Im a virgin woman saving myself for an honest...

im a virgin woman saving myself for an honest, kind and romantic older man to marry any tips on finding men like this and weeding out others with bad intentions?

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first you need to say where are you planning on meeting such man

older man

how uh...how old are we talking here nonny?

date me

learn my habits

avoid men like me in the future

you could marry me

32, WASP, and frankly, a BIG DICK

What else would you want?

I honestly have no idea. I feel for women like you and I don't want to give bad advice so it is better to just say I have no idea. Most men have bad intentions I'm afraid.

older man

weeding out others with bad intentions

I have some bad news for you

no idea preferably in an academic or work setting
double my age salt and pepper hair is fine i actually like that a lot

most men have bad intentions

i dont fully believe that to be true there are some really great men out there but they may be taken or just not meeting them unfortunately idk. i dont even know where i would start with meeting one or getting to know them since i dont approach
holding two contradictory beliefs is the definition of wisdom though
what are your habits that i should avoid

double my age salt and pepper hair is fine i actually like that a lot

I'm probably not twice your age but I have salt and pepper hair, get over here.

I'm Gen X I've had women half my age interested, and I think what you're doing is a bad idea, not because older have bad intentions, but more because my feelings would be more paternal than romantic, plus you are in a very different stage of life and shouldn't wast your youth on old men.

no idea preferably in an academic or work setting

sounds good, because at the very least he'll share your interests or field of work. i think you should focus on people that care about you as a person, those who keep checking up on you, asking about your day, and genuinely interested in knowing you as a person first. take it slow, and you'll filter the sex crazed people quickly

porn, weed, video games

avoid like the plague unless you're also some kind of degenerate gooner

my feelings would be more paternal than romantic

is this a bad thing? and why? this is definitely an appeal to marrying older. probably why these women want you.
pleasr dont dye your hair
if you are young that doesnt seem degen, an older person either unless its all they do in their spare time

Hello. I'm 50. I will do sex for you.

thanks. these signs seem pretty obvious i guess but i almost had once roped myself with an individual that begged to be my boyfriend after only two days of exchanging messages and after i had told them my body count was zero..

Shut up bitch. Your just waiting for chad to come by and fuck you.

pleasr dont dye your hair

I don't. Started greying in my early 20s, I don't mind it.

Daughter wife

Daughter with benefits

I'll pass, I dated 20 y/o when I was 20, they don't know what they want yet, she is just looking for someone to neet off, until something better comes along.

i mean, they are probably serious, but it's quite hard to follow them when you're emotionally involved with someone. i talked to a person who basically didn't care about me at all for a year.
also, one of the most important things you have to watch out for is the "will to change". it can sound really, really stupid and basic, but love isn't enough to keep a relationship going. you'll have to live with this person for years, decades, and you need to be willing to work on those small things that will always be bothering you. as long as there's will, there's hope. a person that is willing to listen and change is a person that cares. you can notice this behavior in some other setups, such as discussions. if you talk to someone about a controversial point and your points of view are basically the opposite of each other, then you can notice if that person is willing to listen to others' points of view, or if he just wants to impose his own.

older man

Its over for same-age cels

older ma

honest, kind and romantic

You are a fool.

Please stop playing with my hopes like that.

youre talking about compromise, or considering the other person? it sounds like a bad omen to change yourself for another. isnt that why you would preferably want to find someone similar to you? but we all change anyways as we age so naturally youd want to change yourself to make yourself a better lover, i guess.
age doesnt determine personality or kindness. that just depends on the person themselves
find me in the Real world

I'm looking for a younger wife

mid 30s, starting to get salt and pepper hair

in the US

have a house

have a degree

have a good job

looking for wife

nevervaxxing at protonmail

double my age salt and pepper hair is fine i actually like that a lot

those lead in 95% divorce
you wont be a virgin for your 2nd betabuxx bf, he'll be a cuck which he wont like and either not get with you for not remaining pure and being a slut or kill you in your sleep and then himself like most cucks

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over for oldcels too she wants old chad not an ugly old guy like me

it sounds like a bad omen to change yourself for another.

you're right, but at the same time, we should always strive to be better. and one of the best things you can do to accept change is to be receptive to others. it's not a bad omen, i think. being willing to compromise is different than being a doormat.
and, you know, sometimes partners aren't really similar, but since they're willing to accept there can be differences / willing to change those things where you can improve, those couples exist and can live happy lives.

make an indian bf

I wanna pat that varmint and hxug it

t. law firm

find me in the Real world

I'm not moving to shithole like US. I have plan to stay in my country in eastern Europe.

if i was the law firm id encourage it to profit from the divorce

If I was a law firm I'd gaslight people away from the age gaps that have worked best for millennia and try to convince people to date same age so that they'd end up getting divorced, making more business for me.

Let me fix this,

leads to divorce which the women will initiate.

divorce is good when the man initiates or bad when the woman does it? what is the logic/argument?
that link kinda refutes you because that entire page is aristotle referring to a city/tribe in greece that marries young to young and it being their tradition, but instead offering an alternative which might not be implemented anywhere, based on his own anecdotal reasoning of old man young women being healthier
lets address his claim:

the offspring of the young are more imperfect and likely to produce female children

first claim is obviously not true infact the offspring of old men and old women are more imperfect in terms of autism and down syndrome as seen advanced paternal/maternal age
they are also not more likely to produce female children, infact for all parents its more likely to produce male children and theres 107 males born for every 100 females because the y chromosome sperm is lighter and thus faster than x chromosome sperm.

the people are deformed and small of body

once again weird ancedote, which isnt true
age has not been found to correlate to any of that

the people are deformed and small of body. And again young women labor more, and more of them die in childbirth

this is the worst part because its complete opposite of reality, the placenta is made 90% by the male dna, which is why advanced paternal age is correlated with high miscarriages.

Also the males are thought to be arrested in bodily growth if they have intercourse while the seed is still growing

this part is also bullshit, masturbating does not arrest growth and males regularly have wet dreams even if they dont masturbate, otherwise is impossible

so his claims of being healthier is completely false. but then again this is the same man that argued the sperm goes inside the woman and becomes a baby, he didnt even know about eggs (picrel)

youve proved my point though, a link saying men used to marry young and my medieval link saying the same thing.

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Same except I find a deep repulsion towards old men. Its just gross
Sadly men my age dont want to marry and younger ones are still childish. Its over

Daughter wife is based but as with most things involving women it's mostly relegated to fantasy

thinks he knows better than aristotle

midwit detected

kant debunked aristotle and revolutionized philosophy