If divorce courts ns child support wasn't rigged, and were genuinely fair, would you consider marriage?
If divorce courts ns child support wasn't rigged, and were genuinely fair, would you consider marriage?
Those aren't what's keeping me from getting married already.
I would not consider marrying anyone because my current wife wouldn't like that
I would consider marriage as long as I find someone who loves me and I love them.
No. Child support is just one minor piece of an entire puzzle of not marrying. And a lot of it are other laws and prejudices towards men in the legal system, and so on. There is no equality, men are treated like disposable garbage and I'm not taking part in it. I won't let some retard in the system treat me like garbage.
On top of all that, look at your picrel. Look at that skin disease on her ass. See that? Modern women are diseased biotrash and aren't marriage material regardless of the law.
I was married, and when I filed for divorce from my ex-wife, I hired an excellent attorney. I didn't have to pay her alimony at all, just sell the home that we both owned and split the proceeds.
I still want to find someone that DOESN'T have a crippling mental illness (BPD) to start a family with, but it's impossible to find that in the US in 2025.
Ok I think marriage definitely isn't for you lol
I don't want anything to do with women after they went mask off. It's a good thing all things considered, I know now that genuine female affection is simply out of reach.
That's cute, how did you propose?
You're correct. There are no honest, intelligent, pure, classy, let alone high class female virgins, who are not retarded and otherwise disabled (not a joke), who are loyal and can into fidelity in 2025. Especially not in my age group.
Bitches love to lie about a developed great personality while having none or simply being trash, go figure.
Can I ask why you filed for divorce? Was the relationship unsalvageble?
I want a husband but I'm not mentally well
Twitter isn't real life anon
I think that's the most important reason to get married, to find someone compatible and be happy together
tips fedora
m'incel
During lockdowns so I'm not allowed to say that 2020 was a bad year
Real life is real life. I knew a guy, he was a kind of a mentor of mine who killed himself over wife trouble and it was some really nasty shit.
That's a nice thing to hear, 2020 destroyed a lot of lives but yours went well
That's horrible. I can see why that would put you off, but everyone's an individual, I don't think all men are bad despite me having a 95% bad record with them, their are good people out there maybe idk
Did you put the ring in a face diaper?
oh really? I factually agree. But, where are the female virgins, anon? Where are the 40 year old female virgins in decent shape and with average faces at least? Huh? Okay, let's lower it to 30 years old. Where are those bitches? Half the 30 year old are virgins, how come females aren't?
Isn't keeping your virginity in tact for the sake of fidelity and faithfulness to your partner a part of a good personality? Do all women, who are single and not virgins have shite personality? Come on, help my logic out here, it's tough to give a shit about a retarded biological sex, that only brings problems to the life of a man.
be happy together
that's retarded and not a goal in life. Instead of first wanting a better thing than "happy", they want that easy fast food easy sex relationships then can quit whenever. retarded humans.
chudding out
Hurr durr actually I bought one off ebay, used it, and then returned it because she had rings that she wanted to use
not an argument, you fucking retard. you can't even act as a better being on the fucking underwater weaving forums, you imbecilic trash.
An unrealistic dream in current year.
yeah, thanks for proving me right all throughout this thread. just shut the fuck up and let anons with more than two braincells have a conversation.
posts retarded drivel
gets called out
you just proved me right
How very Twitter of you.
You're weird. It isn't the 18th century, you asking for a 40 year old virgin just sitting around waiting for you is insane.
Listen to yourself
I don't know, not for me. I honestly don't believe women and men have the same feelings for each other. I'm okay with it.
0 claims have been disputed let alone debunked.
No idea, no point, no fact have been called out. Just some utter retard calling names and trying to construct a lame ad hom, which is completely fucking irrelevant.
How very Twitter of you.
platform doesn't even matter. facts do. truth does. it's all about good people.
Breaks my heart, just want to share my life with someone
*snap*
yep, this one's going in the cringe compilation
You're weird.
Okay. I can be weirdest fucking weirdo. king of weirdos. Still doesn't answer the posed questions.
