Why are men afraid of showing vulnerability?
Why are men afraid of showing vulnerability?
Because women get the ick from that.
Left is a tranny btw.
because.... people attack it? duh
hey why arent you sharing your banking information?
Nobody cares if a man has a problem, so it's pointless to whine about it.
Why are men afraid of showing vulnerability?
Betrayal, insecurity, used to handle my things on my own by being closed off. Cute pic btw.
Because nobody cares. I hate listening to other peoples problems so I won't go around burdening others with my problems either.
Women are hardwired to select for masucline traits and will lose respect for you the second you show any kind of weakness.
my bf cried at his Grandmas funeral and now, I don't really find him attractive anymore
Too many stories like that. Women hate emotional men.
All of my problems come down to being disappointed with myself or hating other people and a lover cannot alleviate this
because every time I have, the woman I have been talking to has left me.
Women's don't want you to be a human being, they just want a provider with no emotions.
Showing vulnerability to whom, exactly? If you mean to female romantic or sexual partners, then it's because being vulnerable is very likely to make the woman see you in a different light, and have her lose attraction to you. It's very common. Even ultra-feminist male basedboy redditors admit to it happening. Even if the woman really wants her bf/husband to open up to her, which is usually what makes the guys do it in the first place, feelings are irrational, so the woman can't help but simply not feel the same way about the guy afterwards. But if the guy in question isn't really neurotic in any way and his troubles don't go outside what's acceptable for the stereotypical image of a strong capable man, then I guess he can be "vulnerable" with his female partner. Even if it's not really being "vulnerable".
incoming moids whining "waaaahhhh females don't care about muh feelings"
Most men rarely have feelings because they're not human beings and don't have empathy. Learnt that the hard way after being disappointed so many times in my life. Even the ones that do have feelings agre probably like >pic related
that image
men don't do... oh that's right she means chad. Always remember that a woman who says "men" means chad.
people want you to be 'vulnerable', but they also don't want you to complain. as a result you have to carefully expose some part of you so they don't feel threatened. unfortunately this also a vector of manipulation that narcissists and sociopaths love to exploit. normalfag's social game is so fucking retarded.
Learnt that the hard way after being disappointed so many times in my life
t. Becky who was pumped and dumped by Chad
TDS detected ur syndrome
people want you to be 'vulnerable', but they also don't want you to complain
Honestly, this is the truest one. They tell you to open up but then act indifferent or even pissy because, to them, you are whining and complaining. When 'being vulnerable' is just exactly what it is instead of an humiliation ritual? I swear I've seen it myself with supposed friends.
You are a mentally ill man, I have played fear and hunger 2. Now buy a rope.
Laws reinforce this
Every since it became illegal to hit women who say "I lost attraction for him when he started being a human being" and other variations, they started to take over
Asuna would never judge you for crying at your grandma's funeral, and any girl who does judge you for that deserves broken legs and black eyes
Because I'm sigma and do not need anyone .
Beating someone won't make them feel attracted to you once more. Neither can you negotiate attraction. At that point it's just impotent autistic rage, that will do absolutely nothing. It's gone, bro. Let it go and move on.
tbf i expect people to open up about certain things, and if they dont, then i will consider them untrustworthy. it is reasonable to a degree, but most normalfags are just retarded.
Because vulnerability is weaponized against you
You would know if you were a man
I'm a man and know this, but still willing to take the risk. Trust and vulnerability are important in a relationship
I want to look cool, like my favorite anime guys.
Beating someone won't make them feel attracted to you once more.
Tell that to the latina sluts in Vegas who keep going back to their jailbird BFs kekekekekekke
Do you need to be told everything will be alright?
You seem stuck listening to feelings of resentment long past reason.
You can find what you seek if you just open your eyes and realize you don't need to impose your ex partners' crimes onto your future ones.
Trust exists because you can't be vulnerable with everyone.
Every time I do it either hurts the other person or makes them dislike me, and I've never found it helpful either way, so what's the point?
As a man, crying over little shit is humiliating. Unless it is the death of a war buddy, another close male relative, or like your kid was born nothing warrants losing control over your emotions. Only therapists and mothers genuinely want men to express their feelings more. Everyone else may say it but really lose respect seeing a man vunerable in less than dire situations. Even then, you better secure that shit up fast.
I don't know who even invented the view that women like vulnerability, it's so obviously false. Was it just a shit test?
Women don't lose attraction to violent criminals, because those criminals showed vulnerability, which then prompts them to beat them and make them feel attracted once more. The thing about violent criminals is that they are ultra-disagreeable, so they don't ever show any vulnerability. Shit example.
nigga replied to a troll response seriously
fuck, sorry your life is that shit mang, hope you realize what this board is actually for
kek
I wasn't being retarded, I was just trolling!
Okay bro
he just did it again omg
Because it's obviously correct that men need to be strong. Wanting a strong man makes you just like all the other girls. But you don't want to be like the other girls. So you decide from now on you're into soft, emotional, nice men. You tell everyone who will listen, so they know you're not like the other girls. Everyone in your country does the exact same fucking thing, because nobody wants to be like the other girls (that they've made up in their heads). So it becomes a giant meme that ends up spreading from mother to son and making generations of men unlikeable.
Everyone else may say it but really lose respect seeing a man vunerable in less than dire situations
I saw my friend, back then, crying over a girl and didn't think less of him. Thinking about it, I don't think I thought less even of non-friends for being vulnerable in 'less than dire situations'.
same reason you are afraid to make genuine OP's rather than this clickbait shit
The well-founded fear of not getting any (You)s? You make a valid point.
Then you have a kind understanding soul. Most people find it uncomfortable if not downright irritating to witness a grown man sobbing or showing more feminine emotions. Friends I think are a different story since good friendship is built overtime so they can share feels more when hanging out in private. Outside in the world, it's embarassing.
Friends I think are a different story since good friendship is built overtime
It kind of is but, if I remember correctly, we had barely met for a couple of weeks. The guy had a social circle but I don't think he had any actual friends.
showing more feminine emotions
Well, that hardly concerns me. I don't think being more emotional is either a female or male trait, to me almost everything is part of the human spectrum but differentiated by social expectations and constructs. I don't know, all this gender roles stuff sounds like a pile of shit to me
Then you have a kind understanding soul.
This soul is also really exhausted.
Showing vulnerability is deadly for a man. It ends in death.
his mother concealed his birth sex to save him from being dark priest
you should play the game