Why aren't fat women attracted to fat men?

Used to Think I was ugly I meant

hypergamy, bitches are retarded i hate them

I'm taking the ozempic-pill soon.

It's subcut, but forget about that. Listen to me:

You don't need Ozempic, or any incretin mimetic. We need to start you on 30mg of mirtazapine and 20mg of olanzapine immediately. Next, we need to increase your caloric intake drastically. We don't have time to waste. Let's get an NG tube in you and commence with 2L/day of Nutren 2.0; you can supplement this with oral intake. We'll start a variable-rate insulin infusion to control your blood sugar and get as much nutrition into you as physically possible.

We're reaching levels of architecture I never thought possible.

as a skinnyfat girl who is in the process of losing weight, i never found fat men attractive because they lack everything that makes a man hot: big dick, strong arms, firm body, sharp jawline

i don't know about other fat girls but i am

As a jacked guy, why are you ruining your body? You should be fattened up. If you were my woman, you wouldn't have a choice in the matter.

Based and truthpilled
You should be more like the girl above.

because being fat is not healthy or conventionally attractive

The only men who want me are fit or really skinny. Its not that I necessarily prefer them.

Why do men think that women always lie? What if she really likes fat guys?

Why do men think that women always lie?

Lying comes as naturally to a woman as breathing.

cavewoman needed cavemen to be in shape. Cavemen did not need cavewomen to be in shape

But what if she actually likes fat guys? Not all women want your stupid chad.

i like fit men too, i don't care that much about body type

But what if she actually likes fat guys?

Good question, anon. I have no way to know for sure, so I'll just assume they're lying.

In my considerable experience, women don't like fat guys, but they do like to fatten guys up. I'm not certain why this is, although I have several theories.

Fat women want someone that can manhandle them a bit. That requires muscles.

i like fit men too

Fat girl plus fit guy is ideal. I'm glad that you are being more honest now.

i don't care that much about body type

That's great but fat women look really good with fit guys. Go for a fit guy instead. Sex is better.

i'll go for whichever guy is interested in me and i have compatibility with

But you have to admit that fit guys are hotter though. No need to try and pander for moids.

Because fat men are smelly.

You can't just use rational thinking on Anon Babble. That's literally a crime.

not necessarily, appearance isn't that relevant to me, i need to like someone's personality more than anything
haven't been here long so i don't have Anon Babble brain yet, i guess

fatbros.... is it over?

Get out while you still can. If not for yourself, for your friends and family.

men will fuck literally anything that has a vag and a pair of tits on it.
meanwhile women are naturally picky because childbirth is a dangerous and risky process.

Correct, and ugly.

not necessarily

So you are telling me that a fat lard looks just as good as a fit guy? Where's the shame in admitting that fat guys are gross?

does it really ultimately boils down to it?

But fat girls aren't?

I wish this was reality, but it's not what I see when I go outside.

ironic since all of these women are hourglass shaped one way or another

obviously there is a limit, anything below 300lbs is fine to me. i don't find it gross

what do you see when you go outside? reality?

obviously there is a limit,

Men need to be fit to be attractive to women.

anything below 300lbs is fine to me

You don't sound excited about it though. Can't you just admit that fit guys look better?

Not really. Women in general have better hygiene.

And ironically all of those women even the fatties only want chad.

oh my goddd

i'll admit i care about stuff like height, but a fat guy can be just as attractive to me as a fit guy. for me sexual attraction only develops after i like them, so if i have feelings for a guy that happens to be fat i'll be more attracted to him than some random fit guy

No, they're also into niggers with mental retardation that will abuse them.

i'll admit i care about stuff like height

So a guy needs to be over 6 foot to date you? Pls say yes. I love honesty

but a fat guy can be just as attractive to me as a fit guy

You used the sentence "just as attractive" this makes me think that you find fit guys more attractive than fat guys which is ironic because you are fat yourself. Can't you negotiate a little?

To be fair fat men are disgusting and women who like them have mental health issues.

So a guy needs to be over 6 foot to date you?

not necessarily over 6 foot, just a bit taller than me (i'm 5'7)

You used the sentence "just as attractive" this makes me think that you find fit guys more attractive than fat guys

i used that phrase because they can be on the same level of attractiveness, because like i said, body type is mostly irrelevant to me. i have no reason to lie about this, we're on an anonymous board

fat men are disgusting and women who like them have mental health issues

okay skellington (male)

I've noticed that bipolar girls like them.

