Ive honestly given up trying to find a decent guy who would actually want to build a life with me

well you must have an extremely annoying personality then lol

I never kissed a guy or even held hands with a guy
most guys I meet arent interested in starting a family with me
I hit them with ' are you by chance looking to marry someday , build a family or something' on first date
they normally respond with" im just looking to smash. "

This. Most men kinda just don't like women anymore, due to their behavior on social media. Good foids are fighting an uphill battle to disprove a mountain of prejudice.

Where do you meet these guys
And maybe you need to establish that you're not just looking for your kid's dad and a paypig

I hit them with ' are you by chance looking to marry someday , build a family or something' on first date

they normally respond with" im just looking to smash. "
Lmao, based if true.

maybe you are right anon
I dont rlly know how to talk in general and im too bold irl.

thats literally %99 of guys I meet irl.

It's the demoralization project. Such a good term honestly. I've had more emotionally fulfilling experiences with ASMR GF roleplay and AI prompters than I've had with women. There's zero fucking goodwill given to anybody but their disposable hookups that they somehow think won't shape their personality and overall outlook on men. Not getting off this treadmill by HS or college is catastrophic

hinge , omegal
I got off hinge like 8 month ago tho. never going on there
going on there radicalized me so much.

Yes, because men at this point know that women are not good for marrying or building a family or a life with. We've been burned too many times and seen too much evidence with social media. There are too many women who claim to want that life and yet do absolutely nothing to achieve it. Women are only good for their holes. I doubt that you are the exception, but the burden is going to remain on you to convince men that you're actually wife-material.
Popping that out on the first date is incredibly presumptuous and arrogant. It's like

does this hoe really think she has proven to me at this point that she's good enough to even be considered a candidate for marriage, family, building a life together? The absolute audacity and arrogance

I don't want children but a nice wife to love and be loved by would be enough.

men cannot trust women bc of the jews
the jews took your foreskin but they ruined any shot i had at a normal life, I blame it all on them

Try and find some kind of IRL community femanon, though I know there's not many left. That's how solid and trustworthy guys used to be identified.. Dating strangers was never how humans were supposed to meet people.

all I rlly want is just to submit to my man
I would never even argue with him bc im a foid my opinion shouldnt matter anyways
I would gladly cook and clean of him and give him sex whenever he demands it

You cannot blame this one on the Jews. This is all women just showing their own character. Men don't trust women because women are untrustworthy.

I know guys are great at pretending they want a family to get laid, you're telling me that never happened to you?
Dating apps are awful. I tried them for a while too, but it's just for hook ups. The only dm's I got were things like "I'm your slave" and "can i come over tonight?". I'm planning on converting to Christianity and trying religious dating apps as those women tend to want to start a family more often.

its literally feminism , the jews invented this shit.

this old chestnut

Common, boring, useless. Your kinks are tired. You have no brain of your own, and no voice. Do you think men want to partner with a slave? Soon I can get a AI to do all those things for me better than you. You're not good enough to submit to me.

I can already cook and clean and agree with myself and give myself pleasure better than any woman I've ever met. You have to do better than that. What is even the point of you? What value can you bring to a man's life?

never happened
guys here dont even pretend
theyre upfront about what they want from a girl and its never anything long term
no games no lies just straight to the point
use you and leave you
nothing more nothing less

yesh maybe anon you are right but I want my man to love me, I just want love , and endless cuddles

There's nothing wrong with feminism. There's something wrong with women. I wish women were good enough for feminism. I wish women deserved liberty.

Sort of? Feminism is grounded in equality, equality in grounded in Christian universalism, you figure the rest out yourself

feminism is grounded in degeneracy

The only thing wrong with feminism is that it was too idealistic. It assumed that women were capable of being responsible adults, and wanted to freely contribute to society. But they are not and do not. A noble goal, but women were not ready for it.

