will cause confusion.

3

there is no point in extra options when you are interested in one thing. Like There are millions of video games and yet people play slop like Fortnite and Call Of Duty despite Cyberpunk being a thing.

4

Outdoor sports and cooking are literally the hobbies where you can meet women, I am worse in that case than you since all of my hobbies are geek hobbies which are famous for being sausage fests

5

You aren't an incel cause you are a virgin. You are an incel cause of your attitude. You gave up but you still have a chance at getting a gf. Never give up until you actually have to.

It's common but isn't a requirement. Seriously have you ever talked to women? I had asked all women in my life after learning about the height meme and of all only one wanted a tall man and she was a toxic person. Normal women don't care about height, Only toxic shallow ones do and do you seriously want to date a shallow woman like that? Consider yourself lucky that you are a short king. We both live longer too since we have lower risk of heart failure.
Then try to emulate them. See how they talk and how they behave, try to emulate their behavior, practice. eventually you'll get it right. It's like learning to walk. Nobody learnt to walk immediately.

may be poor but so do other normies which are poor but have no issues getting laid.

Theyre attractive. I am not.
You have to be either

Not if you tell them.

Never told anyone, never complained about it to anyone save for my family

when you are interested in one thing

I am not interested in one thing. Women are.

are literally the hobbies where you can meet women

Lmao. I go to hiking/cooking and even a combination of both, meetups almost every weekend. I have never saw a youngish woman. From time to time we have old women coming in (like in their 50ies /60ie). But otherwise its mostly men.
So yeah unless i go on dating apps i have no way of meeting women

You are an incel cause of your attitude.

Yeah no, i was super positive through hs and college and never got a single date

that's what i did. At best it was a poor imitation and everyone saw that.

What are your standards desu?

i'll list the ones that are like the bare minimum for me

is clean

is kind

cares about me

open minded

willing to try new things, activity wise

and the hardest one

willing to work through disagreements or problems

Seriously have you ever talked to women

Yeah. They care about your height, your income, your appearance, what clothes you wear, whether you have a car, a house, whether you can take them on vacations etc etc etc

When I got asked by a woman if I'm an ftm tranny I knew that was it

Women aren't a monolith. You met toxic shallow ones. Trust me majority of women don't give a shit about such superficial bullshit. Only shallow ones. I only eat one women in my whole life and it was some roastie so her not liking short men wasn't a sad thing, it was a blessing. Seriously you guys should stop seeing women as one being and see them the same way you see men, individuals with their own pros and cons. Saying all women care about height is like saying all men care about big fat tits or in my case slim midriffs. it sounds fucking cringe.
Do you have any physical standards? Those standards you had listed aren't even standards as they are a prerequisite for a stable relationship. Like how do you usually meet and talk to women? Do you share any negative emotions during first visits?

Femdompill. I too am a feminine guy and some tell me to hit the gym but why should I when I am comfortable the way I am and I am interested in tomboy girls anyway. Seriously tomboys are the ultimate straight men's choice

Would you date a genderbend version of yourself?

Yes end of bait thread

oh they told you that so it must be true. I'm sure if they asked you what kind of porn you watch you'd also say the truth wouldn't you

I feel like such a fucking chump for responding to these kinds of threads. Maybe I just like being told, "no bro there's still some hope", while I'm here rotting in my bed for the fifth year in a row.

Got a therapist appointment next month and I have no idea what to even expect from it at this point.

majority of women don't give a shit about such superficial bullshit.

Where are they then? Because all lf my coworkers picked their bfs/husbands based on those criteria, hell even my sisters picked their bf based on those

I wasn't asked by the same person but I was asked by another person. I said without shame that I consume cosplay porn. so I don't get your point. Again height women are cringe, Their male equivalent are guys who only like big tits. Those are a tiny minority and you aren't missing much if they reject you.

you can take a 100 dollar note and set it on fire and you can get a pretty good idea of what therapy is like

I'm getting it for free because it's some govt funded thing. I would never pay for therapy.

they would be if they were real

Well atleast you are doing something, that's a start! good luck anon. Just remember that therapy won't solve your issues unless you bring in effort into solving it.
You seriously asked why shallow normies are shallow? Odds are their BFs chose them for their boobs size and not personality. Look for non shallow people anywhere. Literally any place that has humans will have at least a single non shallow person.

That's what I'm worried about. I feel too far long gone, I mostly just want someone to notice me before I perish.

Guarantee you the therapist is going to sound like a ChatGPT-generated redditlib

They are. I was friends with one back in my high school days. Unfortunately this was also the time I discovered the idea of inceldom and became a miserable shy incel. I still think about that day when I was invited to go on an ice skating ring with them and skate together but I rejected that offer because I was afraid of falling. They even told me that they'd hold my hand as a support but I still rejected that offer thinking that I'll fail. Then we became distant post school and stopped being friends forever. This is what being an incel is, stopping yourself from success by focusing on hypothetical failures.

Do you have any physical standards?

i don't think i have thought about that in detail, but i don't pay attention to physical attributes
like she could be 8 ft tall i probably wouldn't mind

Those standards you had listed aren't even standards as they are a prerequisite for a stable relationship.

can you do a favor for me and drill this into the head of women?

Like how do you usually meet and talk to women? Do you share any negative emotions during first visits?

i have talked to them irl and Anon Babble. i usually don't share negative feelings, i usually take their negative feelings instead because people open up to me quickly

Trust me anon. You still have hope. I believe in you. I too was worried I was too ar gone but after my own therapy sessions, I realized I still have hope. Which then later made me realize why I am in this position. That's when I created this thread to reach out to fellow robots just like Gi Hun from Squid Game is reaching out to other players to stop playing the games in season 2.

never met a tomboy irl. Only saw them in anime

Literally any place that has humans will have at least a single non shallow person.

Where are those magical girls then? Because church is all men and old people, so are meetups, bars are only old people and a bunch of men during happy hours

I also would like to mention that I was made fun because of my poor imitations.