I'm not believing any of this. Sorry, but you like all women just prefer Chad.

i don't, but fine, don't believe me then

Does it feel bad that I wasted your time?

not really, i don't have anything better to do so i don't care

why? did you want it to feel bad?

The person that made this is confusing body types that men would fuck with body types that men actually like. sure most men would fuck number 16 or 18 begrudgingly because theyre horny but ideally they would want to marry number 1 to 4 or atleast enjoy sex with those way more

I just saw a pretty girl with some fat dude at the store today

I am a skinny dude. I can try to get lean, but I need time.
I want a chubby gf. I think it's attractive, and if she's top heavy, that's my dream girl.

Fat men don't bother because they filter themselves thinking you don't want them

I see way more fat men with skinny women than fat men with fat women

Skinny guy and chubby girl is a great pair.

Ugly balding men with at least average women who visibly take more care of themselves, often at least a few years younger and also working and making their own money. The lower you go in ages, the bigger the beauty difference.

Fembot cope.

why aren't ugly men attracted to ugly women?

They are? What are you even talking about?

Because they're ugly, and a woman's only job in life is to not be ugly.

Nta but nobody is attracted to ugly people were all just trying to get someone with the best looks that we have and coincidentally theres not a lot to go around so uggos pair with other uggos

Who said I don't? They're the ones that don't want me back. Instead the few guys that have liked me were gymbros or twigs

how the fuck do I find a gf like this?

But let's be real here you prefer gymbros and twinks. The fat guys already know or think that you don't want them.

Why aren't fat women attracted to fat men?

Because I don't like it when his hips are bigger than mine. Fat men looks like shapeless blobs.

It's pretty well known that fat women hate fat men. Why are you asking these questions?

Idk, im not that attracted to fit men either. i think the guy in picrel looks kind of uncanny body wise but if you want me to hate on fat men for your agenda sure i can do that i guess. theres not much to say about it lol.

but if you want me to hate on fat men for your agenda sure i can do that i guess.

Yes please.

1-17 are fair game I think you're just a fag.

BECAUSE FAT IS FEMININE
Fat can lower testosterone levels by 50%.

i think the guy in picrel looks kind of uncanny body wise

He's got really weird fat distribution/gyno.

I have 0 things to say ngl. i think youre an overweight man thats trying to get women to fuel your self hatred so you can keep hating yourself.. which is like weird but ok. or maybe youre just some skinny or fit guy that wants to have an ego boost. either way weird thread

She truly deserves better.

sigh....just barely missed it..oh well guess theres nothing else i can do......

I really don't. I like gymbros when they're not freakishly lean and have fat on top of the muscle, and skinny dudes are just not my thing at all. The only guy I've ever asked out was fat and he rejected me. And I'm not even that fat, I'm chubby. But well I'm not bitter about it, everyone's entitled to have their personal preference

I like gymbros when they're not freakishly lean and have fat on top of the muscle

"I'm obese but I have the grace to like Chad who isn't completely ripped"

The only guy I've ever asked out was fat and he rejected me.

You asked out one fat guy and decided that no fat guys want you? Lol.

And I'm not even that fat, I'm chubby

X

But well I'm not bitter about it,

Why would you be? You are fucking gymbros. Your looksmatch he is the one who should be bitter.

How lean is too lean, fembutt?

there are several other factors besides size that go into what a woman looks for in a guy.

"I'm obese but I have the grace to like Chad who isn't completely ripped"

Im not obese, I'm moderately overweight (26 BMI). I find the lean muscular look unappealing, that's why I phrased it that way

You asked out one fat guy and decided that no fat guys want you? Lol.

I don't need to ask someone out to learn their preferences. I've never met a fat guy that would take a fat girl, and I prefer not to go through the humiliation ritual of trying despite knowing it

You are fucking gymbros

I'm a virgin, why are you projecting? Xd My looksmatch literally doesn't want me back, what do you want me to do? Rape a fat dude?
I don't know, barely no fat to grip at?

and skinny dudes are just not my thing at all

it's never been more over.

