How are you frens doing today? I'm not doing so well, everything feels pretty hopeless right now

how are you frens doing today? I'm not doing so well, everything feels pretty hopeless right now.

time for another cup of coffee...stop lusting over girls it will depress you...

trust me I know...

I feel great !
Im dunking on some dumbass tranny in that other thread:

haha sounds fun (^_^)

I am feeling fine in a sense that my life is comfortable and boring but at the same time it's very lonely and isolating existance. I should be happy because I have shelter, food and water but I am always missing out on the social part of life and I have nothing to do so I am forced to browse the internet and stare at screens.

It is ! That troon is getting rekt by some other anons who joined me for the fun!
The troony will end up like the rest of his kind

Spreading my social darwinist ideology on r9k

Im interested. Where can i read ur manifesto ?

Its a work in progress but it's a bit nihilistic. The basics are that if everyone is genetically perfect everyone will be far happier. Its taking out the genetic losers that's a bit sociopathic sounding but it's true. If there are no losers there are only winners and I've come to that realization after rejection, witnessing bullying in real time, and going through the corporate system. Genetic perfection is the main goal of this ideology and the euthanasia of the weak

I'm just very lonely, I can't get her our of my head, I miss her, the pain won't stop

Damn, you actually talked to her? That's a lot further than most men can manage. What's she like anon? What is it about her that made you fall head over heels for her?

I'm just very lonely

I understand, loneliness just makes everything shit and it will make you limerent if you let it fester long enough. Personally i talk to cashiers and strangers when I'm feeling very lonely, sometimes we both enjoy the conversation but usually it's just me.

not only did I talk to her but she was my gf for two months.

What's she like anon?

she was perfect, no joke she was exactly the kind of girl I wanted all my life, exact body type exact personality we were so similar in many ways, happiest 2 months of my life but now she is gone, more than likely forever.

despite me browsing this board I don't actually have any problems talking to women because I grew up spending a lot of time with my female cousins, but that's about it, I can talk to them but that's it

hey i also had a very lovely gf for 2 months more than ten years ago, but i was young and silly and wanted a scene queen weed smoking fantasy girl thats just as smart and just like me, so i rudely and abruptly abandoned a loyal, moral, decent, and attractive girl. came to my senses too late. good news is after about 7 years you'll get over it!

oh man, 7 years of pain? oh boy... can't wait

oh it wasn't constant pain, don't worry about that! just a nagging sense of regret and shame- but the shame was due to my perceived betrayal, especially because she went for the rebound and got knocked up. then i tried to reconnect with her several years later and she'd come and visit, hang out, even bring the kid. nice kid. but i didn't have it in me to get back with her due to the kid (not being mine and all), so i in fact strung her along a second time. very dreadful of me, all because i selfishly clung to a short-lived memory and a fantasy of what could have been.

you'll probably be good in three! :D

hopefully I meet someone else soon (doubt it)

I had a really bad mental health day today. Not great.

was my gf for two months

Okay, I'm officially jealous of you now. But what went wrong if you don't mind me asking? You seem to like her a fuckton so I'm guessing that it was her that decided to skeddadle, or maybe it was you that did a booboo. Hopefully it wasn't cheating that did ended the relationship.

perfect

Are you sure that she really was like this and that it isn't just loneliness messing with you? Something mustve been off with her if you lasted only a few months.

more than likely forever.

RIP Anon, hopefully she didnt get isekaid either, that also wouldve been a crappy end to the relationship.

I can talk to them

Bastard.

I feel your pain fren, been having a bad mental health month

it could happen! happened to me, but i was too stuck, and even more stuck on the relationship before that one. gotta unstick yourself man, don't wanna be a getting-old cunt like me that came to your senses about 7 years too late or more. you can unfuck your head buddy, no worries. can't be clinging to that memory or post-hoc fantasy of what could or would have been. fuck all that. tough as fuck but you gotta put it outta your head. its for your own good! allow me to be your cautionary tale, fellow 2 month of blisser.

I can talk to women, it's not that difficult the thing is that most women aren't worth it and me personally I'm not just looking for sex I want love real love.

yeah I must forget about her, it's gonna be hard since I was pretty obsessed with her, doesn't help that she enable this behavior, she told me she liked how obsessive I was, she was pretty obsessive herself as well.

ugh fuck me I'm thinking about her again

Good news anons! I managed to wat something. Fuck drinking i hate it fuck that poison

ah, well knowing what you must do is the easier part. i can not help you further other than providing a final warning that while it ain't over for me yet, it's pretty fukken close. imagine you're quite a bit younger than 33 (o god), but i fukken promise you that you don't wanna be this advanced in age just recently getting over some girl from a decade (!!!) ago. i played myself real good.

i know you can do it. and you don't even have to be "completely over her" to put yourself out there and find another good girl. a real good girl will get you over her quicker than anything. you just can't be hitting that bitch up or even thinking about it, you know? no matter how much you miss that blissful feeling. and i know how good it feels man, how much you miss it. good luck!!!

Suit yourself
My ideology has results. Humanity is just genetic code in all reality

thanks for the advice, I'm 25 btw (about to turn 26) honestly though 33 is not that old

What was it that ended the relationship though? Its okay if that is a bit too personal to answer, I understand.
Drink more fucker, its friday in europe so its basically the weekend if you squint hard enough and also imagine that you were european.

to be fair she never said it was over in fact she was pretty scared of me breaking up with her, she said she needed space because of family troubles and then I didn't hear anything from her, and it's been nearly a month since I last heard from her so I'm assuming it's over and yes I'm blaming myself, she probably woke up one day and realized she could do better

np buddy, i'm not sweating it because doing so would not help a thing. i don't have a complex about it or nothing. but damn it is unfortunate that i spent far too long thinking in a certain way and wasting very good years doing so. like, the odds go down to find a really great girl as the years count down too. that's just reality. but we live in reality so i will cope as best as is practicable :D

also btw are you just waiting on her? or is she giving you the cold shoulder? like yeah she said she wanted space, i get that. that could mean a million bajillion things that i could not advise on because i don't know you fukken people from Adam. or it could be the honest truth. why don'tcha just try to hit her up? shiiieeet if i hit up my 2-month bliss girl like a month after i foolishly dumped her (over text nonetheless! how awful.), things would have worked out waaaaay different. instead i waited 2-3 years (can't remember, too much smoke and drink in the interim) and i fucked myself even worse! see what's up and then *know* its over man. fuck this assuming shit are you crazy

didn't give you closure

instead just ghosted for a month straight

now you're assuming stuff and blaming yourself

Told you she wasn't perfect
Anyway, why don't you contact her first? Send her a message or go meet up with her or maybe call her so you find out what her plans for the future of the relationship are. You're the one that's suffering from the lack of closure so you gotta do something to get it, its better than assuming stuff and blaming yourself for stuff you had no control over. Who knows, maybe you even get back together.

I'll see what I can do, thanks for the advice
and yes she is perfect even after doing this