Being friends with women Part 2

Update: It actually is impossible to be platonic friends with beautiful women without wanting more out of it.

I'm sorry I doubted you, robots.

Imagine thinking you were just going to defeat human nature like it's not a big deal or whatever.

welp, enjoy the friendzone, OP. it's the bed you made for yourself

I had a oneitis for pretty much all of highschool. You'll get over it man.

I called it. You can be platonic friends with women only if you're already getting your intimacy from some other source, if you think you can just be a desireless robot, well, that's not how humans work.

implying wanting more is bad or something to avoid

Be like water, my friend.

I know, I know. I'm a dumbass idealist.

I didn't mind it at first, but then she started talking about hanging and out shit, and my mind drifted to other possibilities.

I've had plenty of oneitises. Honestly, even though she's incredibly hot, it's not even her that I want. I just want human connection and intimacy, and she's right there, giving me the illusion of it.

What do you mean by "be like water"?

At least you're admitting it, but that doesn't do you any good if you're still giving her attention and she's not giving you sex.

Well, we've talked about hanging out, so what should I do when that time comes? What should I do in the meantime?

If she's not single then don't meet up with her. She's using you for her emotional needs that Chad doesn't meet.

She is single though.

By single do you mean you know she's single or you don't know either way? There are literally 0 "incredibly hot" single girls left on the planet.

No, I know she's single. Her ex cheated on her a few months ago and they broke up.

Careful, you could still be the "I want attention again but not sex" rebound.

I'm honestly getting that vibe, but I'm so starved for attention too that I let myself talk to her.

Well see her and see how it goes. If she's not giving you what you want (doesn't necessarily have to mean immediate sex) then just drop it. You already know it'll just get worse the longer you let it go on like this.

Jesus fuck, fren, be like water means to b formless, shapeless, everchanging to fit the situation you are in. Read a book and practice critical thinking. Damn.

We cannot be friends. The guys always develop feelings.

This is nothing more than proof of female inhumanity.

Didn't you setup camping or something to hangout? Stop overthinking and wait for that day, then see where things go

Can you blame us? You go on and on about how much we mean to you. How can you expect us not to develop feelings when nobody ever tells us those things?

Just a day hike at a local spot, not a full overnight camping trip.

I texted her three hours ago and she hasn't responded yet, so I'm thinking it's over. I flew too close to the sun.

Stop texting so much she will get the ick, play it cool til then

What's inhuman is expecting us to automatically reciprocate.

A good friend is always there. They don't develop romantic feelings and ruin the friendship.

the reason men can't be friends with women without desiring a romantic relationship is because women are generally insufferable and we need some sort of affection we can't get from male friends to make up for that shortcoming.

What's inhuman is expecting us to automatically reciprocate

I don't expect it, I want it.

and ruin the friendship

That's why you aren't people. You want to keep us in orbit for when you need us, later.

So you want men to do all the work of being your emotional tampon, and you don't want to return the favor to them and give them what they want?

I hope you choke on your fucking spit

If I repeat my delusions enough, they become true

Aight, (((girl))), listen up. I'm gonna hit you with reality:

Any male friend that you respect enough, and sticks around long enough for you to call them a long-term friend, is simply pulling enough pussy elsewhere to not develop feelings for you, or they've already hit. The only EXTREMELY RARE exception to this is if they truly see you as a dogshit sexual and emotional partner, but enjoy your camaraderie to such a degree it makes them more attractive to others to have you around.

Any way you slice the cake, males and females cannot simply be friends in the traditional, literal sense of the word. Simple as. No arguments to be had.

everything that comes after the realization that you like her is potentially life and happiness ruining. it is permanent. ghost while you can.

Are you the one who posts this:

This shit reads super awkwardly man

My friends mean a lot to me. It doesn't mean I want to be romantically involved.

Yes, you do expect it. Like we should automatically fall for you just because we are friendly. It's why you are insufferable.

I don't. I want a friend to have fun with.

Thank you for confirming why men are terrible.

Yes.

I want a friend to have fun with

I want a friend to have fun with too, but you wouldn't consider me attractive enough for that. What do I get out of being your friend? Be honest. You HAVE to bring SOMETHING to the table.

men are terrible

I never said men and women don't share common traits, bitch, now give me kisses, hugs, and peepee touches, platonically of course.

Not reading that

Don't have the attention span to

I'm sorry bro

Or not

Whichever one is most appropo here

My guy friend wasn't attractive either. He was overweight and short. We had many things in common and we supported each other. I was there with him when his parents passed from a car accident. I was there to help him with funeral plans. I was there to help him get a job. He helped me get through hard times as well. Friends do that.

Even further proof men are terrible and irredeemable.

If you would have offered him sex, he would have 150% taken that opportunity in an instant.

Guess you like your male friends to be weak and afraid. Doesn't sound like a real friendship to me, it sounds like you manipulated him and took advantage of him for your own personal gain. Karma will bite you in your flabby pancake ass.

I'm a militant lesbian

Cool story, (((femanon))).

I can't believe you would hurt her like that, OP.

No, I like supporting my friends. It's what we're there for. Like I said: I was there for him during his darkest hours. I do not ask to reciprocate for me as that is what friends do. I don't expect you to know since you obviously don't have actual friends.

If you didn't find him so repulsive, would you have dated him?

oh this one's getting a lot of use

No. He was good looking and fit prior until he had an accident, and I thought it was weird he didn't have a gf as he talked about wanting dating other girls. The thought of dating him never crossed my mind even once.

he thinks women have the ability to break away from their anti-male agendas long enough to answer something like this honestly

Oh, anon, you can't even trust her perceptions of her own situation. Stop giving her the attention she wants. You're literally letting her hijack a thread.

Why not exactly? I don't really get this with women. So you got along really well and you going him attractive. Why not date? Genuinely curious. I want to understand women better

You have low test, any dude can be friends with a bitch and only want to fuck them not romance them

She was holding out for a 6'4" 32 year old muscular millionaire to take care of her and her 3 kids by different dads, dumbass.

Do you happen to know the meaning of the word "and"?

I don't think so anon but it doesn't look like I'm getting a response anyway. Bummer. Was really curious about that.

Holy fucking TRVTHNVUKE.
I'm not even being ironic either