Do you 30+ year old anons even bother with women your own age?

I only jack off to drawings and barely talk to women. If I was going to bother, I would prefer a woman my age.

Im 30 and I would make friends with 30+ year old men and play therapist for them if I could

I don't bother with women at all.

Almost 34

No.
I find we have nothing in common and share zero common values, goals, or points of reference.
I also find women my age to be unpleasant harpies when it comes to even platonic social interaction.

Men and women live in two different parallel societies and that gulf seems to grow as we get older.
I prefer women to be younger anyway, which is simply a normal aspect of male sexuality.

I echo this sentiment though.
It's a fucking mess, and I've stopped bothering altogether. Been over 10 years since I've even tried to befriend a woman.
I know the game is rigged and absurd, so I'm just not going to play.
Don't really consider that giving up either - I simply reject everything modernity stands for and don't care about fitting in to this farce.

That would probably just make things worse

A terrible feature of older women is they lose any and all ability to showcase their personality.

18 year old girls look punk, preppy, retro, bedrot core, country, nerdy, e-thot, there's a ton of different looks and vibes going on.

30 year old women all look identical. People don't realize that 40 year old men would date 40 year old women if the woman was youthful and fun. The older a woman gets the more she just becomes plain and boring and looks and dresses exactly like every other woman.

Example. What % of goth girls are 18-25, and what % of goth girls are 25+? I bet you a whole dollar there are more 18 year old goth girls alone than goth girls aged 25-100. Cause women get less youthful, less exciting, less fun, the older they get.

Younger women are quirky, older women are samey.

Why would that make something worse? What would I be doing wrong?

a women's greatest asset is her youth. If im not married by 30 why the fuck would i want to waste attention and a dime on some eggless bitter entitled bitch. gimme some of that jailbait tail i could groom into a daughterwife or no deal. fuck outta here roastie

It's a close emotional connection with a woman my age. It's bound to result in some unrequited feelings on my end which would be very stressful.

You honestly dont know that, Im fat and weird and I have fucking autism
I just want friends my age who are not lame

You'd have to be really fat to stop that from happening. Being weird/autistic would make it even harder not to develop feelings. It's pretty much the reverse of how women feel about it.

women my age can't reproduce

zoomers are fucking retarded

it's over

So you really wouldnt be friends with someone just because theyre a woman and close to your age? It feels like youre closing yourself off from potentially having a best friend who can help you meet women your age.

Do you 30+ year old anons even bother with women

no

It's not that I don't consciously want it. I'm telling you it'd make my situation worse mentally though. If it was supposed to be therapy it would be having the opposite effect. I'd value the friendship but it's not worth the stress since I'm already not in the best mental situation already as it is.

No. I actually have a few online friends who are women but they're in their 30s and as soon as I found that out about each one they mentally switched out of the "potential partner" category.

Okay well, lets say it is not therapy but a friendship and you arent expected to vent or anything but if you want to you can

a girl smiled at me at dinner. i looked away without acknowledging it.

32, I don't really bother with women period. When I was younger I had bouts of getting into fitness or trying to be more outgoing but it kind of made me pissy because I'm extremely reclusive.
These days I've found alternative outlets for my sexual frustrations like crossdressing and actively shut the thought down when I think about fucking or dating women.

LITERALLY me, birds of a feather flock together for real

They exist but they're either mentally ill or very jaded due to touch deprivation

Maybe. It really depends on the person at that point. I'd consider it if she was willing to help me meet women and we had some common interests so we could just be normal friends like I am with other men.

Okay, I would be willing to be wing-woman. What are your interests Anon?
Do you like anime or cartoons at all?

I'll think about it. I'm a pretty stereotypical older Anon Babble poster. Introverted computer nerd who likes anime videogames and japanese culture and have been posting here for over half of my life. I just like posting as anon on here and don't usually add people unless it's joining some group event started by anons.

These days I've found alternative outlets for my sexual frustrations like crossdressing

This isn't healthy at all, anons.

I also like Japanese culture, anime and I dont have good enough hand-eye coordination for most games but I like them so I watch people play them. Im also really into comics, graphic novels, manga, and drawing.

I am married and have been with the same woman for 12 years.
The only wisdom I have that I am confident in is that men and women cannot be friends. If a woman asks to be friends or wants to just hang out platonically, you run and reroll over and over. Only exception is to keep them around and use them as bait to attract other women if you are looking for short term flings and have no intention of getting married ever. Degenerate women are specifically attracted to men other women are after.

Degenerate women are specifically attracted to men other women are after.

I thought that was all women

The women who would engage in conversation randomly in public without reason to be there other than just being out probably have a huge overlap with that, sure.
Plenty of women are quiet and shy, just have to find your own way to get in and it is not easy and no answer works for every guy.

No, I don't actively look because I ate the find peace and happiness within me first meme. So no motivation or much to offer

I do, but for some reason I got this super awesome derpette who's into me right now who likes out large age gap (still legal thankfully) and we are both into the same things from hobbies, music, and stuff we like to watch.

So really, as long as it's above board age shouldn't really matter if your making an actual real connection.