Your worst experience with a Female

I'll start, and, obviously, I'm not an incel, unfortunately.

I dated a doctor once, it was a serious relationship lasting 3 years. I did my best for her, surely, there were mistakes here and there, but if anyone ever tried to do anything to her I would have defended her until death. I know that sounds cringe, but did you ever feel it your duty to do so, especially for a woman you love? In any case, the facade cracked really hard one day. I woke up and I could not stop shaking, it was weird, not like when you have a flu but my muscles were constantly twitching, I could not sleep because my bed was shaking beneath me. I tried to hide it from her mostly, I did tell her and she sounded unconcerned. One night I started vomiting heavily, with the shaking and muscle twitching getting ever worse. I called her, it was middle of the day, I really needed help and her being a doctor. She listened to me, very disinterested, and just said, you know, I've promised my little bro I have to take him out for pancakes today, I can't really let him down. That was it. I felt humiliated and betrayed. She got to me a few days later when I was feeling better and still had that twitch. I swear to God, I saw disgust in her eyes, it was like she was telling me: "I didn't get with you FOR THIS, weakling." I got better, the relationship went on for some months more (since I'm a retard). I'm now convinced women can't feel empathy.

So, what the fuck happened that made you all twitchy? Some sort of seizure?

That time my mom birthed me.

I never figured it out. I just got better. On my Bloodwork I was Iron deficient, but that turned out to be wrong as well. I had low iron in my blood, but somehow enough in my body - there are two separate values, idc.

You remember that?

I once worked with a girl over the summer who was exactly my type. I experienced the most intense limerence of my entire life. I could not think clearly about anything but her for any sustained period of time. My mood on any given day was contingent on how she treated me. I started to drink heavily (I had never had alcohol before) and cut myself.
She gave me mixed signals then dropped me after the year ended. I had a mental breakdown. It's been five years since then and I still occasionally get upset that I missed my chance with her. I knew her for two months.

I think they can feel empathy but just not for you lol. You're supposed to be her support system. You don't get one lol. I know you've heard this before but the bears repeating. They women in our lives will only accept sickness. But even then... my mom constantly complains to me about my dad putting on a good boy act act for doctors but complains about his medical issues with her constantly. Women hate weakness. Unfortunately she vents to me about it.

I know. But I made the most basic mistake of them all, I thought that she would be different. When she called me at 4 AM in the middle of COVID, because some fucking water installation of her's broke I went there in the middle of lockdown, risking to get a hefty fine from the cops if they caught me outside. I guess this was my thanks for all these little situations where I was there for her. One cannot but feel betrayed and stupid

At my first week of my first duty station after basic training, I was given the starting job to learn of watch standing.

A bitch the same rank as me over saw me the whole the night of my final test that week.

She always smiled and never said anything negative unless behind their back, but I didn't think much of it.

I asked for criticism, tips of improvement, how well I was doing. She said I did a good job before we handed everything over and went back to sleep.

The following morning my command slam open the door and ask me to sit down.

I did so with a smile because I thought I did something good for once, they laughed and asked me to guess what I did wrong.

I think this is a test at first so I go through the whole night, everything I wrote in the log, every area of improvement I could do. They keep saying "no guess again."

Eventually it becomes clear that this is serious.

We are told in basic that perception is reality. Meaning it doesn't matter what actually happened, you are responsible for what command thinks happened because you somehow made them think it happened.

So I give a blanket confession. I didn't know what to confess to exactly. When I was asked what I was confessing to, I still didn't have an answer and this made everyone more angry.

I eventually signed a paper documenting that had fallen asleep on watch.

Apparently the bitch had told her roommate that I fell asleep for a bit and she reported it. I don't know why she did this. She knew what would happen. She knew it follow me my entire time there. It was like a completely motiveless act of cruelty.
Cont

I want to say that at least I wasn't accused of anything more serious but I don't think it matters. I confessed to all possible crimes and would've had to do so regardless. The result was almost two years of working with people who actively hate me and know that nothing I say will ever be believed now. Therefore they had a golden ticket to do whatever they wanted.
Half the people there took full advantage of this.

need someone to blame

need someone to fuck

need someone to hurt

Here's anon, the lair.

I took a vow to never talk behind anyone's back.