And you make it clear from the get go that you're a virgin and even if you do get together, you aren't gonna let them fuck you until you're sure you wanna stay with them and they are worth it, which will take at least 1+year?
Because i though that'd scare away the fuckboys that expect to score on the first few dates or something.

guys here

you mean on dating apps?
Because I'm pretty sure most robots on Anon Babble want a loving long term monogamous relationship until old age?
At least I think most do, don't they?

guys here dont even pretend

I've talked to many fembots here who got strung along by the promise of eternal love until they got pumped and dumped by an ugly manlet. They do. Where are you from?

This. Women fundamentally want to be dependents to men, or a man. They do not want to be reliant on themselves. Because of this need for dependency, all feminism ended up creating with its liberation of women was a robust welfare state and increased pornography as women's main income sources. As a bonus, because it theoretically doubled the workforce, wages began to stagnate and now families cannot be supported on one income anyway, so the capitalist class benefits while men and women hate each other. I do not blame the Jews for this though, because the blame clearly rests on women for failing to step-up and be useful.

I always make it clear from the start Im not in this for anything casual. Im dating with the intention of marriage, and intimacy wont even be on the table unless theres real commitment and a ring involved.

I'm pretty sure most robots on Anon Babble want a loving long term monogamous relationship until old age?

I don't. Maybe at one time I did, but women are now so awful that the idea of coupling with one just sounds like failure to me. I will happily pump and dump them though to punish them collectively. I don't like women and hurting their feelings feels like justice to me.

How would someone get pumped and dumped if they just agreed to not have sex until they're both sure they want to spend their lifes together.
Its not really pumped and dumped if you've been in a relationship for over a year, then you fuck, then for some reason you break up later, thats just bad luck, things happen and people can change and drift apart.
But if you can't figure out someone just wants to pump and dump you when talking to someone on a daily basis for over a year, thats probably on you.
Damn, how long do your trial relationships usually last?
Do they ghost you after the first few dates of knowing you? what was your longest trial relationship?

IDK, If I had any good relationship advice to give I wouldn't be on Anon Babble and a KHHV at 28.
But personally I'd say it makes more sense to just try to find someone that you just chat with and really getting to know each other before even going out on a date.
Like, just a friendship where you can just chat with each other for hours and hours on end without getting bored and enjoying it.
Because that'd at least be my preferred way of getting to know someone.

Do they ghost you after the first few dates of knowing you? what was your longest trial relationship?

the longest trial relationship was one year but I ended up getting cucked with a black girl instead.
I wasnt mad about it bc she is black and ugly.
I was disappointed in him for choosing to racemix.

Duly noted. Good luck out there!

Because I'm pretty sure most robots on Anon Babble want a loving long term monogamous relationship until old age?

It's a blow to the ego and it's almost impossible to trust women past a certain age. Getting left out when you're young doesn't cause insecurity, it causes trauma. This is something people might not even really understand yet.

Good women are taken faster than nvidia cards, not a single male compatible decent woman will end up being alone. As for bad women, good riddance, in the past most of them only ended up getting married and reproducing because of peer pressure.

I always wish I could help in some way when seeing post like this because I can relate
but the truth is if I was attractive enough for people to want to be with me I'd already have a gf
so it's just another dose or demoralization

This one girl I spoke to said she dated this robot for a year, then met up, slept together and he ghosted her as soon as she left. It's hard not to blame the women for it when guys lead them on for a year. Some men here are that desperate to lose their virginity I guess.

You can join my harem, post contact

Nvm -- deals off if you don't like chocy milk.

The fact he was willing to do that is a testament to the poverty of his existence. If that's presumably what motivated him more than anything else, absolutely barren life I would imagine

then met up, slept together and he ghosted her as soon as she left.

okay, 1) to be fair thats kinda fucked and 2) why would they sleep together at the first time meeting up? How does that even happen? If I've talked to someone for a goddamn year, developed a crush on them and build a strong emotional connection and friendship, then we finally meet up for the first time... IDK I've never been in that situation, but I think I'd be to shy for fcking hand-holding lol, how do you just end up in bed together like that?

dated this robot for a year

then met up

Methinks I see the issue. Because in reality what she did was meet up with a stranger from online and sleep with him immediately. He, seeing that she was an easy slut, rightfully pumped and dumped her.
There is no such thing as e-dating.

