I'm a zoomer you dumb faggot, also women have been vapid shits in every generation (presumably since the birth of mankind)
I'll focus on getting a license and a car first
That's a really good move, man. Having a car really sets you free, more than just for picking up girls. You've got a healthy mindset and I wish you the best. Also, start lifting and doing cardio. Sex is a really active process (and it feels great to lift up a foid during sex lmao)
Do you still get nervous when you match with a girl
Sometimes. Especially if things don't quite follow the script. But honestly through this whole journey you start to really lose respect for certain women (they are extremely vapid, greedy, unintelligent, etc...) and that alone does a lot to cure your nerves.
suggestions for tinder pics
I have one good mirror pic, a couple pics of me out having fun with friends (random people I took a picture with lmao) and a couple of my hobbies. Try to steer towards "attractive" hobbies like cooking or photography if you're gonna show them off. I like fishing but I'd never put it on my profile.
Do you have any general guidelines when it comes to talking/flirting with women on there?
Just be an open and decent person. Not every girl is gonna be able to hold a conversation. A lot of them will just play games. Just keep your cool and don't let it irritate you (because it can be REALLY fucking irritating sometimes.)
Also, don't mention sex. The unspoken sexual tension is one of the best parts and it's what gets girls super fucking horny. Just know that if she's willing to come over, it means she's already willing to fuck you.
Other than all that, dress nice, take care of your skin, have some good cologne. I spent years believing all this shit was "extra" but in reality it's the bare minimum to be an attractive and fuckable person. Remember, girls go through a lot to look attractive, and they're gonna expect the same effort in return. Good luck anon!