Not asking in a judgmental way (or at least trying not to) but it really does feel to me like more and more women don't want sex with men at all. I can't tell what's just getting more visibility vs what's reality but between all of the young women who now identify as lesbian or ace it just feels like women don't WANT sex with men at all and that makes them feel like a different species to me. I get women don't owe me anything but it just feels weird. Trans women I do consider you women as well, but I think you'd naturally have a different perspective here as your previous exposure to testosterone would increase your sex drive
Fembots do you even WANT sex?
If they didn't care about sex there would be a lot more virgin women. It's all they care about.
I would want sex with a man I loved and was married to
How am I as a man supposed to wanna marry and fall in love with you if we don't see if we're sexually compatible first?
Sarcasm?
Not OP but I have to ask since I never really got this argument, what even is "sexual compatibility". If you're a man and she's a woman you're designed to have sex by nature, not sure how you get more compatible than that
tfw a woman will never corner you in a bathroom stall and suck your cock, intuitively knowing you're most vulnerable while shitting and thus establishing dominance
I would love this, but as soon as she opens that door and offers to pay for dinner, I know there's something wrong with her & this situation. I can't speak from person experience or professional knowledge, but maybe she's doing this for nefarious reasons? Maybe she's Autistic? I'd do anything if she was trans though.
i want to have sex with a man that has a vagina
I have high libido. I have dated women with low libido. We were a poor match
i once used to feel very horny and wish to have sex with moids a lot (i am a virgin) but when i think of how they are porn addicted and i would probably be disappointed as they would want to try to emulate porn, my lust towards them tanked
i unironically get more horny to erotica and audios
In my personal opinion a woman's sex drive is exactly proportional to how much she likes you but I could be wrong I guess
they are asexual with robots and incels and hypersexual with chad
If there is love and physical attraction, it can be worked on
maybe you're right but I don't even think so. I've had women who were begging to fuck me before but i'm ugly af and have the self confidence of an ant. I just feel like women like sex less and less
You might actually be a real woman lmao
Well there are a lot of contributing factors anon. The big ones imo are sex drive matching as one partner being way hornier than the other can lead to frustration, size compatibility is important as well. As much as guys on here spam about needing a huge dick or whatever for a lot of girls 7-8 inches is too big and makes sex painful and more of a chore. In the same way 3-4 inches can be too small depending on the girl as well as her pussy could be more suited to taking 7-8 inches, though this is rarer. It can even come down to stuff like how you like each other smells and such. Some people really enjoy each other's sweat smells and taste of spit when kissing and stuff while others it just won't match up.
Fucking is an integral part of love for me and I won't apologize for that. I get shamed for being hypersexual as a man but I want a S.O. I can fuck till she can't walk the next day but also can cuddle and cook for and play vidya and go snorkeling and visit the zoo and just have fun. I refuse to accept I can't have both
I hope you find someone who can love you femanon. The best sex I ever had was with a woman who loved me and I loved too. I miss her. Don't give up on that dream
Ok, you can do what you want with your love life, not my business. Just because I want to wait until marriage doesn't mean I wouldn't want to fuck my partner too
This maybe true, the woman that said I was the hottest guy she had ever had was quite the sex pest.
not shaming you just saying that isn't for me at all
but when i think of how they are porn addicted and i would probably be disappointed as they would want to try to emulate porn, my lust towards them tanked
but when i think of how they are porn addicted
they are porn addicted
they are
they
i unironically get more horny to erotica and audios
listening to a male moan tenderly and romantically because he's so into the sex and into you and the situation, describing how much he wants you and how he loves what you do to him
vs
male getting off to watching women being choked, beaten, raped, underage, teens - i.e: the gneuine belief that women are just holes to be fucked and nothing else
What does any of this matter once you get married and she reveals it was all a scheme, as most here are convinced happens 100% of the time?
Yeah the latter one doesn't sound romantic at all so why do women read all those books about it happening to them?
Can we be fair and say not all porn is like that? I like porn of women masturbating and I can enjoy rough sex too but that doesn't mean I wanna hurt my S.O. Do you really think things like getting hickies, your ass slapped or hair pulled are gross or violent?
Well when women read books about it it usually has the 'a male so sexually frustrated and passionate about you as a person, the only person he ever wants that he'll do anything to get it and make you his' which is building on the relationship of the characters and how he still SEES you and whatever. Not all women read those for that obviously, some are just into being raped and like, I think it's fucked up kind of but at the same time people have fantasies about things all the time... Do women's fantasies usually end up shaping how they actually treat their real life relationships (such as trying to remove men's rights because of their sexuality)? ANYWAY. the point was, when women consume porn, it is not as harmful as when men do it (because of the reason for consumption and the aftermath of consumption)
Don't kink shame anon. That specifically wasn't the goal of this post by me
You're right, it doesn't matter if your paranoid delusions are going to keep you from forming a romantic connection.