I'm moderately overweight (26 BMI)

Would you be willing to take medication to fix that?

No lmao I don't hate myself enough to be put on unnecessary medication when there's people out there that actually need it. I've already lost like 5 kilos, and I'm not in a rush at all
It's not that big of a deal since you'd pick up weight living with me

I've already lost like 5 kilos

Oh dear, it's worse than I thought. We may not have much time left, anon. Let me take care of you.

It's not that big of a deal since you'd pick up weight living with me

I like being skinny, but I would shape myself into what my gf liked the most

You don't need Ozempic. Take a third off every meal plate and you'll get results very quickly.

Wdym?
Do you put effort into being skinny or is it just your normal build?

The real measure for obesity is waist height ratio.

Do you put effort into being skinny or is it just your normal build?

I don't eat a lot. I was fat as a child.

because women deserve the best

We have to correct your weight loss as soon as possible and get you to a healthier BMI. High 20s, minimum.

Basically the same thing
Huh, was that a conscious effort or?
Lol

Huh, was that a conscious effort or?

it was a conscious effort to become skinny. Now it's just a habit.

Basically the same thing

are you white tho?

Could you share any tips?

I like some fat men but it really all depends on if Im attracted to their face and personality

But you mostly like fit men correct?

Are you jerking off right now

I would say scrawny or skinnyfat is my preference, I like guys who have that gamer look

Could you share any tips?

I don't have any healthy ones.
Lots of water helped a lot tho. And step count goals. try going for like 5,000-7,000 to start and then get to 10,000.
Otherwise I just stopped eating, I have a high tolerance for uncomfortable feelings. Reduced portions and scheduling do help deal with cravings tho.
Are you the girl at 26 bmi? that's fine, ideal for me. But you do you ig.

I would say scrawny or skinnyfat is my preference

Yes I can see why. Are you fat yourself?

what are your stats? height weight and bra size?

I can stop eating for a couple of days but it doesn't hold up, I'll eat sweets eventually and balloon back up :S what motivated you?

Are you the girl at 26 bmi?

Yeah, I know it's not too bad but it's getting pretty hard to cut and get to a healthy weight
How could you do so much cardio without eating though? I'd definitely pass out

Yeah Im fat
Im 5ft tall, 230lbs (fat obviously but working to lose it), 42GG

"Sigh i wish someone would ask me my stats and then playfully degrade me...." what you think the women on Anon Babble think for some reason

yeah I'm fat

And yet you don't want your looksmatch. Can you explain what it is about fat men that makes them unattractive to you? You obviously prefer thinner men.

Also do you have big hips? Where do you store most of your fat?

I never said I dont, I just tend to go for skinnier men. I dont have anything against fat guys, some I find attractive but its all in the face.

I have big hips, Ive been told by a seamstress Im an hourglass figure.

Idk what this thread is about with the weirdo looksmtaching talk but you're way better than a fat fuck guy
Those stats sound HAWT- good luck with further WL too

How could you do so much cardio without eating though? I'd definitely pass out

I know it sounds like a lot, but it's really not. Just choose to walk instead of Uber or whatever as much as you can.

I can stop eating for a couple of days but it doesn't hold up, I'll eat sweets eventually and balloon back up :S what motivated you?

yeah, it's not good.
Bullying is what motivated me.
skipping meals is not a good way to lose weight. Stock up on water, it will make eating less appealing. Sugarless energy drinks are a cheat code, 0 calories and caffeine reduces your appetite. Portion size is probably what matters the most. If you want sweets, buy small amounts and stick to the recommended portion size in the package, it will make the package last longer and you will build a healthier habit.
26 really is in my ideal so I'd be happy with a girl like that.

I never said I dont, I just tend to go for skinnier men

Because you find them more attractive than fat men. I'm just asking why.

I have big hips

That's hot.

what are your stats? originally
you too

5.3 inches 178cm 66kg

5.3 inches

nice cock bro

That is NOT a lot of cardio. i average around 20k steps a day. americans are lazy af

I dont really know, I guess because theyre spindly and I like the idea I could break them but I like fat men for different reasons.

Break them how? That's hot.

By being on top of them during sex mostly

You don't like fat men btw, but let's leave that for now.

okay that is very hot...

