I was in a restaurant today, and this group of suburban families came in...

I was in a restaurant today, and this group of suburban families came in. They were there before some kind of soccer game their kids were playing in. Just observing them all gave me a glimpse of the hell that is the suburban lifestyle. Everybody dressed in athleisure, talking about nothing, their unruly children running around the place and yelling TikTok words. No substance, no intelligence, nothing.
I realized: this is what most people aspire to. The house in the suburbs with the tiny lawn. Take the kids to soccer practice. Go to the PTA. Go do "community events." Rot in front of the TV. Graceless. Then end up in a nursing home, drooling applesauce all over yourself, in a couple of decades while your family visits every month or every couple of weeks and babbles nonsense at you like you're a toddler. UNLESS you are an individual, a real individual, THAT is in your future. Substanceless, cultureless, degraded. No spiritual or inner life. Nothing but piling into the Toyota Camry and driving 60 miles to work and back at your shit job for 40 years. So anons, how will you avoid normiedom?

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They sound like they were fun and probably went into blissful slumber while you're doooooooming over here to convince yourself that you're more sophisticated and fulfilled than you actually are
Picture this : no one looked at your direction and cared what you look like or how you behave, YOU did. That's called envy

They were having fun*

Envy? That's funny. More sophisticated? Yes. I am an autodidact. I know history, philosophy, poetry, the law, mathematics and physics. I have a college degree. I am a graduate student. And so, even by normgroid standards, I am more sophisticated than them. Having fun? There's nothing fun in the rootless nihilism of the suburbanite. Fulfilled? Which great men have ever been fulfilled? Will you be fulfilled by GETTIN SUM MOFUGGIN POOSAYY? I bet. Tell me something real. Say something real.

he's smarter than u.

Tell me what you love so much about the suburban lifestyle. Tell me. What? You think you're gonna make 250k a year and marry some thoughtless bimbo who giggles at everything you say, play golf on the weekend, spend your summers in Florida, then gracelessly rot at 75 in a nursing home? Is that your greatest wish? Is that your aspiration?

Mr robot maybe yeah, some sad Anon Babble cuck who's coping with no getting action by overanalyzing a happy family ? No lol lmao

Can I sue for forcing me to read this
Shit like this should be covered by the Geneva convention

ur on 4cuck too pal. it's literally the name of the website.

#im14andthisisdeep #sigma_grindset #whosgonnacarrytheboats #alpha_male #cattle #sheep

They're a lot smarter than you know. I know you think you're deep, but it's just a cope and it's very transparent. I'm not saying suburban life doesn't suck, but there's a lot more to these people than you know and you're gigacoping rn. You'll learn this eventually.

Suburbs are indeed hell, and the police are assholes because they have nothing to do but patrol around and fuck with people for no reason.

i grew up in poverty in the city and continue to live in poverty in the city

that seems like a step up

fuck you op

sometimes i feel this way, but it passes quickly. my brother is a turbonormie while i am autistic, and the contrast is sharp. he thinks less deeply than me, he doesnt form deep interests and understands a lot less about the world than me. he does not think about abstract concepts, everything is material and literal for him. hes less intelligent and he has almost no core personality other than being vaguely submissive. the bonds he forms are shallow and based on climbing the social ladder, he will do anything to fit into an in group.
i often feel disgusted by him but inarguably he is better than me. i would never adopt his lifestyle, i would kill myself if i lived the way he does, but if i could be born with his temperament i would do it in a heartbeat. maybe by some abstract definition i am "better" than him, or at least have more potential, but he is perfectly suited to the world we live in and i am not. he will breed and i will die. he will live a good life and i will not. anything else i allow myself is cope.

So anons, how will you avoid normiedom?

i might be moving into a homestead in the country in a few years, knock on wood. i think that would fulfill me. other than that, just refusing to get a job should keep me safe.

most people aren't very smart.

This is a world of Doordash, TikTok, Netflix subscriptions, ROUTINE above anything else. 9-5. MOVIE NIGHTS and VACATIONS in between work with your insufferable coworkers at your office job or call center or or or your HR job.

APATHY. APATHY. APATHY10,000 YEARS AGO, the world was free and the human man was free. Now he is WAGIE WAGIE WAGIE in the CAGIE. "Apathy?" you SNORT, swallowing a gulp of your DR PEPPER. "You're just a KEK INCEL.. GET SOME PUSSY..." It is pathetic

Stop triggering the wannabe normie incels

Being married and having a family and income and an active social life....le bad you should strive to be le great o algo (write kitsch essays about how society is le bad or something on 4trans) i cant breed btw

Basically op

No, I could never have been a turbonormie either. I have a sibling who is a retarded giganormie. It also disgusts me. Breeding? I don't care about it. I hate my family. A homestead, it sounds nice. I've thought about it.

