Getting a gf is simple. Stop doing unattractive things and you're already ahead of 95% of other men.
Getting a gf is simple. Stop doing unattractive things and you're already ahead of 95% of other men
Actively into some of these because I do genuinely enjoy them
Still no gf
women don't have high standards, they just want a trilingual instrument playing chef who cuts wood, paints, writes poetry about it while gardening and swimming. making photos of the night sky while hiking and doing archery with arrows he forged himself.
meanwhile what do men want? maybe a hug, some love. a kiss would be nice.
Women are not actually into men who do these things, they are into hot or famous men on Instagram and TikTok who do these things. "Reading" being attractive is a meme because women hate reading, what they like is porn (ALL popular female "literature" is pornographic in nature to some degree). When they think of reading, they think of a 6'5" rapist billionaire male model in a turtleneck with glasses and hunter eyes from one of their porn books, not an actual human being. Women also don't find playing music attractive, they find attractive and popular men attractive, and for a long time popular media has propped musicians up as being the most popular and attractive men.
Some random busker won't get pussy because he can play guitar.
be me
bilingual
knows how to cook
knows how to work with wood and metal
knows how to keep a garden
can tear down and rebuild walls
likes nature when prepared enough
knows how to use a bow
khhv
should've asked how good looking the guy doing this shit was
When women are asked what attributes they like in a man, they preemptively imagine their ideal man physically, then assign him attributes they THINK they would like. In reality they don't care as long as he is hot and preferably somewhat abusive and very domineering. Men are kind of the same but are more honest about it, generally.
Women don't even find these hobbies attractive they just perceive them as masculine and high prestige. if you were actually an autist who spent all day learning to read and write Cantonese they would find it repulsive.
Just stop being yourself, bro! Just change your personality and interests, bro!
No.
You're cute. But I'm to poor or whatever, so idgaf
blacksmithing
Are women fucking stupid?
TikTok is full of blacksmithing channels that are popular with women.
It's not about honesty. Most women believe they like those hobbies/traits in a man. But in reality you can't build a man with your ideal qualities, and some traits you would identify as good or ideal are contradictory, or nonsensical when applied additively. Everyone likes people who are physically attractive.
somewhat abusive
Simply wrong
Very domineering
Most women prefer a man who takes control in some situations. A guy who is domineering all the time will trigger red flags in a woman's mind.
I read a lot of books, cook, write, and unironically know archery. I do not have a gf.
Simply wrong
No, pretty much all romance media for women is about abusive men.
Most women prefer a man who takes control in some situations. A guy who is domineering all the time will trigger red flags in a woman's mind.
It literally doesn't, which is why women let themselves get abused. Again, basically all romantic media for women is about obsessive, domineering, abusive psychopaths, and the favourite characters of women in media embody those traits. Hell, women select for those traits in general. There's a reason choking, slapping and rape are such popular fetishes with women: they crave the emotional high of being mistreated.
You can pretend otherwise, you can call me "le incel virgin", but you'd remain incorrect.
yea this is cope. I do some of these and am extremely good at one but i'm not going to say which ones because i'm not a humble bragging faggot who needs validation like everyone else in here (i'm not going to read any of the replies above me to this thread because its just going to be fags humblebragging and complaining about not having a gf)
face is law
Women don't want to be with the abusive men in romance media long-term. Dangerous men are attractive because they are exciting, but eventually that gets boring and they will seek out another thrill. That's why most women pay for the fantasy rather than live it. When women do intentionally get with abusive men, they use him as a way to enact their own violent fantasies and feel justified, or unleash the justice system on him and revel in his misery. Women don't like abusive men. At most, they use them, then leave them for someone more normal.
what hobbies do men find most attractive
Those aren't hobbies that women find attractive. They're hobbies that women think society views in high esteem so they rate those hobbies as more attractive. "Look what a good person I am, I like a man who likes things I think society approves of!"
Have you tried BEEEEEEEYING yourself?