Hot. Would you try sitting on one?

Every time i click back into this thread you confuse me more and honestly im intrigued. are you jerking off right now? what kind of fetish is this? >t.fat female because that should make you more inclined to answer

>t.fat female

now you have to post stats too

I dont think you can tell me what I like and dislike. I like fat men, I like them for different reasons but they ARE harder to have sex with.
Yeah I would
Thanks but you wouldnt like me in person Im really weird

ANSWER ME MF RAAAAAH

It's not a fetish. I just like clowning on women who say that they prefer men who look like me. Not just me being a fat shit but also other characteristics. I guess it's self hatred?

Fat men always hate themselves or have a blown up ego and hate fat women for no reason. Like they either will 'settle' for another fat girl cause 'i cant get anything else' 'well im fat too so i cant judge' or they will degrade fat girls and belittle them despite them being literally the same as them, just a male version. Big ICK.

ANSWER ME MF RAAAAAH

that wasn't me. but you should post stats anyway.

You havent clowned on a single person in this thread so like youre doing a terrible job and you just come across like youre jerking off

I dont think you can tell me what I like and dislike

I think I can based on what you have told me so far. You prefer skinny men over fat men. That's not me making shit up. You are free deny it (you won't) and haven't.

I like them for different reasons

Pay pigs?

I keep this thread open hoping cute big girls will post but it's just you WHINING

I walk everywhere, but I live in a tiny city so there's only so much I need to walk. Unless I go out of my way for it, but I prefer to stay at home and cycle

Bullying is what motivated me

Figures, I guess every fat person has gotten bullied for it at least once. At least you feel better with yourself now

26 really is in my ideal so I'd be happy with a girl like that.

I'm surprised you're into fat girls at all given you seemed to have an ed. Is it a fatspo thing? xd
20k steps a day average?? I live in a walkable European city and my average is around 5k, where the hell are you walking to daily? Those are 16 kilometers and around 4 hours lmao

Damn, didnt even read the post above me before i posted but yup, i was right :)

Is it a fatspo thing? xd

not at all. I really just think it's cute. and a top heavy chubby girl is really my dream gf.

Fat men always hate themselves

Because women hate them and they get made fun of.

or have a blown up ego and hate fat women for no reason

That's women.

Like they either will 'settle' for another fat girl cause 'i cant get anything else

Fat girls are the same. It's very evident that they aren't attracted to fat men. Just read my thread.

No, not paypigs I like that theyre soft and lazy usually. I like a guy whos got a tummy even if theyre skinny I like guys with a gut because I think its cute and I like a soft touch.

I walk around my house for fun like a psychopath

Now you are just making shit up. If you are gonna bait me you will have try harder.

Ah so you're only into fat tits, that makes more sense
That really is psychopath behavior

Damn, didnt even read the post above me before i posted but yup, i was right :)

See this as a sign to date your local gymbro.

Ah so you're only into fat tits, that makes more sense

only

I like everything about it. the tummy is hot too
and the thighs

Making shit up

No? I said before I find some fat guys attractive if I like how their face looks. I think theres a limit of too fat where Im not interested but chubby to moderately fat is a sweet spot.

You are morbidly obese and your ideal is skinny gamers lol

try the navy test
legionathletics.com/body-fat-calculator/

It said I'm 1 inch of belly overweight. I never considered myself chubby because you can't tell when I have a shirt on. Oh well.

I have a preference but preferences arent deal breakers

Are you a fat or formerly fat man? Are you actually attracted to fat girls and have tried to date one or are you just bitching?

like 174lbs and around 5,5. i gained around 30lbs from medication which was very terrible but i try to remember anyone can kill themselves at any time so im not bothered by it as much anymore

Because women hate them and they get made fun of.

Not true, jack black was most women's celebrity crush because he was cool as fuck (AND FAT), he also only really liked thin women though.

I fucking loved fat guys and thought they were cute, till I actually spoke to them and realized they are exactly as i described in my post... only a couple exceptions but for the most part it is as I am describing, fat men either will settle for fat women because they hate themselves (not because they desire them) or will hate fat women and talk shit about them. It put me off my crush for fat men who i previously thought were super cute and endearing.

that's not bad. datable. would gf if you liked anime and me.