I wish. I grew up thinking women were beautiful creatures, then after dating found out that they only care about one thing and it's fucking disgusting.
They're not mine. My delusion is that I'll ever have a gf at all but that's almost over now.
it's different because they only do it to read about Cha- Christian Grey being obsessed with them to the point of keeping them chained up in his play room
Ah yes now I see everything. Chad gets away with it, again.
Do women's fantasies usually end up shaping how they actually treat their real life relationships
You've never heard of them getting mad irl over a dream?
(such as trying to remove men's rights because of their sexuality)?
They invented rape hoaxes because they got so hypersexual they started fucking guys they regretted and couldn't cope.
not mine, i'm just scared of being emotionally vulnerable. Plus i'm ugly and hate myself. I haven't had a gf since covid. I miss her
they do
when I was young, I didn't want to submit to a man or anyone else, so I was with a girl and I messed with girls when I wasn't with her
it's safer, or feels that way
if you're both girls, the footing is so even, if you say that you're the one in control, you kind of just are
if you go with a man, he's in charge now
the footing can never be even
his voice will always be louder than yours, completely literally, he will always be stronger than you and taken more seriously
you can play the cute little games come people play where everyone agrees to pretend that the woman "wears the pants" in a relationship, but not if you spend 15 years running from it
they're still running
the young ones
they are still running from your control
whether you want to have that control doesn't matter because they perceive it
they'll give up eventually, hopefully sooner than I did
you fall in love with a girl and you think you would rather spend all of the time with her that you can even if you know that there's a time limit on it because surely it would be better than having never had it at all
even if one day you will have to grow up and get real and be straight and not racemix and clean the house of a man and make him happy
life is a series of closing doors
they'll either figure it out before the last door closes or they won't, I don't think anyone can help anyone, I think society is like a force of nature
sorry, I'm drunk, I said al lthat to say yeah, we wanna fuck, we're just scared of men when we're young, so
Have you, not just you you but all of you, ever once considered not going for abusechads if that's the case?
I can't tell if this is a troll. If not, I feel for you fem anon. I'm 27 and I feel old
I'm saying one of the many follies of youth is not being able to differentiate between friend and foe due to a lack of experience, misinformation, the frontal lobe not being fully grown, or any combination thereof
act quickly, boys get more time, but still do all of your ideas as soon as you have them, there's time, people will still be impressed as long as there's a 2 on your age
So you get pumped and dumped (multiple times because you're just so inexperienced) and then think every guy who isn't actually like that is secretly like that. Do your brains ever develop?
YES. Very much and almost all the time. The older I get the more I want it too. Im 29 and Ive never been hornier than I am now.
As much as I want sex I want to be genuinely desired and loved so I only want to have it with a man who is very attracted to me and loves my body/personality. I have zero interest in sleeping around.
Being desired is a big part of good sex for me. So I have to feel very desired by the man.
I have zero interest in sleeping around.
How many bodies did it take to reach this conclusion?
do you jack your mom off wit hthose fingers, naon
No I'm pretty sure she has a vagina but I also can't imagine a time my parents were ever sexually attracted to each other so maybe I was a stork baby.
THEN WHY TF AM I SO SAD AND ALONE!!!!!!!!! i'M 27 AND WANNA FIND A WOMAN WHO I LOVE AND AM SEXUALLY COMPATITABLE WITH AND WHO IS SMART AND SEXY AND KIND AND LOVES ME AND I WANNAFUCK HER CONSTANTLY AND SHOW HER MY NERDY MATH IDEAS FOR MY PHD PROJECT AND TAKE HER TO HAWAII AND GO SNORKELING AND THEN LISTEN TO HER YAP FOR HOURS ON END WHILE I EAT HER OUT BUT INSTEAD I'M SITTING ON MY COUCH ALONE AFTER WOKRING OUT AND WANNA DIE AHHHHHHHHHHH
it's true, I was the stork and I fucked your mom
I love you, storkson
I want sex in a loving marriage with someone who loves me and wont abandon me who I connect with
How do you expect to marry your partner if you don't realize you're sexually compatible first? That's non trivial
Im not that sexual a person unless I emotionally connect first and I am saving my virginity for the right person
I dont believe a single human being on earth is entitled to know how many former partners I or any other woman has had.
The whole body count discussion is gross.
