Avoidant Personality Disorder "people" all deserve to be sent to concentration camps. "Wahh I had interpersonal trauma as a kid so I'll become skittish and emotionally unavailable" Fuck off. That's no excuse to act like a psycho in your adult life. Stop acting like the world revolves around you. You don't want to open yourself up to potential hurt? Fuck you. None of us, but we do it anyway because we're not emotionally ten years old. Grow up.
AvPD Hate
Are you a woman? Would you gag and enslave me?
What a brutal thread. I've had lots of bad experiences and women have been so horrible to me. The thing is, even if I followed your bastard ideas, there is no world for me to rejoin. I was always deemed to be the bottom of the bottom and hence people have treated me accordingly. There are barriers everywhere. Fuck you, you are such a jerk.
How is withdrawing from conflict self-centered? At worst it's neutral, also uf you've ever actually met one of us you would know we AVPDs don't respond to negative reinforcement so I don't see the point in hating on us for no reason...I feel, no I know that if everyone was like me then the world would be completely peaceful and a utopia, albeit maybe a bit boring
yes be mean to me and punish me, then i can detach from you and dump you and finally i'll be safe from you always taking my energy selfishly
I feel
you don't feel shit, you respond to literally nothing in even the most emotionally intimate scenarios
actual npcs
I can't imagine a dumber mental illness to target with a tantrum. They're harmless and inert people, their greatest sin is being boring. Getting hurt and upset by one is like getting hurt and upset at a rock you just broke your foot on. The rock didn't do shit, it was your fault for kicking it.
How would you know that and why are you so mad? Did one of us fuck your mom or something? Care you share your experience with usm?
Pump and dump + therapy language coping
How do you plead, OP
no, fuck YOU nigger. i was born with avpd and i will live my life however i like, without shitty people like you arguing that i'm a lesser person just because i happen to be a little mentally ill.
That's no excuse to act like a psycho in your adult life.
AvPD don't act like psychos, they act like social recluses. You're the psycho; lurking a board with the express purpose of picking up mental and personality disorders with which to taunt those who sufferer from them. Go benefit the human race and play in traffic.
How would you know that and why are you so mad?
because one of these cretins fixed their sights on me, harassed me for months in some autistic push/pull dynamic to meet him and wasted my time and energy and emotional investment when i eventually did
Did one of us fuck your mom or something?
no, freak
Care you share your experience with usm?
no, freak
You weren't born with AvPD, you developed it from negative experiences.
That doesn't sound like AvPD at all.
well he bullshitted the psychiatrist hard enough to be diagnosed with it then
People need to stop diagnosing each other, even therapists get it wrong all the time.
People need to stop diagnosing each other
i didn't, he literally showed me his documentation, stupid faggot
ah so this isn't even about avpd, it's just another generic "WAHHH CHAD LEFT ME, ALL MEN ARE AT FAULT!!"
what a fucking selfish and stupid person you are, what that dude did was BASED
how you gonna diagnose yourself with alien versus predator disease
He sounds closer to something like BPD honestly.
That sounds like BPD and not AVPD I don't think you've met someone with AVPD or have a grasp on what constitutes as having that personality disorder
Well yeah no shit a psychiatric disorder is just a cluster of symptoms, the dsm is a literal checklist and when psychiatrists diagnose you with something it's just in their notes and it's trivially easy to lie to get a false diagnosis which is all to common for the cluster b types
stop bullying my avoidobros im going to beat you up and teabag you im schizoid and not afraid of anything
chadvpd
Stop acting like the world revolves around you.
You're the one doing that, no one owes you attention and sex just because you want it
"Wahh I had interpersonal trauma as a kid so I'll become skittish and emotionally unavailable" Fuck off. That's no excuse to act like a psycho in your adult life.
You're right. I will start showing you love.
chad played me?
all men are pigs!
Kek
What about schizoids like me?
I thought avpd people avoided other people all together so how would you even know them?
Avoidant is failed normalfag the disorder lmao
AvPD haver here. I don't get it. All I ever do is avoid people so I don't create negativity. I try to stay obscure out of the way. I very much do not think the world revolves around me. I consider myself the outer-most circle if anything. I'm curious what experiences you could've had with people to come to this thought?
Right now my assumption is that you've misdiagnosed someone or you're projecting.
Simple, I had an AvPD close friend and an AvPD ex-boyfriend. They were polite and civil, but avoided emotional intimacy, sexual intimacy, or even any kind of contact. AvPD people are so scared of rejection that they reject others because they just can't bring themselves to be vulnerable. It's incredibly selfish. They inspire in others the shame that they feel towards themselves. They poison others because they were poisoned as kids, and I have no sympathy or empathy for anyone who does that. Most people have one of the five love languages; AvPD goblins have none. They would rather make others feel unloved than risk rejection. Fuck 'em.
AvPD people are so scared of rejection that they reject others because they just can't bring themselves to be vulnerable.
This isn't typical at all. Most AvPD people don't get into positions to 'reject others'. You're leaving out something. Most likely trying to take someone who felt bad and then trying to put it on the AvPD person.
AvPD isnt even real. You are being violently angry towards a made up group.
I met my ex on a dating site. He wanted to overcome his AvPD. During the first couple of months when communicating online, things were good and he seemed functional. When things moved to offline, he was incapable of anything romantic or sexual because he'd been alone for so long. I moved in with him hoping he'd get better. He didn't. We spent one long, terrible year together. He told me a couple of times that he did love me romantically when I pressed him, but he had too much shame to ever show love. He never initiated kisses and rarely kissed me back. During sex he barely moved. Gifts were rare. He barely felt like a boyfriend at all.
God I feel so bad for him, he probably thought he managed to overcome his mental illness and find a girl who really likes him and isn't obsessed about sex KEK
Don't you feel bad for him? He wasn't malicious. He was broken.
Harm is harm, malicious or not. It's hard to feel that bad for someone who hurt you.
I just love people that don't fully love me back because the concept of being appreciated for who I am is so foreign I get extremely uncomfortable and I end up being the avoidant one
nice chilly dog dude!
AvPD ex-boyfriend
that anon was right about it being about chad i guess.
Are you still single? Give me a shot and I'll do better than him. I just don't feel comfortable initially but I can get over it once I get to know someone.