Hope you get the big tiddied gf of your dreams anon
I'm too lazy to figure out how inches work

Men would never defend fat women this hard lmao

THAT'S WHAT IM SAYING. yeah I'd fuck a fat guy but all men are horrible so what's the point

Are you actually attracted to fat girls and have tried to date one or are you just bitching?

Yes. No, they don't want fat guys.

Not true, jack black was most women's celebrity crush because he was cool as fuck

Status goes a long way. Women wouldn't look twice at him if it wasn't for the fact that he is a celebrity.

I fucking loved fat guys and thought they were cute.

Let's pretend for a second that you did.

till I actually spoke to them and realized they are exactly as i described in my post

So don't date them? Where's the problem? Plenty of gymbros to go around.

fat men either will settle for fat women because they hate themselves (not because they desire them) or will hate fat women and talk shit about them

Sounds like you really dislike fat men. It's understandable because you've been through a lot. In my experience it's usually the other way around but maybe I'm biased. Fat women usually want fit men. I don't know if it's because fat men are bad people as you said or if they are just very unattractive.

It put me off my crush for fat men who i previously thought were super cute and endearing

So don't fuck em. Stay away from them.

yeah I'd fuck a fat guy but all men are horrible so what's the point

Have you tried fit guys?

Girl you're getting ragebaited, don't reply to him

I haven't tried any as a matter of fact but they tend to be more narcissistic anyway

Hope you get the big tiddied gf of your dreams anon

thank you. is it asking too much? I really do like chubby girls.

Women wouldn't look twice at him if it wasn't for the fact that he is a celebrity.

This is always your excuse but it's not true, I first knew Jack Black from only a single youtube video for one of his tenacious D songs when I was a kid, I had no idea he had any fame i just saw him and thought 'wow that guy is insanely cool and funny' I didn't feel that way about the fat 'KYLE' guy he was with because he didn't seem as cool as Jack. If it was about status i'd have been obsessed with both of them for being in the exact same video. Also, I was too young to see anything else he was in until he was in 'school of rock' years later.

Damn, too late lol. I am going to stop replying now though since I got my point across and everything he replies with is pure stupidity.

it has metric

is it asking too much?

I guess it depends on what kind of fat distribution you're expecting

Not for the navy one no, probably because it's an American only method

Idk why but it sucks.

t. fat man

This is always your excuse but it's not true

It's not an excuse. Women aren't attracted to fat guys. The only reason Jack Black is well liked by women is because he is a celebrity. It is not applicable to normal men with normal lives.

I had no idea he had any fame i just saw him and thought 'wow that guy is insanely cool and funny'

He's a clown. That's all he ever was.

Can you please adress my entire comment
A. If you don't like fat guys why don't you date fit guys? At least give it a try

what type of girl do you like? be detailes

detailed*

I feel you brother.
Like the girl that I posted in my OP. Give or take, I like bigger hips and what not but you probably get my point. No skinnies.

How do I find a guy like this irl:/

Oh sorry I completely missed this comment.

I haven't tried any as a matter of fact but they tend to be more narcissistic anyway

But you haven't tried it yet right? I'm saying this because you have made it clear that you don't really like fat guys.

Guys like me are everywhere. I think the biggest obstacle for women is not taking their chances. Fat women for some reason assume that no one wants them abd that thought process really fucks it up.

I actually like mediterranean girls with brown skin and brown eyes. I also am into more western Euro girls, but generally caucasian ones, not Asian, black etc. i don't mind if she's fit, average, chubby either really. But never have done well with women in general.

Wow a female. Body fat is 32.2%. 33% is obese. So you're on the upper end of overweight.

I'm lol

Are you western European too?

Dawg I'm not obese, it's centimeters, not inches

I converted it. It says you gotta lose 3.76 kg to escape overweight.

Yeah, my ideal weight is 65 kilos. But I already knew from BMI alone

If anything I'm the one being ragebaited. Getting told that she once upon a time liked fat guys. Now thats infuriating.

Yes from UK. Welsh and Danish heritage. I guess my slow metabolism is because of this.

