No no-one at all. No old school friends or fake discord friends. Just nothing at all
Just put yourself out there!
I did. I went to two different clubs for 2 years each and both had impenetrable group cliqs that they most likely made in school that they don't want me to be a part of.
just get a hobby
My hobbies are solitary due to this reason
You're vibe is just super negative
I was only ever honest and earnest and now I'm being told im wrong...fuck off
after highschool making friends is impossible imo
Yes, I have 0 friends (no internet friends and no old school friends).
I'm 38 so people my age don't really make friends anymore.
I still have the friends I made in an MMO 15 years ago.
Arent people your age more sociable? Sorry if that's me being ignorant. I'm gen z so everyone my age is very narcissistic and nasty but are people from your gen not more...chatty? Or are they just as much horrible and self centered?
I literally don't get it; all my life, I struggled to have actual friends, and it's not like it's because I was unapproachable or not social enough growing up. I was usually the more popular girl in my classes, I was constantly complimented, and almost everyone enjoyed being around me, but not a single time was I able to make actual, long-term relationships.
The closest time I ever got to an actual friendship was once, but it immediately got ruined because of something that was completely out of my control; this shit is just fucking rigged and has nothing to do with how you behave.
Looks like you believed soillennial kool aid that gets spammed here 24/7
People are chatty and nice if you're neurotypical yourself or not mentally ill in the ways they dislike and also if you "put yourself out there" and be presentable, unironically
Stop listening to rancid 40 year olds here, they have no idea themselves what other adults are like much less what zoomers are like
Arent people your age more sociable
No. We all just keep to ourselves.
It feels like I've tried nearly everything and it's just come down to my very soul being the problem. In which case I may aswell get used to solitary confinement
Most adults don't have any "real friends" you're still looking at life through a fictional lense with unrealistic expectations. And if you're that outcasted like most of us here no amount of "trying" is going to change it. Just learn to live alone life is short as it is. Either you make friends naturally through school and work or you're a weirdo loner like us you can't "make it happen" you can't force it.
Me but I'm avoidant anyway. Most people just annoy me, or I annoy them. Hypothetically if perfect people existed who understood me on every level I wouldn't mind friends, but they don't.
Arent people your age more sociable?
No most Millennials are just as much of narcissistic wackos as our baby boomer parents and as anon said the decent ones keep to themselves and don't bother people and don't want to be bothered (myself included).
21 I haven't had a friend since I was half my age
I sometimes go out for walks at night and the city is always filled with groups that look very "sitcommy" and I feel miserable and that I'm missing out. Is it true it's just a lie? Like its a grass is greener type thing?
I feel like Patrick Bateman without the violence, I have zero real connection with anyone I meet. It's fucked
the decent ones
No one thinks you're decent anon, that's why you're alone/lonely
Yes most of it is just performative banter and passive aggressive bullying because they're too afraid to do things alone or to have nobody. I socialized enough in my younger years to know how fake the majority of it is. Its hard for most loners to understand but most normalfaggots can't fathom going out in public solo so they have people they group up with for everything. It's all very superficial.
Ill be friends with you if you are 30+
Sure kiddo whatever makes you feel better about it. Atleast I'm not a baby boomers that talks to random strangers in the grocery store or sidewalk just to be acknowledged for narcissistic supply like a desperate 10 year old needy for attention.
Surley the majority of the population fosent live like that? They can't be just living a lie, you'd want to kill yourself with a life that vapid
Soz im 23
yeah me, last year i thought i had gotten one online, but he ended up ghosting me because i couldn't provide anything of value to him.
Surley the majority of the population fosent live like that? They can't be just living a lie, you'd want to kill yourself with a life that vapid
Holy fuck you are young. There's a reason alcoholism, drug addiction and gambling are such a worldwide problem. Most normalfaggots do live a lie and spend their entire lives running from facing it.
Why does no-one do anything about it?
I'd rather live alone than live a slave like that
narc supply blah blah, too many words to say "i am insufferable". you proved the anon right
transphobe
zero friends
Same here buddy probably why most famous philosophers and intellectuals ended up loners. Once you realize how awful it all is you'd rather be alone and live authentically than deal with the charade to "fit in". Probably why isolation and loneliness is on the rise these days too as people are more informed and psychologically aware. Enough people rather opt out than act fake.
No I don't and I haven't had any since I was a kid. I don't know anybody outside of my family and I don't bother with online connections
I don't have any friends either. I am inately standoffish, secretive, and quiet. I would have to change my personality to fit in and then I would be just wearing a mask.
It's six lines boy you zoomers really have no fucking attention span. No wonder you all hate each other by adulthood how do you ever even hold a conversation.
If it means anything, I hate trannies just as much as I hate normies. When I was humble and wanted to be nice to people I genuinely thought trannies deserved just as much respect as regular people. Now I'm just happy that they will kill themselves faster so I dint have to see their frankenstein mess of a face they call passing
If your view of the humanity of millions of people changes on a dime like that it's no wonder nobody loves you.
they ugly so they deserve to die
Same thought process why normies hate incels.
It wasn't on a dime, I've gotten more jaded and bitter as the world has shown me I don't belong here
Yeah. I had one friend, we were real close since childhood, but he went crazy and trooned out and cut me off. I find it hard to want to talk to anyone anymore. It is something wrong with me, I have met plenty of nice people but I just cannot follow up and I have no social media and never have had any.
I guess one friend was enough.
I mean getting caught up in right-wing propaganda and making your entire personality about hating transpeople is probably deterring people and doing a lot to hurt your chances at making friends. Have you considered not wasting your freetime going online to post about hating people?
They aren't the problem, you are. You're just an asshole.
bigotry will do that
No, and I finally realized people just don't like me
I'm cool with it
yeah, i have no friends. and when i try to make friends online, its just awkward bc im social inept. my ffxiv guild tolerates me, and i cant even make friends in friendslop games like helldivers or whatever. it sucks
I have my discord which doubles up as the people I've known since pretty much high school, hell some of them middle school, but all of them live in different parts of the country so meeting up is next to out of the question, when that ends up falling apart I will have practically nothing
I tried twice
Keep putting yourself out there, is what everyone does
My hobby is to scrape catboxdotmoe and anonymously report any cp or bestiality I find there to the authorities.
Just joking. I'll give him a couple days of a head-start so he can delete them before I snitch on him. But will he know about EVERY vile thing I find there? Hmmm, maybe?
Tik Tok tik Tok.
yeah, but after wasting years trying to people please for nothing i've realized i really don't even want them, if we're not fucking then idc anymore, i'll be alone like i have for the vast of majority of my life and that's fine