I have a findom fetish and a cuckolding fetish...

You can do that online, some dommes will let you listen or watch, but yeah it's a very expensive fetish. I was curious about findom so I tried giving money to an online domme. She was open-minded and nice to me, gave me some exclusive coom material of her getting fucked by her bf, permanent DM access, some nice attention, VR sessions, let me play games with her etc. I kinda fell in love with her gigastacy vibe but now I'm in way too deep and I've spent way too much money, much more than I'm comfortable with. Never thought I'd fall so low. Fortunately she became progressively colder and colder as my money dried up and now we barely even talk anymore. I plan to quit findom permanently next month, it's going to be painful like a bad breakup but it needs to be done.

Source on that comic strip??

Sounds like your experience was much better than what most guys find out there. But definitely prioritize your own financial security.

I'm not into findom or cuckolding, but it looks like she's kneeing the cum out of his balls which is hot.

Yeah that's true I did have some fun and I didn't get that bad of a deal compared to other people, which does make me feel a bit better about it. I think next month will be a good time for me to move on. Thank you anon I appreciate your kind words.

ive got a bit of a question for you guys, as someone who does findom (mostly for fun and without charging too much) I sometimes wonder if guys find it off putting when I'm a bit nervous about talking money or when I try to act mean. I'm honestly more into the gentler, softdom side of things. Over time I started noticing that most people were just paying me to play games with them or chat in a sweet, casual way, nothing too intimate or sexual. That left me feeling a little down, like maybe I wasn't actually desirable in the way I thought, even though the men I've been with in those more involved scenarios have said otherwise and even compared me to others showing me how noticeable the differences really are.

It just feels a bit wrong to take emotional or financial advantage of someone, so I try to keep their spending to a minimum but at that point it doesn't even feel like findom anymore, more like guys are just spending money on me as a friend rather than a mistress if that makes sense. I wonder if it's because I almost never send my own pictures and just try to flirt with them normally or through text?

ime it's literally his horny levels that determines whether he wants a soft mommy gfe or a findominatrix to psychologically rape him. a dynamic akin to what guys project on girls.
t. makes 4-6k/month on gfe/findom

with my 4 incher I pretty easily got my gf to fuck other guys. it's been about 2 weeks and been pretty smooth so far.

t. makes 4-6k/month on gfe/findom

dang this is not fair I wonder if I got a voice changer and pretended to be a findom if I could make some cash too

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so uh, you explained your situation but, what was the question again?

First time you hear her moans from another guy will either break you or make you.

Breaks me and makes me (cum)

did it make you or break you...

ig the other anon already answered but in a nutshell it was just me wondering if gentledom is a turn off

I wonder what gentledom combined with cuckolding would be like

yeah no, it really depends on the person and their horny levels
not sure if your specific audience likes it or not, you're better off asking them instead of us

please elaborate on how this happened so I can imagine this happening to my relationship. thanks.

Hey I'm generally more into gentle domination and I consider friendly non-sexual convos and activities to be a fun part of the dynamic, though I love to get some sexual gratification once in a while. Usually if I don't engage in sexual stuff it's either because I'm too broke or too shy.

that's pretty much just NTS

hmm something about still loving u yet sleeping around with other men to satiate her sexual needs? helping u jerk off while u watch videos of other men going at her. I mean i think it'd be cute for the girl getting dicked down in front of u to caress ur face as she struggles to hold in her moans

I wonder

Something like this.

Wow. I wish I had that.

sometimes i wish i had that as well, but i'm not sure if my heart would take it...

I erp with a girl like that and that's our general theme most of the time. haven't talked to her in a while though cause I'd rather not be into such things

rp'ing would be... interesting, i think.
doesn't need all that much commitment and still scratches the itch.

you might like this anon

The Eyes of the Unreadable Girl is Dyed in Black (k8on)

Isn't that what makes it all the more exciting? The increased heartbeat, hints of anxiety, being overcome both my dread and pleasure at the same time.