I started carrying a pocket recorder for every conversation I had.

I wrote a list of rules starting with "trust no one."

And years latter, when I think this is all paranoid, she shows back up at the station I'm at by sure coincidence.

I don't think she knows it went that far. Because I don't think she cares. It was just casual cruelty to her. A Thursday.
I hate her. She's far, far from the worst female I've ever met, but she did more damage than any of them. And she did it with one sentence.

male BPDemon

Yep.

Get a new FP anon

I don't know what that is

Um. You are psychotic. You said it yourself. Leave her alone

Had a similar experience in security work with a colleague. I was lucky enough to have good relations to upper management and the timeframe of my "sleep" didn't make sense. Therefore she was always looked at weirdly by everyone else (I spread the word). She didn't even get a slap on the wrist tho.
Your story makes me angry just reading it

i took it hard. this was over a decade ago, anon. but yeah, thats what stopped me. we would attempt the sex, she would gasp and go "ow!" and i, doing the obviously correct thing to do (it technically was not), stopped. im not upset or angry at her, or women, or anything, even though i can totally see how it COULD of made me some militant tier anti-female nazi like guy. it just completely fucking deflated me and any interest or motivation to try interacting with a female ever again, so i didnt.

I have left her alone, me wishing ill will towards her slutty ass is something only me, and now you anons know. Stop being a virtue signaling retard when there is no wrong being done, you illiterate turd.

idk bro last time I got sick my girlfriend doted on me like crazy and made me soup while cuddling my head. I do the same for her

Dont respond to an angry roastie, anon.

I need to get my shit together and hit her up. I still miss this girl 4 years later.

um. What the fuck is wrong with you?

She knew it was munchausen, wasn't impressed by your shitty larping.
We aren't impressed either

I'm a guy and I'm sick of you beta male bpd incels ruining my *tfw no gf* board. Fuck right off

Nigga I dont care how you feel like im not gay, tell us your story or gtfo

I am a doctor and if any of you ever date a doctor never, ever, fucking ask us to diagnose your health problems.

Firstly, it's a conflict of interest. Secondly, the job sucks enough without me having to do it at home in addition to at work. Thirdly, whatever weird health problem you have probably falls outside of whatever specialty your partner deals with. Fourthly, diagnosis of medical problems in the modern era requires access to tools and investigations not readily available outside of a medical facility. The best answer you're gonna get is "it may be this, this, or this, see a doctor about it (not me)"

No really. What the fuck is wrong with (You)?

Don't even try to darvo me you dumb fuck virgin

This right here. Doctors don't know shit.

Where do you think you're posting? Now tell the board. What the fuck is wrong with you?

I went to the doc(nurse) and she just punched all my symptoms into the computer and gave me an answer. Stop larping.

I don't argue with 12 year olds.

Answer the question you aggressive AI cunt.

Favorite Person, a catch-all term for your latest obsession

Firstly, it's a conflict of interest. Secondly, the job sucks enough without me having to do it at home in addition to at work.

Sounds like you're a shit caretaker, which is not desirable in a woman

I wish I could replace her, but I haven't met anyone like her since.

Your worst experience with a female

Asking that on r9k

Never even dated so what would I know?

I think doctors in general loose that ability besides women

Hello Roastie retard, if I was a doctor and my loved one was suffering I'd sure as heal try to help without doing mental gymnastics. It's not even important if she can "heal", it's important that she's there when needed. She could've been anything but a doctor, same rules apply. It's only even more horrible when you have the knowledge to help somebody, or to get him to treatment more effectively, and you choose to not do it.

I'm a man.

if I was a doctor

But you're not, so you don't get it.

How can you be so heartless?

It's not about being heartless or not, it's about providing adequate care.

Are you seriously arguing that any doctor would behave that way? I'm sure there's a doctor out there where his wife/son/daughter/insert loved one, was suffering and he would be like: yeah, fuck that shit, I'm not paid to do this at home.

Are you retarded? Cops have a hard job too, if someone breaks into their home, are they going to say, leave that shit to my working hours. Insert any job here? What are doctors? Something special? It gives them the superhuman like ability to turn off emotions? The moral of the story is the bitch didn't care, doctor or not. If she cared she would've done things differently.

It is heartless and cruel in a way too. Sends chills down my spine. Genuinely.