It isn't the 18th century,
yes. fair. it's 2025. I don't see how this is relevant, however.
you asking for a 40 year old virgin just sitting around waiting for you is insane.
You missed the point. This shit is not about me at all.
Listen to yourself
I am. You don't. You can't understand the idea of what I'm talking about. It's not about me, it's about the entire global fucking population and all the current "dating problems" everybody seemingly has.
Well, I'm answering your bitching of the lack of husbando material like myself with the idea of being marriage material as a human being in the first place.
Just some utter retard calling names
There are no honest, intelligent, pure, classy, let alone high class female virgins, who are not retarded and otherwise disabled (not a joke)
Bitches love to lie
it's tough to give a shit about a retarded biological sex, that only brings problems to the life of a man
that's retarded and not a goal in life. Instead of first wanting a better thing than "happy", they want that easy fast food easy sex relationships then can quit whenever. retarded humans.
not an argument, you fucking retard
you imbecilic trash
Just some utter retard calling names
You are an incel. I want to have sex and am unable to. We are not the same.
Too bad this question will never be answered, however. It's not like I need an answer, because it is a rhetorical one. Bloody hell, you people are fucking braindead.
She was hiding a BPD diagnosis from me, and she turned into an entirely different person after we got married. She quit her job to do the stay-at-home wife thing after I got a big promotion, but didn't do anything. I was working Mon-Fri, driving 40 minutes each way, getting home, cooking, cleaning, etc. She was also gaslighting me into thinking that it was my fault she wasn't doing anything. It was totally unsalvageable.
I supported her, helped her through therapy for her BPD, but she wasn't fixable. If you have BPD, I'm sure you could still find someone, but BPD has a tendency to completely drain everything good out of someone you love and turn them into a husk of their former selves. If it's some other mental issue, I couldn't really comment since I've never experienced it.
You saying you want a 40 year old virgin in great shape, just think about that.
Think about the reality of life, what if she got married and became a widow, she isn't meeting your high standard anymore. What if she has sex with her finance of 5 years but the relationship doesn't work out, she's suddenly excludes from your criteria.
Like wtf, it's just strange. You have to accept you live in an imperfect world, and aiming for good enough is a worthy pursuit.
I'm never going to find the perfect man at the right time, life is about reasonable compromise
Too bad this rhetorical question will never be answered
Bloody hell, you people are fucking braindead.
You are an incel.
Chad actually, you retarded cunt.
I want to have sex and am unable to.
Nigger what?
We are not the same.
That is correct. You're desperately looking for a provider and I'm rejecting the very idea that you are worthy of one. Like every single man of any value you came across in your life ever has rejected you.
he meanie
The skill is to mix the ideas and name calling and ad hom. Not just spewing meanie names like a mong.
She won the lottery and through it away. I used to cook so much food for my ex bf, he worked 9-5, and I'd always have the washing machine going, dogs were walked and fed, and when he played his games I'd just sit and watch because I understood that was how he relaxed.
We both suffered lol. I have BPD but I'm much better at caring for others than myself, I couldn't bear to see the doggos in a sad home. I remember going to the local supermarket, getting vegetables and nice food then cooking it, it made me feel good. I miss having someone to cook for I'm so awfully sad
Kek, BTFO beyond recovery
Chad actually
I actually pissed and shit my pants from laughing so hard, damn you.
Virginity is the one thing you can't compromise on if you want to be married and stay married. There have been multiple studies showing that even 1 premarital partner increases the rate of divorce by a lot. Two virgins have by far the best chances at a marriage not ending in divorce and is it so wrong to want my first woman to be one who matches my romantic experience? This is part of the reason why marriage is an unrealistic dream.
I have BPD
Are you actually diagnosed, or armchair? NPD is very similar in a lot of ways, my ex-wife was diagnosed with that as well, although I think she fit BPD more. You could add me on Discord if you want (oreganolobster), I tend to share broad strokes here instead of specifics.
checking my own dubs because i forgot my image
Why didn't you get one before you turned 40?
You saying you want a 40 year old virgin in great shape, just think about that.