Women have no idea how many men secretly want this

>The Eyes of the Unreadable Girl is Dyed in Black (k8on)

This one was good until the end where it started to become gay

i mean yeah, you're not wrong, it's just post-nut clarity that might really screw with me.

I would definitely pay to have that kind of ERP (with a girl).

yes but also can kind of draw you deeper in I suppose. but it's fun and I don't know if I've ever been that horny as the first time we did it...

i don't think i'd pay for it, it wouldn't feel as genuine, i suppose. but i definitely would be open to trying it.

that's true. but i don't think anyone's being harmed by that, and in my specific case, i have other things to get me going too, so if it ever becomes a problem... there's a way out.

i remember accidentally awakening someone's cuck fetish after he thought that i was only flirtatious around him and then he later heard from others how much more lewd i was with others lmao at first he was depressed but later accepted what he was, kinda cute if you are to ask me

That would drive me wild. I wish I had experiences like that.

no cuz i didnt even know he thought i was only that way towards him, i cant even imagine how he felt when all those 4-5 months of talking came crashing down on him and he finally realised it wasnt just him, maybe if he had looked harder or asked me

So is the appeal getting your money taken or the fact that a girl who would usually never interact with you is giving you some form of personal attention

Whoah
This is just like in the comics

it's fun to awaken cuck fetishes in other people, even from the male perspective.

This is disgusting bro. Get help. I used to be like you until I quit porn.

A combination of both. I wouldn't enjoy having my money taken from just anybody. At the same time, if a girl was giving me attention without taking anything from me, I wouldn't feel as excited.

Uhh... how? Elaborate

probably talking from a bull's perspective

Sounds gay. That's the biggest problem with this fetish, the bulls are always trying to make things homosexual with the cuck.

Can you tell us your story?

in college

in a nerd dorm

group of nerd friends who are all fun to hang out with and play vidya with

one day someone meets a girl from the nerdgirl dorm next door

She's half Asian half mexican but rather pretty, with a great body

exceptionally high emotional IQ, she can get anybody to do whatever she wants and make them feel good about it

all the nerds are in love with her, all want to date her. She always has a boyfriend back home she uses as a shield against them asking her out.

I'm the most attractive nerd by far: tall, athletic, nice face, not autistic enough to be a total sperg

every time we watch a show or anime, she sits on my lap because there's not enough seats in the dorm room, she tells all the other guys she sits on my lap cause I'm taller and can see over her lol

I get a boner every time

watch ending of Berserk, scene with casca, she's wiggling around on my erection, clearly horny and also like freaked out

I tell her to meet me outside that night after everyone goes to bed, we fuck for the first time

start fucking regularly, always keep it a secret so that it doesn't destroy the friend group

there's a two hour period on tues where nobody is in the dorm suite and we always meet there

one day my roommate is sick and comes home early and catches us in the act

I don't know what to do

she jumps up, wearing just a miniskirt, and covers her breasts with her hand, and convinces roommate to not tell everyone else and keep our little secret.

he agrees for some reason and she does a little "yay" dance and conveniently lets him get a nice look at her tits to seal the deal

anyways he told one of the other guys he liked cuck stuff later, which got around one drunken night so I'm sure I had something to do with it

Eh, probably not.

same but that idea only happens in fiction. no girl would ever want to be with you just to have sex with other man and mock you, that's just unreal.

yeah you're probably wrong, true

From his perspective it sounds like he just walked in on you and your girl, and you sat there speechless while he got to ogle her naked body for free. Who knows what else she did with him that you don't know about.

Who knows what else she did with him that you don't know about.

nigga what are you talking about? you're on r9k and you still think some fat manlet nerd is going to score with the queen nerd when she already has nerdchad?

You're on r9k and you think you're the nerdchad...? Oh brother

lmao there are many such cases of this.

My guess is that that anon is probably the guy who got cucked but he tells the story from the other guy's perspective to cope

my guess is that you're samefagging to yourself and you should get the fuck out of this thread so it can be interesting again, you jealous cuckold

Yeah it's too good to be true.

Uhm are you at full capacity or would you have time for another sub too? asking for a friend