still waiting for her.
the days are so long and painful without her.
I need you miss ;(
Still waiting for her
Waow you like Gundam? I'm not an OG fan so you're cooler than me I guess
yeah I love gundam, I've only really watched stuff from the uc timeline though, right now I'm done with that timeline and I want to check out the shows from the other timelines like gundam wing.
what a miserable lonely day :(
how long will you wait for her? will you move on? what are you going to do if she doesn't come back?
maybe I'll wait for another month, but I don't know if I'll ever be able to forget her.
she was perfect
I hope your cat comes back one day anon :(
my cat if fine thanks, I'm waiting for a person
have you been waiting a month already? what's so perfect about her?
she was everything I ever wished for in a gf literally everything, I thought girls like her didn't exist but they do!
and excuse me for being vague but I don't want to say too much out of respect for her privacy
I need her back
god I'm so pathetic
I'm in a similar situation. I met a girl who likely has avoidant personality disorder last summer who I get along with really well but she has ghosted me a few times already. As of today, her last message to me was a month ago
my gf is just like that! so you are telling me this is a common thing with girls like that?
FUCK i need to manipulate a guy into being this obsessed with me so badly
but she didn't manipulate me, I-I don't think...
unless her telling me how much she loves me counts as manipulation
why would you want this though
also please don't manipulate guys like me, this really really hurts I don't wish it on anybody
why wouldn't i it's perfect
i mean, i don't think making your vulnerable self dependent on her and then ghosting you is a pure and genuine love
i would treat him well though i wouldn't hurt him like this
s-she is not doing it on purpose... there's something going on with her, I think...
telll yourself that if it keeps you ssane for a little longer sweetie
you are really mean ;(
If you are important enough to someone they will make an effort to contact you and soothe you. You're forgotten about because she moved onto someone else.
i'm not trying to be mean but you need to accept it already
why do the evil girls always get the sweet guys
but what if she wants to contact me but she can't?
how long have you been waiting for her?
ok but obsession doesn't mean love like you imply in this comment
she is not evil she is perfect :(
this is a nice question, and it happens because "sweet people" from both genders get used to giving all the attention, while receiving none. so the "evil people" come and give them the slightest amount of attention just to keep them around, thing sweet people wouldn't do.
How would she ever be incapable of contacting you? Everyone is permanently online these days.
obsession doesn't mean love
i was talking about his gf not him, she knows what she is doing and that is not love
i am scared for when the realization hits you
she doesn't have a smartphone only her laptop and multiple times she mentioned she doesn't take good care of it.
I mean, it's not like it never crossed my mind, sometimes I get angry thinking about what she is doing but I just can't stay mad at her.
maybe people like me shouldn't be in a relationship I should just die alone
she knows what she is doing and that is not love
this is true, but many women prefer not saying anything and ghosting, so they can still keep people around for attention, just in case.
It seems to be common for people with avoidant personality disorder to behave this way. Idk enough about your gf to say for sure but look up symptoms of avoidant personality disorder and also symptoms of other anxiety disorders and see if your gf fits the criteria
I mean she straight up told me she gets like this when she is depressed (not the first time this happens) and she told me she felt really guilty for making me feel bad. this is just the first time she does it for this long, I mean from what she told me, something bad was going on at her house with her family.
and to be fair I get it, I get like this too when I'm depressed but I don't think I would do this to her, I guess I do love her more than she loves me...
sometimes I get angry thinking about what she is doing but I just can't stay mad at her.
i hope you start getting more angry, probably better than just moping around and feeling hopeless
sometimes I get angry thinking about what she is doing but I just can't stay mad at her.
i don't think that's true, you just need to find someone that loves your clinginess
but also you need to work on your mental heslth i think, codependency is not a very good sign
what is literally everything to you? like what was so special in the spark?
even if she is going through something i think she should still be talking to you at least mimimally, a relationship implies some level of commitment and responsibility with the other person
you just need to find someone that loves your clinginess
but that's the thing, she was always telling me she loved me being clingy and she even encouraged it.
and she was pretty clingy herself, this is why I'm so confused by all of this.
yeah but she is young maybe she is inexperienced or like I said maybe she can't get in contact with me for whatever reason, maybe I'm just coping I don't know anymore
look up symptoms of avoidant personality disorder
I just did and yeah she fits the criteria 100% based on what she told me.
she seems like an asshole then sorry to say that
Kai Shiden was the best anime character ever. No one else even comes close.
please don't call her that >:(
yeah he was pretty based
she shouldn't act so asshole-y then
:c
I'll smack the shit out of you!
i feel bad for you so i'll allow it
man why is it to hard to find anyone willing to have a nice loving relationship
like if caring about another human being was forbidden or some stuff
mmm no that's fine...
this is exactly what I had with her! which is why I don't want to move on even though I probably should
keyword had
Everyone has a smartphone. You are foolish to think she doesn't.
i had exactly the same experience you do, my person didn't message me for weeks, until she just admitted she doesn't love me anymore. so it's just me and all my feelings, i don't even feel like reaching out anymore because i know i'm a nuisance.
i loved her so much, and now i don't know if anyone will ever want to receive my love anymore.
you sound so sweet anon don't give up on love
STOP IT!!!
yeah I feel the same, if this is over then I'll just die alone.
you sound so sweet anon don't give up on love
i would be lying to you anon if i told you i haven't thought about giving up on love. but it's hard, i think making a person i love happy is what kept me going. seeing her smile on camera, being there for her whenever she struggled... it hurts. it hurts a lot
but thank you for calling me sweet. you sound sweet too
the rest of my life is going to be nothing but emptiness without her, how do I cope with this?
realize that she is probably not as special as you think she is
More like realize she was doing this to at least three other boys and he wasn't special
I'll believe it if I ever meet someone as perfect as her, which will be impossible
can you please stop talking about your cuck fantasies?
how do you know it will be impossible ? you said you thought it was impossible before her too, yet you found her
you can probably do it again
You don't want to tell us anything about her because of privacy but in reality it's because you don't want someone recognizing her who is also dating her
but it was dumb luck, I just happened to be at the right place at the right time I doubt I'll ever get this lucky again
no asshole is because you are not supposed to give details about someone you care about on the internet