i just want to be married with babies already i'm so over this bullshit
I just want to be married with babies already i'm so over this bullshit
How many children do you want? Do you want your first child to be a girl or a boy? Do you have names picked out?
Why do you want to have kids? I'm a young man and I have no idea what that feels like
If you have the money to raise a baby then what is stopping you?
How many children do you want?
i don't know yet, that depends on my future circumstances
Do you want your first child to be a girl or a boy?
i prefer girls in general but i don't care about the order
Do you have names picked out?
i have a long list of (girl) names, but it's not narrowed down enough
i think having that kind of unconditional love and care for someone is beautiful, i can't put it into words very well
i don't, not yet. i wish i did
Oh, I actually understand that. Like sometimes I see a display of parental affection and I feel a little fuzzy inside. The thing is I can't see myself as a parent, as I'm just not capable of unconditional love
I also want a daughter first, I want to spoil the crap out of her, but try my best to raise her as a respectable lady. I also have a few names in my head for a boy and a girl, though.
i get it, i'm glad that you can recognize it. too many crappy parents in the world already
that's nice, do you have a list like me or just some favorites ?
Why aren't you married? Breed like Shinzo Abe told you.
i am not really marriageable at the moment
Why? What makes you unmarriagable?
I have a small list, but they're names that are very significant to me, specifically ones from Greek mythos. Do your names have an origin or are they just pretty names that you like?
a lot of stuff, mental and physical. need to get myself sorted out
How is your love unconditional if it's conditional on your child being female?
You sound exactly like my mother who was subconsciously disappointed that I was born a guy treated me like human trash my entire life because she couldn't get over her pissy fit but knowing her she would find some way to complain even if I was born female.
I don't think you comprehend the difference between unconditional love and fantasy. Keep in mind your child might also be born a tard, how would you feel then?
Bunch of pathetic excuses.
mythology ? that's pretty cool :)
mine are mostly just pretty names, i am not super creative with meanings. some of them are from characters i like
i never said i wouldn't love my child if they were male, i want male children as well
Thanks :) and that's okay, all that matters is that you like them and they have meaning to you.
Average foid when they hit late 20s-early 30s:
not really, i am just not put together enough now. any man with minimal value as a husband would reject me in my current state
No refunds. You're not getting married and you know exactly why.
i'm not even 20 yet lol
You're supposed to do that with a partner and not alone. It's how you grow together
what do you mean with refunds ? i am slow
benefits of being married to a male:
zero???
What's so bad about your current state? Dating is about building a life together, humans are not meant to do it alone.
Have you considered that men aren't looking for perfection off-the-shelf like women do? Some people acknowledge that some effort needs to be put to make things work. How about you stop projecting your shallowness on people?
i am not projecting anything, i have tried to date and been rejected
You know it. Don't ever get married.
You most likely chose a lifestyle that's not compatible with the future you envisioned.
i don't really want to get into details, in general there is just not much desirable about me objectively speaking
Any prospective parent who says "I want x" is lost and doomed to be dysfunctional when you raise children you don't get receive anything, for a large part of life they are selfish little creatures that whine and throw occasional tantums. You should not reproduce unless you're just naturally predisposed to liking kids and have always enjoyed being around them. If you're mentally ill then it's definitely for the best you don't reproduce.
What are you gonna do if your kid is born retarded?
Me too, yet I keep trying. Get pregnant.
i don't want to burden anyone with it, there is still a minimum threshold
what lifestyle have i chosen ? i'm not really doing anything with my life
i know all of that. obviously i would prefer it if my child was healthy in all aspects, but if they do come out disabled i will obviously care for them the same way
i will when i am married
with babies
Bringing kids into a world this shitty is just an act of cruelty, anon
what lifestyle have i chosen ?
the brainrot lifestyle
i suppose. i'm trying to change though
I don't think it's easy to speak objectively of yourself, we are our own harshest critics. Someone would probably take you in a heartbeat and I think your self limiting beliefs are barring you from the life that you desire. You're only young once, fren. Find a nice boy now and date him to marry, build your lives together, like I said.
Literally this, whoever thinks having children is a good thing is fucking delusional
Then marry and get plapped. What kind of life do you want in more detail than just marrying and having kids and why you hate your current one?
You're wrong, most men would take a younger gf with "problems" than an older one that "sorted herself out". You're projecting your female desires on men
How old are you/