As mentioned before, I am a graduate student. I work as a TA. This work will also make you come to the realizations that I have. Normgroids are clueless. Get to any level of abstraction on a given topic and they are lost. I give Ds and Fs liberally and the students, predictably, do not like me because of it. It's not because I care about the "integrity" of the institution or of "academia". I just have an instinctive disgust of LAZY thinkers, and of the stupid and low IQ, when they force me to dissect their gibberish.

Get to any level of abstraction on a given topic and they are lost.

Yeah bro no one cares about your blackpill doomer shit irl it's not that deep

You're clearly of their level. I don't talk about any of this to normgroids. Obviously. I don't need to get fired and lose the ability to feed myself.

ABSTRACTION in the area that I teach. Meaning? CONCEPTUAL abstraction. They can't do it. And I suspect that YOU cannot, either.

lol if u really think he meant ANYTHING incel related. what do ur deeply enriching social interactions with the average person look like

but there's a lot more to these people than you know

NTA, but how do you know? most suburbanites I've met are pretty shallow.

Hey anon. I'm kind of in the same boat. I'm going to law school soon and I've also felt the dullness of suburbanites and society generally. My advice is just keep your head up. Really. Most people are retarded.

I have the same contrast with my sister (though she is autistic but high functioning with genuine friends). She doesnt know much about anything besides what she studied for her career. Most people are so busy they dont have time to learn anything they deem unimportant practically. Especially once they have children. Some will spend their leisure time learning history and culture, most wont. I understand, its boring to most people. It creates problems though when their belief system and world views are questioned, its outright painful when its shattered.
Stay in the good graces of your brother, if you need help you want someone you trust to turn to

I have no doubt OP is trying to converse with people on interesting substantial subjects and not flavor o' the day of the exact same whining he excreted on his first post

It's important to aim as high as possible in life, it's better to be a normie than a 30 year old NEET though

Hey retard, do you know what a TA is? I'm grading them. I'm not coming up to them and telling them how bad normgroid society is. I'm "conversing" with them in the context of a classroom setting where I teach them. Fuck off, moron. Go drool another response into someone else's thread.

answer my question. what do YOU do?

I do better than you OP because i have situational awareness and know when and who to converse with about academia and history yada yada and who to have mindless fun small talk/gossip with
You're insecure about your intellect and can't comprehend that you dont need to put up how much of a smartypants(midwit) you're 24/7, even online where no one can judge you unless you prompt it

imagine your TA was a miserable Anon
i'm not gonna say you can't post here but get a clue buddy

I'm allowed to have a private life. I have a whole public persona. Nobody would guess that I'm any less of a normie than they are. You're clearly a normgroid aspirant. A true believer. A believer in BASEDCIETY. You want the dull, listless routine that's fed to you. Enjoy it. But I won't partake.

Most people are so busy they dont have time to learn anything they deem unimportant practically

this is correct yeah. when i speak to him about my interests hes usually a bit puzzled by them, you can see the gears turning in his mind and him wondering "knowing this thing would never help anyone get more friends or money or status, why do people care about this? why would i spend my time learning this when i could be studying so i can get more money/status, or socializing?". i agree this is why so many normies are so aggressive when their worldview is challenged. their worldview is built in pieces, based on what individual beliefs better their ends (social cohesion etc). if you show them something that truly contradicts it on some level they know that they must protect their carefully constructed house of cards of beliefs and not let anything that could destroy it in.
did it really take till getting this job for you to learn this? i think i came to this realization in early high school, though i was in very low level remedial classes for complicated reasons so maybe i had more contact with these sorts of kids than you did.

BASEDCIETY

Couldn't put it more adequatly OP, society is based for bullying faggots like you into the corner where you rage against papers and grade them with F's in a fit of rage until you get fired
Or are you like this because they turned you into a monstruous cum drinkingfaggot ? The chicken or the egg idk you're the 190iq person ITT

they don't know that I'm silently judging their lifestyle

I won't get fired for giving people Fs. I have full latitude. And I use it. I have never given a grade above a B. Nobody has earned it. And you wouldn't either.

knowing this thing would never help anyone get more friends or money or status, why do people care about this?

Holy based brother
Winner vs loser (you) mentality at full display, are you even self-aware if you still cant see why he's a normie chad and you're an incel ?

I've had these ideas for a long time. But I never quite put them all together. My friends in high school and college were high IQ autists.

but you will never accomplish anything greater than being another participant in this shallow game
the only thing that sets you apart is that youll endlessly doom about this by yourself inside your own head
which really doesnt set you apart at all

It's the fate of the schizoid.

Chad?

A hollow and ridiculous notion

in my first post i already said i know these are positive traits. i mimicked them for a time, but its so far from my nature that its exhausting and not worth it for me. im literally explaining why hes a normie chad and im not. i think you mean to argue with op, who actually thinks hes better.

nta but your voice is kind of hot.