I respect that femanon but this is what I mean. I feel like this is a sorta common thing among women now and I as a man am shamed for wanting to fuck early on. For me sex is integral to understanding if we're a good fit, it's not a super deep thing but I understand that isn't for everyone. I just need to meet more late twenties women likeCould also just be an age difference thing. I kinda thought like you a bit when I was much younger but now I can't imagine romantic love without sex. I use it like an introduction (yes i've been called a manwhore before)
stop taking this tired bait and call him a trannyniggerfaggot who jacks his mom off
don't fuckin run from me lol, you made me want it in the first place
I knew it was more than 1 but is it really too high for the character limit? Damn.
meds now
I don't need meds to fuck you or your mom
There's a non 0 percentage of short men you could feel equal to
All them words for hating the fact you're chadsexual
do you think I can't tell it's still you lmfao
??? Is there some ancient drama here?
No it's just a schizo.
I use it like an introduction
Im the femanon you used as an example.
Personally I would never have sex until after at least 4 dates and some good conversations.
Men are genuinely not trustworthy Im sorry, too many of you only want sex. Those men must be weeded out and making them wait is a good way to do that. So is having real conversations.
I dont think its wise for women to have sex so early unless they truly understand that theres a very good chance he wont be serious about you.
You have to be guarded and protect yourself as a woman.
When I was young I was down with sex early on but not at this stage. I need something real and im over getting hurt by men.
I haven't dated seriously since covid (life after college hit hard I was figuring stuff out) what do we even do then? (I promise this isn't sarcasm I am this socially inept)
I like hiking and outdoors stuff but I obviosuly can't offer to do that early on as a date idea. I don't wanna drop hundreds on a fancy dinner for a woman I barely know. I feel like offering to go to the zoo and just get some food would get me laughed at but that sounds like fun to me...
Actually, screw it. Would a first date at an apple orchard be fun? I wanna go this summer anyway and that could be a good excuse to go on a date
literally just act like you thin kyou aren't supposed to
if yo9u are a female and you are worried about your body count or being too experienced or looking like a slut or whatever, the answer is act like you think you aren't supposed to be doing that
whatever that is
also never speak of your past, burn your past away, don't nobody wanna hear that shit, sorry
but most importantly, act like you think you aren't supposed to fuck on the third date or first or do anal or pop balloons or whatever, and you are *only* doing it right now this time because it's *him*
did you know that men also want to feel special?
they do
there, cheat code
don't make him feel *too* special though, that'll fuck shit up for both of you down the line
it's easy shit, women like flowers, men like fucking
any time he brings up whatever it is, you go like, "ummmmmm I mean it's (whatever) though, isn't that gross?"
and never speak of your past
this is not rocket science
what it differentiates me from others in this thread?
thanks, happiness for you too
i am not porn addicted and don't get horny very much
When I was young I was down with sex early on but not at this stage.
They just say this shit like we don't all know what happened.
you need to never speak of being down with sex ever
you should be down with sex, but you need to be more quiet about it
I'm osrry senpai, i know nobody wants to hear that lmfao but it is true
just go in not dropping all of your character lore on him and you'll do fine
You think men watching any kind of porn ever is an addiction so you reading even one dime store novel once ever is also an addiction sorry your rules.
damn dawg, don't just give her that lol
You are a porn addicted incel.
And you're a 30+ who had her fun and is ready to settle down now with a real man who needs to step up and raise her child.
nta, but no mor e kids, remember
(raise her cats)
Cat ladies are based though. If you just buy them catnip they love you
well, I mean I'm not judging, you know, follow your heart
maybe she'll let you take her septum rring out for one of those cat jungle gym things kek
you guys both get 0 pussy. But idk why bully the femanon. What did she do to bother you? I asked for opinions from them on MY thread and y'all are just harassing them for speaking their mind. Kindly fuck off
you guys both get 0 pussy.
But idk why bully the femanon
Some questions answer themselves.
one of us had lipstick lesbian pussy on tap for a full decade, and that's even the best kind pussy they even make
it isn't your thread, it's the peoples thread, they all are, be cool fag, no one's being serious here but you
I haven't gotten laid in years but I'm not an asshole to random women on the internet. Being sad and alone isn't an excuse to bully someone
baby, it is Anon Babble lol
do you even WANT sex?
not since the most recent miscarriage. haven't even masturbated in 18 months
Calling people out on their hypocrisy is bullying now?
do women even want sex?
Well I used to but now they're all porn addict incels
Why am I getting blamed for what Chad did to them?
I hope tf this was just bad timing because if not, oh my *god*
Dude, jesus christ listen to yourself. If "Porn addict incel" counts as "Chad" I've been missing out!