I'm sure there's a doctor out there where his wife/son/daughter/insert loved one, was suffering and he would be like: yeah, fuck that shit, I'm not paid to do this at home.

No, you drive them to the hospital lmao if they actually have a medical problem that requires semi-urgent attention, unlike OP who had some self resolving twitches.

And the moral of the story is exactly that: she didn't know, she didn't even care to know what it is, she didn't come by, she didn't check, she didn't put OP in a hospital or anything - she went to eat pancakes while her boyfriend was suffering.

It's beside the point if his situation was medically urgent or not - for him it was urgent enough to call her. Understand now?

It's beside the point if his situation was medically urgent or not - for him it was urgent enough to call her. Understand now?

Wants opinion from a doctor. Doctor tells him he doesn't need to worry and it's not a big deal. OP malds. Understand now?

Not at all, you might seriously be autistic though. I'd recommend checking for that.

Also, your reading comprehension. The initial post clearly states that she didn't even give a medical opinion on the call, just said she has to take bro out. You're defending a position that is morally retarded in every possible way, and it's a position that can't be defended by hiding behind your or her job. It's willingly letting a loved one (presumably, in OPs case obviously not) suffer with a real or imagined condition. It's not right, and in the superhuman doctorlike world pancakes might be worth more than comforting someone you love, but in the non autistic and non retarded world that's cruel.

It's willingly letting a loved one (presumably, in OPs case obviously not) suffer with a real or imagined condition.

What the fuck was she supposed to do? Wave her hand over him and cure him? Or play mummy for her emotionally insecure boyfriend when she already has plans with her family? Holy shit harden the fuck up.

When I date someone I want a partner, not a patient and not a child.

You're showing your true feathers, roastie. Yes, exactly that, she was supposed to be a comforting partner. Even if it was anxiousness or some sort of hypochondria, she could have come over and given her opinion, which might have calmed OP. "Emotionally insecure" = someone who has obvious symptoms of some sort, aren't emotional diseases (you're the expert here presumably, doc) also medical cases for which assistance is needed? So the morally right stance was to shame and ignore him - I pity your patients if you're truly a medical worker. A word of advice here, one of these days you're going to pull such a smug reply to a father with a sick child and he's going to cave your skull in. So I'd work on my personal skills.

I wish I could articulate as well as you anon. Well put.

It takes no time at all to check up on someone, other than that - at the very least listen to them and hand some advice over the phone. Doctor or no doctor.

harden the fuck up.

in OP's case he did. Exactly from this very interaction.

Love is an exclusively male emotion, selected to make men stay with the woman they impregnated and care for the baby and her.
Women never needed anything beyond infatuation. Long relationships without kids are a completely new and unnatural things. Take away contraceptives and basically every girl would get pregnant within the first 4 months of regular sex (humans have relatively low fertility), after which she doesn't need to feel any special emotion to stay with the man, she's forced to.

Longer sex without impregnation meant that either he or she is infertile, but from the woman's perspective that meant she should try with someone else - if it was the man's fault, still being together is genetic death, if it's her fault, it's all over anyway, so the only rational outcome is to stop feeling attraction to the existing mate and look for someone else.

Infatuation period lasts roughly how long normal relationship, with eventual sex, would lead to impregnation and noticeable pregnancy.

I have a gf and she sincerely says she loves me, but, that just means me in the moment. If I became seriously ill, or broke, she would hang on for a while out of sense of obligation, but would lose all attraction very fast and go somewhere else, after the frustration would win over the sense of obligation and inertia. To think otherwise is delusion.

I remember how incredibly sexually frustrated she got when I got severe flu that made sex impossible, I just wanted to sleep and was incapable of any arousal. Of course she tried to don't show it, but I could tell at some fundamental level she was feeling "he can't even fuck me". I got better and everything was good, but one month of that and everything would be over.

You're speaking to someone whose broken and warped emotions are treated by a whole different type of healthcare drone. It's just a big fat incestuous system of problems and problem people wasting money.

Good post anon. Thank you. Made a lot of sense in my experience.

This is true. Also, women have no loyalty since it's bred into them to have none. Loyal women are dead, when Genghis and the rapists come you better snuggle up to them or die. This has been repeated countless times through history, the women that refused died.