I think having to "compete" over your partner and to be always on the lookout is a very disturbing and frightening concept especially because it involves the other persons mood swings amongst other things you have no control over
Being kind, abusive, alternating between both, being manipulative, submissive... Nothing can prevent you from being cheated on
The only solution left is having flings left and right, ditching people before they ditch you, cutting off people sporadically
It's such an awful existence, do ALL people actually live like this or am i trapped in some hell for awkward outcasts
I think having to "compete" over your partner and to be always on the lookout is a very disturbing and frightening...
Tl;dr im insecure and need to kms
Nigga, if you need to "compete" walk away. That person doesnt really like you and will 400% cheat on you. Have some selfrespect, nigger
do ALL people actually live like this
No, but most do, most people are in loveless relationships where one or both sides are settling for the other while secretly hoping for more.
If i were to walk away id walk away from every single relationship, almost all friendship etc even family relationships
I did the walking away and now im basically a shut in but i genuinely believe there's no way for me to win no matter what i do and even if i dont do anything or do barely enough or do just enough i still dont get picked first
It's fucked why does it need to be like this
I think having to "compete" over your partner and to be always on the lookout is a very disturbing and frightening concept
I deeply agree with you. If I have to compete, I already feel unworthy and my attitude towards you shifts heavily negative.
The only solution left is having flings left and right, ditching people before they ditch you, cutting off people sporadically
No, I think that contributes to the problem of there being a lot of bad people.
Selfimprove. Have things to offer. Make yourself visually appealing. Get fit. Live or read interesting stories to tell. You are a shut in, make the most of your time, instead of playing videogames, level up irl. It gets better
Selfimprove. Have things to offer. Make yourself visually appealing. Get fit. Live or read interesting stories to tell.
If you think i havent done or that im not all of these you must be either trolling and not doing it yourself or seriously naive, most people dont need to try this hard
Im not a shutin/introvert because i spend my days wanking, i dont interact much with people because it genuinely sucks how everyone not only expects you to have a high maintenance dynamic for them but also give nothing in return which fuck it im not doing that
Then you are surrounding you with the wrong people. Its try, error and learning. Being a gloomy doomer wont help, thats for sure. I have down spikes too where i isolate myself but eventually i try again out of boredom and someone appears, even if its temporary
Then you are surrounding you with the wrong people.
Sounds like most people are "the wrong person" then. Thanks for proving my point
When everyone is a problem, YOU are the problem.
Kill yourself!! You need to stop spending time on r9k and get a job!!!!!!
Most
Everyone
Pls follow what said
yeah, or you can simply not care and not think about it
Kill yourself
Get a job
Pick one
Sexual selection is competitive in nature for our evolutionary benefitur pussy genes not entering the collective is not the loss u think it is
for our evolutionary benefit
lol women getting knocked up by nogs and retards is "our evolutionary benefit"
you do realize you don't have to move a finger if you don't want to?
It is a factor worth mentioning. You are correct. Most men would have died in a battlefield. Or being mauled by an apex predator. historically 60% of men did not reproduce. Most guys alive... shouldn't be. Myself included. The harsh reality is; we should have died in our early 20s. Main problem on why so many men are struggling, is because we're canon fodder for "Chad" and his future offspring.
It's unfortunate.
I draw major conclusions from popsci and pophis memes from two decades ago: the post
are you going to tell women historically never worked outside of household chores, next?
Said nothing of value whatsoever: the response
Depends. Are you going to add nothing to the discussion again if I do?
Fuck sake I responded to my own comment.
Utter autist moment.
Yes, missclick-anon, I'm not going to add worthwhile to a worthless topic that was discussed (fruitlessly) 20000 times already.
Chill
Two wrongs don't make a right anon
I'm aware this stuff gets brought up a decent amount and I don't usually tend to comment on it either. But even still, some guys should also be aware of this. And the plus side is someone might be able to add something new to the conversation or draw something worthwhile from what's being said.
some guys should also be aware of this
why?
I feel the same way. In a weird way, I feel like I should grateful but I'm not.
Life is brutal, man. I think some of us should just know how dire our situations really are. Only then can we really move past it and focus (cope) in a more satiable manner that's more beneficiary.
I did it again, kek.
Things are as dire as you want them to be.
I'll just ignore that dumbshit claim about 99.998% males dying in war o algo. Also, you've just threw few statements around. Hardly anything to base the worldview on.
You've miss-linked again?
Yeah. I hate competition but it follows me everywhere I go. Work, women, games, sports, even just discussing news with my family. Everyone constantly fighting. It's all so tiresome. Food doesn't taste like anything in my mouth. Games and anime are boring. Socializing makes me feel dead inside. I want to go to sleep and never wake up.
Oh, never mind. I thought I responded to my own comment again.
I mean it wasn't just war. There was zillions of other things.
That's also not the only reason as to why men are struggling. It's a fragment of my view on the "dating market"/selection process.
Nigga, if you need to "compete" walk away
So you should walk away from women
"dating market"/selection process.
dumb thing to build theories based on cool-sounding misconceptions, like humans "being mauled by an apex predator"
I blame the enlightenment age for niggas trying to be scientists for no reason
Where was I wrong though? in what little I shared.
was I wrong
here
What part, and why?
(Typing this to make the comment original.)
These several claims about most men dying in wars/being eaten by some tigers("Apex predator" part was fucking funny, considering, we're talking about humans or in general not reproducing "historically".
Why would they be dying so much and not having kids?
Humans were running around like animals, amongst animals for far longer than we've had the internet... Yes, they were getting mauled by apex predators whilst styling 'loincloths' and spears.
There was also disease, famines, etc. Not just wars and hostile animals.
Why were they dying so much? Just because. Trust me bro.
A small amount were reproducing.
Again my point was a fragment about the circumstances. I merely pointing out; lore accurate to history its difficult because a good amount of us are simply canon fodder who would not have reproduced .
OP here but it's not just sexual selection, everyone acts that way regardless of the nature of the relationship
Trust me bro.
kay, anyway I have to take a shower, have fun, canon-fodder-man that was never in a cannon
Have a nice shower, anon. Don't forget to wash behind the ears.