You really don't understand what they're saying at all.
fembots
i thought we established that this doesnt exist
Nah, men are selfish and don't care if you cum hal the time. Imagine a world where men cum as much as women during sex? most men would claim they were virgins because they never got to actually finish yet it can't be the same for women. It's harder for women to orgasm because it takes often mental stimuli for women, vs men who just look at tits and nut and most men don't care enough to put in some work to make their girl satisfied, quite often women feel pressured to make them think that she came so that he can feel good about himself or he'd probably cry if he knew he wasn't actually satisfactory, or maybe not care at all..not sure which is worse.
tfw had this happen but she didn't give up and bullied me into it
Chad doesn't care if I cum during our meaningless casual encounters so why would any other man?
I'll stop doing this when it stops being blatantly obvious.
I've heard a million incels say the same thing, they do not care if women cum. They have even said women OWE them sex, even if she is sick or depressed.. women cant orgasm when they are not in the right mindset/mood, so yes very, very selfish.
And just as many women shut off the tap once they get married to their provider because they don't have to anymore. It goes both ways, don't pretend it doesn't.
nta but have you ever tried asking the man your with if he wants to learn hohw to make you cum?
if the answer is no, then yeah, get tf out of there
this is the internet, this isn''t real; people say things here simply because they are free too
you act different online than you do in person, everyone else does too
try asking, next time, irl
I applaud your honesty. I figured based on actions that women are scared of men generally no matter what an individual man might do but I've never seen a woman actually admit it.
Lol. Lmao even
what it differentiates me from others in this thread?
Yes. And this board generally
Nta but you are a used-up whore who wants the type of man who deserves far more than what she can give. Lashing out with insults at people who read you for the hypocrite you are simply proves them right
I'm sorry you've had poor experiences fem anon but I think it's unfair to lump all men into that generalization. For plenty of men what sets them off is getting women off. Just like how I was generalziing but speaking from a place of sexual frustration and asking for answers with this thread I invite you to do the same. I know for a fact that plenty of men LOVE making their SO cum and making them feel loved and appreciated. Sorry you've had rough experiences, world is a harsh place for all of us. Hope you're able to find someone who loves you and treats you well
They don't want to anymore because he never satisfies her, duh? She would want to if he could make her cum. If she is with him despite the shitty sex, then yes she likely will stop once he commits to her because she no longer has to endure the sex before he decides to commit to her.
Actually, i've asked them why they never try to make me cum before because they never have tried, they might lick my pussy a little, rub it even but not enough to even attempt to make me cum. Women will even tell you the same fucking thing, most men don't even try to make you cum
here is an example for you: youtu.be
Imagine having sex and not even considering your partner not having an orgasm because youre too selfish to even think about it yourself and SHE has to be the one to ask why you dont even try to??? LOL
to speak further on that if I may, that's what we're seeing here inthe thread right now
denial, I mean
it is a point of embarrassment for girls to feel scared of boys
you are told that you shouldn't be and should be at the same time for your entire life, it gets fuckign confusing, idc
cites Chappell Roan
admits it's all mental but won't tell her partner what works on her
Jesus Christ
IDK what to say femanon those just sound like shit lovers and you could do better. I stand by saying that it's unfair to generalize for all men. I'll speak for myself and say nothing sets ME off more than seeing the woman I'm with in pleasure. I LOVE IT. When I see her back arch or have her dig her nails into me IT MAKES ME FERAL. I'm sure i'm not the only man who feels this way. Now if you really wanna be cynical you could say i'm still being selfish because seeing women get off is what helps me get off but I think that's too cynical even for Anon Babble
i've asked them why they never try to make me cum
yeah you don't get anywhere sweet by opening with an attack, that doens't work
why would a man know how to make you cum>?
?
so, then how can he know what you *need* for him to do for you?
consider thw following: men are horny and dtf after a friendly lick, some of them even fall in love from the coitus that supersedes that
so how does he know without you saying so that you need anythign more than that?