Being quiet
Not fucking other men
Sharing my hobbies is the most attractive desu
if chad does unattractive things, its forgiven
It's true
Catch any foid complaining about her boyfriend that she's still with and he will be doing these unattractive things.
theres a reason you go online and all these women are complaining about her boyfriend playing video games on the console and shit all the time
"self-improver" copers tell you to stop playing them because they listen to women say its an unattractive hobby, but then why are so many women dating guys who play games? on top of that some of these bitches buy ps5's and consoles FOR their boyfriends.
it doesnt make sense, unless you account for the fact that hobbies and personality and behavior means nothing and that anything is forgiven if youre attractive.
You can search reddit for women complaining that their boyfriends leave shit skidmarks everywhere; there are A LOT of women who put up with even that.
But hey, just take a shower bro, just smell good bro, then you will get a gf.
Being myself is what got me a gf in the first place I lied btw
You can search reddit for women complaining that their boyfriends leave shit skidmarks everywhere; there are A LOT of women who put up with even that.
i used to get mad every time i saw online posts about women complaining how their boyfriends do all types of subhuman things, and i used to read tinder posts of guys getting rejected but it was clear theyre horrible at texting or rely on low iq pick up lines. and i used to say "how the fuck is this my competition when im so much better than them and im still alone and losing"
but after realizing stuff like that doesnt matter, and personality is a nothingburger, only looks matters. everything made sense
it doesnt matter how good i am,
being hygienic, doing the work around the house, not being useless and skill-less, being good at texting, conversating, being considerate.
because in the end none of that decides my chances or success in dating. its all decided at conception.
I like reading and some of these other things. Women would rather be with the chads who have none of these interests and go to play video games for hours immediately after nutting in them. Females will do anything to pander to chad and do nothing to accept incels
Yup. But foids will lie about that until the end of time.
They hate us, but deep down they know that if us uggos stop trying and stop working for something we will never get, then society will fall apart.
God forbid that happen.
being hygienic, doing the work around the house, not being useless and skill-less, being good at texting, conversating, being considerate.
none of it ever decided my chances, it was looks all along.
based enlightenment
fuck em, whores deserve abusive chads to beat their ass (even if theyre into that)
knows
knows
knows
knows
It's not about your knowledge retard, it's about activities you perform.
kek was about to bring this up. this is the most blackpilling thing for me because a week before seeing a thread here that took me down a reddit rabbit hole of chad not wiping his ass, I was literally arguing with a female friend about how ridiculous she was for claiming that men cant even carry out super basic cleaning functions like wiping their ass.
woodworking
astronomy
I can see why a woman would like astronomy, shits expensive. Ex liked that i was a wood worker, not sure why.
A lot of things start making sense. Like when foids like your friend say "men" they mean "Chad"
playing an instrument
No one cares if you play an instrument unless you're attractive or extremely famous
I dont want to get a gf, if I wanted I would have stayed in the XVIII century, where are the hoes? Where is the fun?
untrue. guitar is hot especially if he sings and has an attractive voice
guitar is hot especially if he sings and has an attractive voice
It's funny, when I originally posted I was going to write that women were looking for a singing/guitar playing Chad that can serenade her with a love song
if an attractive guy did that for me i'm 100% falling for him
if an attractive guy did that for me i'm 100% falling for him
if an attractive guy did that for me
Thank you for proving my original post correct
well yea but that's true for any hobby listed in the op. reading and archery won't make an ugly guy hot either. women want attractive men who do things they find endearing. if you're ugly, it doesn't matter what you do because no woman will like you genuinely anyway
How about a mid guy playing nirvana songs naked in your front yard.
Looks like we went from "no that's not true" to "yes obviously it's true, are you retarded?"
Right, this is what I said originally, not sure why you said it was untrue. In general, taking up a hobby to try to get a gf is retarded. You should do it because you want to do it and have a passion for it, not to chase skirt
nirvana sucks so i'd call the cops
You are retarded. Him knowing to do those implies he engages with it regularly
Just lower your standards and date a guy that only knows one Nirvana song, quit being so picky.