It's so funny that women's reaction to men splitting after sex is

I guess he got what he wanted...

and not

Wow, what did I do in bed that was so bad that it sent him running for the hills...

Like, newsflash ladies, men don't pump and dump unless something is really wrong with you. Like, how did women get the idea that men's thought process goes

wow, this girl is finally having sex with me, I better NOT see her anymore! One quick tap is all I could ever want!

yeah, thats kinda my point I think starting to get to know each other online is a good start to find out if meeting up actually makes sense, but that doesn't mean you can just skip the normal dating stuff and jump directly to sleeping with each other.
You still have to go on dozens of dates, be comfortable and relaxed spending time with each other, even going on vacation together, or spending the weekend at each others places WITHOUT fucking, just chilling, being close to each other and doing a 20+ episode anime-marathon or some shit.
Only when you practically live together anyways should you go beyond 2nd base if you're non-religious.

At least that's what I'd have in mind for my idealized version of how a relationship should develop. Basically just a very close and trusted friendship where you both know you're physically and emotionally attracted to each other and don't want to share each other with anyone else just the 2 of you.

Every woman that ever wanted me to wait ended up being a massive whore. She likely just sees you as one of many and wants you to stand in line with everyone else. She possibly even got this idea from some fuckboy at her job or school that said this to game her into being his fuck buddy by bragging about the women he "doesnt respect".

The vast majority that fucked and sucked the first time we meet or very early in the mating ritual end up being much less experienced, more faithful and better able to bond. They do not do this for every man. She sees you as one in a billion, the chemistry broke her programming and the walls came crumbling. You can easily tell the difference just by feeling her reaction to being touched.

I would never trust a whore that told me to wait unless she can show me her fully intact hymen with a notarized guarantee from her father and priest.

Or he realized how ugly and obese she was in reality. You can imagine, but it's different actually holding the fat in your hands.
He was a virgin too, which makes me think he either just wanted to lose it or used her as a confidence boost that he can in fact get laid.

men don't pump and dump unless something is really wrong with you

Very true. Most women are easy to get in bed so sometimes there's just someone better than her.

Hearing my normie coworker tell me how much he hates women today was a shocker. Like I thought hating women was just a retard autist thing

Women really did dig themselves into a hole.

You have no value

I would never trust a whore that told me to wait unless she can show me her fully intact hymen with a notarized guarantee from her father and priest.

IDK that seems a bit to extreme for me.
I've chatted with a girl who was a virgin for nearly a year. Things didn't work out in the end because to be fair she wasn't attracted to me that way and turned Chadsexual, but I'm still pretty sure she was a virgin and what she told me was the truth.
If I've talked to someone for a fucking year on a daily fucking basis, I better can figure out if they're "fake" and are just bullshitting me.
Because once you get to know even the small details of how a person ticks, their entire backstory etc, only a psychopath on the level of Johan from the Monster Anime or something could actually keep up a web of lies that good without any flaws or contradictions when you've talked for 1000+ hours with that person.

Because I'm pretty sure most robots on Anon Babble want a loving long term monogamous relationship until old age?

That's a fantasy breh I'm dying alone. I'd say it's probably 40/40/20 vindictive manwhore/hopeful monogamous robot/accepted dying alone

still virgin at 21

i always doubt those you never done anything sexual with anyone?
haven't sent nudes to hordes of men online?
i would probably marry you but i doubt you'd want me
good luck to you anyway hope you get a husband i always cheer for my anon sisters to find their joy

I'm with you there, chatting or developing a real friendship is a different story. I don't expect ludes in the same way, because you can't feel the chemistry as easily as you can face to face. There are exceptions to every rule. Just saying that men who are at all aware of women's nature generally would not think that what she does for you applies to every other guy. She is treating you like chad because she sees you as chad.

Did you try going for guys over 27?

21

All dudes your age want is sex and that's all they're gonna want for another six years average.