Nta but the guy I've liked the most was short and fat, now I avoid them like the plague. If someone what doesn't love themselves takes you and your love for granted they will rip your heart out. It's not worth the effort

Nta but the guy I've liked the most was short and fat, now I avoid them like the plague

This seems like a shared experience for many women. They give the undesirable guy a chance thinking that he is better. In most cases the undesirable guy has a chip on his shoulder.

If someone what doesn't love themselves takes you and your love for granted they will rip your heart out. It's not worth the effort

Some people are just not capable of loving themselves.

Big boobs are a plus, anything over DD is ideal.
Idk what you really mean by fat distribution, but I don't require a slim waist. I said I like a soft tummy. I think most shapes are good.

I didn't feel like I was doing him a favor or anything, I just genuinely liked him. I think the problem is that generally undesirable men don't want undesirable women, it sinks in as a failure and they'd rather be alone than settle, if they don't have other options. I've learnt to do the same, in a way. But that's just my experience

Nta.
If the thing that determines your attraction to someone is your ego, you're soulless and retarded.

I didn't feel like I was doing him a favor or anything, I just genuinely liked him.

That's gotta hurt extra. What did you see in him?

I think the problem is that generally undesirable men don't want undesirable women

I have the opposite experience but I'm not denying yours. I'm sure he was a dick. What made you break up with him? What was the final straw that broke the camels back?

it sinks in as a failure and they'd rather be alone than settle

As an undesirable man I think that undesirable men are just very inexperienced. We don't really know how relationships works because it's not something that we have had to deal with so we fuck it up one way or another. Or maybe in your case he was just a dick.

I think it's be relatively normal to be embarrassed at the prospect of being seen holding hands with someone like me

What did you see in him?

He reminded me a lot of myself and I wanted to make his life better. The pieces felt naturally from there. I think I reminded him of himself too, and that's why he would only offer a mild friendship

What made you break up with him? What was the final straw that broke the camels back?

He was the one that broke up with me, it was shortly after we met. I think he was in denial about my physical appearance up until then
What's your experience?

Or maybe in your case he was just a dick.

He was definitely a dick but also a. schizoid lol

I think it's be relatively normal to be embarrassed at the prospect of being seen holding hands with someone like me

I understand where that feeling comes from.
Personally, if I date someone, it's because I like her, all of her. Not because she makes me feel better or worse about myself. Even if she doesn't like herself, I like her, and that's all that's needed for me to want to be with her. We can work on the rest together.
I also have self esteem issues, but I would only date a girl I truly like. Anything else is retarded.

He reminded me a lot of myself

And you probably thought you had a lot in common.
and I wanted to make his life better
That's sweet though... You said that he was a schizo. Maybe that kind of made him a lost cause? It's a tough ilness to live with. In what way did you want to improve his life?

I think he was in denial about my physical appearance up until then

Could've been lots of reasons for why he gave up. Maybe he felt overwhelmed? What's wrong with your appearance anyways? Can't be that bad.

What's your experience?

I've been rejected by women for most of my life. I don't blame it entirely on my looks. I have other issues too. About a year ago I got lucky though and had my first relationship. I thought she was amazing but I could never understand what she saw in a guy like me and I still can't. A couple of months into the relationship she cheated on me. I think that says more about me than her. It broke me. I felt so lost and angry. Now I have a pretty negative view of women as a whole. Hard not to when my only experience is being rejected and cheated on. I try my best to see the good in people but it's just safer not too. Been hurt to many times.

he was definitely a dick

That's what I thought. He's probably a dick to everyone though.

I just want a gf ffs

Why aren't fat women attracted to fat men?

but i am attracted to fat men and am a feeder that made my skinny bf morbidly obese

Why do you like it and other women don't?
Even on fat fetish websites 50% of men like fat women, but 20% of women like fat men. One fat lady even said "if you're a fat man and expect me to you like, just know I'm not into role reversal."

idk. i started off as strictly being into female weight gain which made me think i was a lesbian for a while, but when my bf started to gain weight due to my bad eating habits rubbing off on him i realized i enjoyed male weight gain even more. fat has been a sexual organ to me ever since i can remember. there is nothing really arousing about thin male/female bodies to me although i can acknowledge that they are aesthetically pleasing at times. i think fat fetish is a bit more common among thin women although they probably don't think of it as a fat fetish, they just like 'feeling small' in comparison.