No. I'm just saying, that being in decent shape is taking care of yourself and looking after yourself. Isn't this the very baseline basic minimum whatsoever females have as standards too? What the?
But most importantly it points out something very peculiar. We just need to take ANY statistics on males not having sex and being virgins and compare to female virginity. 20, 25, 30, 15, whatever percentage of male population in any age bracket you want, alright, will be virgins. Less than 1% of the female population will be virgins, but not because they chose to, rather because they're disabled, braindead, in a vegetable state since birth, and other REAL problems, that are no jokes like that. Basically they're completely non functioning members of society anyway.
Regardless, question is, what the fuck? How come pretty much all females aren't virgins, yet a chunk of males are? Something doesn't add up here.
I'm never going to find the perfect man at the right time
Yes, because you weren't looking for the perfect man. You're lying to yourself. Perfect man is not 11/10 appearance or/and free drugs in the club too.
life is about reasonable compromise
Yeah, fucking cope for people, who made all of the bad choices WILLINGLY and knowingly, now trying to claim that they never knew better and it were mistakes. Really, bitches? How fucking retarded do you think I am? I outintelligence all of you. Not a single female was smart enough to learn from the mistakes of others and kept her virginity in tact? Really? Well, in that case, I also have a bridge to sell to you entire biological sex.
became a widow
97.3% of females ages 18 and 40 aren't widows. They've been ran through, because they're unworthy sluts. Should have payed attention to a father figure. World is done now.
Marriage destroys lives too
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Yeah, and if the people ever told you, that there will be a 40year old white man, stable, healthy, full head of hair, 6 ft, full time job/career, no debt, some savings, not obese, who will take you in and accept you for "who are you" and will "love you" for the rest of your days or whatever when you decide "to settle", know that it was all a lie.
Older women who aren't virgins with tattoos and esp. overweight, and so on, have no worth. You're asking a man to invest into you, but there is no prospect, not returns to be made. It's worse than a risky, shady, or even a shite investment. It's basically a suicide investment in 2025. And so no man worth a damn will.
a 40year old white man, stable, healthy, full head of hair, 6 ft, full time job/career, no debt, some savings, not obese, who will take you in and accept you for "who are you"
I am actually all of those things except I'm 39 and I would rather be single than date a ran-through harlot.
I am not the original person you were responding to, I thought that would be fairly obvious from the differences in typing styles but I guess I will do as the r.dditors and say NTA.
That really implies I think a lot further ahead than I do. I think things are pretty good separate. I try to bang some chic that thinks I'm a loser and she knows I'm a loser and isn't trying to change me. Then I bang some other different chic that gets that too. Then once in a while instead of just trying to bang either chic I try to convince them to try to do a three way, and then they'll be like I want you to bang my best girlfriend friend instead of banging a total strange chic you know from somewhere. Then you kinda hit it off with her friend and she hates you for it and dumps you but her friend has this weird other girlfriend and you start seeing them a lot and you other friend gets pissed off and trolls you into stop seeing them and then drops you like a bad habbit afterward and then you just got dumped by like 3 different chics at the same time. I mean maybe it's shallow but I feel like I'm dealing with a lot more heartbreak than normal. How many dudes get rejected by like 3 different girls at the same time?
I think you should kill yourself.
inb4 y u mad tho
Disgust is not anger.
child support and alimony be based on spending, and not income
If I spend 20% of my net income, why is child support and alimony defaulted to 50% of my GROSS INCOME, which is like 80% of my net income.
Also, alimony scaling with my increase in income is bulshit, Why should my wife whose left me be entitled to the spoils of my increase in income?
he just described an average woman...
Fair assessment I've considered it myself. You know it's like trying to bang 2 chics at the same time would be kinda one of those goals where it's like alright fuck it. We hit the goal post. But then it's like man no I want to bang two hot chics and not just like a chic I'm attracted to and one that I'm playing house with. It gets increasingly difficult to make two random hot chics fuck eachother while you fuck either of them. I mean maybe one of them would be into feeling up the other one some second base action or something. It just never fucking works man.