18m

lol my school time is over at this summer. Have a few weeks left, like you very fucked.
But i have not sent out any job applications because i really don't know. What are you even supposed to work in this economy? My mom makes above average but we are still barely scarping by.

Working out is way overrated for social value desu nobody actually gives a shit so long as you aren't underweight or fat. I don't know what the situation is like in your country but with your stats in America I would unironically tell you to go to college and be yourself LOL, it was over for me by 18 so I don't have any advice beyond that.

You still in HS? Kid you have a lifetime ahead of you. Pick a hobby. Start lifting, drawing, climbing, whatever, just commit, it will bear fruit in the future.

i also like telling 18 year olds its over because they're still retarded and believe it

Kid get off this website, focus on your career

The economy is pretty fucked and everyone is struggling. But by working, you can always help your mom pay the bills, lighten the loads on her shoulders. That's what I do.

Bruh I'm 22 and still a friendless khv, unless you put effort in changing yourself nothing will happen. I was in the same exact predicament when I was fresh out of HS and I still am. I wasted 4 years wageslaving, eating like shit and playing vidya. Don't end up like me brah.

Rarely anyone peaks in high school, and those who do remain losers forever

I hear everyone (successful people and losers alike) say that HS are the best years of your life

The numbers I fumbled go into the stratosphere

like girls you had a really good chance with or just tried talking to and it didnt work?

Im considering working out so

people wont mess with me

I at least fill out my time

can practice social skills with friends

drawing

yeah I used to draw at 16 but then I kinda stopped. I might pick it up again

I mean i don't know what to work not only from a financial but also a personal standpoint. Whats a socially retarded and anxious sperg supposed to do? School is already hell but in workplaces there is so much competition. Especially where i live. My mom is friends with her manager at her job but its still hell for her and she is a run of the mill foid.

But by working, you can always help your mom pay the bills, lighten the loads on her shoulders.

Id want to but looks like she doesn't care about that. My brother is doing a apprenticeship or something and has thousands on his bank account but my mother ends the month in the red very often. And when i bring up that most parents charge rent and shit she starts getting hostile towards me, probably thinking im trying to pull my brother down. She also owes money to her son that she provides for wtf.

Go to college. Take Japanese, Korean, psychology or artsy stuff and go get some puss.
It ain't over yet

Do people mess with you right now?
Fair enough
The gym isn't really the place for that man. There aren't many non-school non-work venues where young people can do that anymore, period.

You are a lucky fucking faggot and you do not know it. be GRATEFUL summerfag dog. You will get the full undergraduate experience and probably be able to course through the assignment side with chatgpt etc.
t. spent the first two years of undergrad almost entirely in his bedroom because of c*vid and never had an opportunity to talk to a girl once.

changing yourself

I hear this a lot but what does that mean exactly? I am willing to admit my faults but I doesnt matter if Im nice, funny, talkative, people just dont care because they dont like who I AM but WHAT am I? I can change habits and mindset and how I behave but I dont think you can really change who you ARE. Its hard to explain.

I should clarify Im not trying to make excuses, Im willing to admit Im an unlikable pos and its my responsibility to put in the effort but idk how to change

Start working out if you aren't already, teen years are when getting a 6 pack is it's easiest. Change up your wardrobe. Work on getting your drivers licence, it's not essential but will become a bigger problem as you age. Try to earn some money if you aren't already. Get a cheap BMX bike, you can learn how to do impressive looking tricks fast. Look for a chick that has fallen through the cracks, it's not about getting laid as much as feeling teen romance so you don't feel like you missed out on something important for self development.

HS are the best years of your life

Welp, obviously I completely disagree, I feel like life gets better every year. But your mileage may varie of course.

like girls you had a really good chance with or just tried talking to and it didnt work?

Both. At one point I really wanted to get rid of my social anxiety, so I started to talk to everyone. Asked a lot of women out in public places at random.

Whats a socially retarded and anxious sperg supposed to do?

The manager at the gas station I work at is an anxious sperg and it's working good for him. I myself enjoy the work as well. Retail is kinda hell, but you could always send your resume to become admin assistant.

she starts getting hostile towards me

My mom gets like that too. She's thinking she has to support her own family at her own expenses and gets defensive when asked if she wants help. Some people just don't want to admit they need it.

Do people mess with you right now?

guys at school sometimes make fun of me lol but its not bullying

The gym isn't really the place for that man

its my only chance to socialize a little bit but I understand people mostly do their own thing there

I started lifting mainly because I wanna look like Jason from Gta 6 one day. The trailer really inspired me

although that physique might not be achievable natty but who cares Im still motivated

get job(s)

save money

invest money/start a business

lift

this is uhhh literally it

t. almost 40

Thats not absurd for natty depending on genetics ofc

You will see results fast if you stay consistent. I was about as buff as you could expect a 15yo tall, slender (but wide shouldered) guy to be and it was pretty crazy how much attention I got for existing. A couple of the more sexually aggressive chicks I knew would feel me up, a few begged to see my abs on webcam and were obviously masturbating secretly in retrospect. It was all kind of bizarre since I was very placid and scared to make moves. I actually genuinely was molested by an older teen girl when I was 8 who was my cousins friend staying with us on a vacation, we shared a room with 2 bunks and she convinced me to sleep in her bed twice. The adults found out but I dont think she even got in trouble. Its fucking weird what behaviour teen hormones induce. Anyway, that was a massive blogpost

Leave now and if you live somewhere close enough to a local shop that has weekly Yugioh or MTG start playing one or the other.

#1 best way to make the most out of your last few months of high school. There's really noting like the thrill of a card game, it's basically like poker with badass artwork instead of granpas cards. You'll look and feel as cool as James Bond in Casino Royale and you know he ALWAYS get the girl.
Forget every other reply to this thread and listen to this guy OP, MtG only takes 3 months to master then infinite good high school memories.

It's easily attainable natty, I couldn't tell you how long it would take for you individually

Op here. I recognize your sarcasm but I think it might be good to lay foundations for social skills. Unfortunately theres nothing like that around here

I was only half joking to be honest, card games are a good way to find a social group if you have no social skills. Hell, I played YuGiOh with one of my old freinds when I was 18 and I'm getting into MtG now in my 30's. There's plently of good advice in this thread. Working out will get you positive attention, changing your clothing style might idk maybe buying fake followers on social media is the best way now. I see videos of people talking to AI, honestly it sounds indistinguishable to talking to a person so maybe try practicing conversation with that. Could you try reaching out to one of the girls you fumbled with? You're gonna have to write school off as a lonely time of your life. On the bright side you won't be looking back on the good old days mourning.

changing your clothing style might

I doubt it. I see folks in trashy clothes get much more attention. I think its just about aura/genes/socialization

>fumbled like 5 girls

That means you still have a chance

It's about changing something about yourself to get noticed. Try wearing something bold. People will treat you better if you dress well though, women work it out fast since they're all competeing for the most attention while (most) don't wan't to be seen as avert sluts by thier peers. When I started dressing better than my friends I noticed a massive change in attention, some guys gf's would dress them up suspiciously similar.

idk dude. All the guys who have GFs in my class wear sweat pants and shit.

It's about changing something about yourself to get noticed

I got long hair. Do you think I should get a buzz cut?

You should have mentioned that a long time ago. Long hair is hard to pull off as a guy. It can act like a curtain separating you from others. Id recommend getting a hair dresser to recommend a hair style that suits your face.