I don't remeber what we were talking baout; don't open on offense, people on defense can't act
Okay, real talk and real sex ed for you here from an adult.
harder for women to orgasm because it takes often mental stimuli for women
in reality and not your fiction, men won't even get hard if something is truly mentally wrong.
men who just look at tits and nut
that's your fantasy. no correlation to real world.
most men don't care enough to put in some work to make their girl satisfied
do you mean like building a civilization and providing you with the resources on top of being faithful, honest, attentive? From my perspective as a straight male, unless we declare we quit this bullshit society, most, if not everything we do, if to make females survive and satisfied.
quite often women feel pressured to make them think that she came so that he can feel good about himself
that is a yet another stupid myth. Where the fuck do you learn this bullshit? Are you even human or a teenage yellow press magazine full of retarded made up bullshit for lulz?
he'd probably cry if he knew he wasn't actually satisfactory
yes, you're supposed to fucking communicate. This is so fascinating to read, always. Females are all about the fucking communication and the betterment of it, except when it comes to their own sexual pleasure and helping THEIR partner THEY chose themselves deliver it and understand their body, preferences, interests, and better ways of stimulation..
or maybe not care at all..not sure which is worse.
not caring is worse, because it reminds the dumb slut whore once again that she is worthless and just gave herself to chad like a piece of meat she is in an attempt to feel something and not be an hollow human shaped waste of resources for once in her life. It reminds you of your pursuit of false and wrong ideals and goals.
Don't blame men for your bad choices in short. We're dealing with enough existential bullshit without you.
They don't want to anymore because he never satisfies her, duh?
THEN WHY WOULD YOU MARRY THAT GUY
they never have tried, they might lick my pussy a little, rub it even but not enough to even attempt to make me cum
well they're trying but not really because it didn't work and no I never told them this I just assumed
You will never beat the allegations.
I honestly think a lot of such sentiments are justified, as a man personally I think a lot of other men objectify women in a very disgusting way with no remorse, but at the same time I've also seen that women who actually respect and enjoy being around their men are almost always eager to have sex.
Honestly for men it's not much different, it's just that women mostly present an emotional threat that you want to avoid. As a man your brain instinctively tells you that you should trust and rely on women so it hurts a lot if that turns out to not be true.
I have told them blatantly I have never had an orgasm vaginally, most women in the world do not and yet they still try to attempt it even when i say it doesnt work for me, I ask them to eat me out more, they will do it for 1 minute and then decide they are too tired and stop. It's honesstly a fucking joke
I've literally had men cum in 5 seconds from looking at my tit or even my face bro it doesnt take a lot to make most men cum vs women. Look at the science behind it ITS TRUE, women mostly need MENTAL stimuli in order to orgasm vs men, its not a baseless claim is it biology anon.
Dude, as another dude you should really study how to pleasure a woman. Much easier to do that and make her happy then yell at her
I'm OP. I fuck to develop an emotional connection. Fucking literally gives off the love hormone. Fucking and pleasuring women is great. I'm just socially inept and too forward so I scare women away which sucks. Why can't we fuck AND be friends
You seem like a good man anon, and I am sure you will make a woman very very happy.
Maybe you should be a better judge of character and stop giving it away to these guys.
just do outside research so she never has to communicate ever
Maybe women are the problem after all?
a woman
But not you because guys like that give you the ick irl. Pathetic.
Youre literally the same as them, you need a woman to tell you to even attempt to try and make her cum, you think sticking a dick in something is gonna work because your brain is so porn-rotten you haven't even done an ounce of research. Usually men will LISTEN to your reactions to see what you like best and what you don't instead of saying FUCK YOU SALLY YOU NEVER TOLD ME WOW ITS ALL YOUR FAULT NOT MINE EVEN THOUGH I DIDNT ATTEMPT IT OR ASK HOW YOU LIKE ANYTHING IT'S ALL UP TO YOU TO ORDER ME AROUND EVEN THOUGH YOU SAID YOU DONT LIKE THIS IM GONNA TRY CAUSE MAYBE IM BETTER THAN THE OTHER GUYS
Maybe one day if I could stop hating myself. Thank you for the kind comment that made my day :)
Bro literally look up "how to eat pussy" it will take you max 30 minutes to get the rundown. Trust me on this one
In my opinion you're putting the cart before the horse, but the answer to your question is you can, in theory
I have told them blatantly I have never had an orgasm vaginally
yeah you literally keep shooting yourself in the foot, why would anyone want to perform for you when you keep telegraphing to them that there is simply no point in trying to please you?
They do, but they are weird about it and it is entirely dependent on their irrational mood, comfort level, and perception of societal acceptance and repricutions
Not that you actually believe this is possible but I do think like the other guy. If I'm with you it's because you make me happy and I want you to be happy too and I want to be the one who makes that happen. The problem is I have literally zero experience because no woman actually appreciates this vs. getting nutted in by the next available abusechad so how would I know where to even begin?
research
You know the meme arrow meant that was a fucking joke right? Why would anyone else know what works for YOU?
Aww he doesn't even realize that vaginal orgasm is different from clitorial.
nylta, he is saying, as a person who fucks,, sex makes men feel love, literally the physical act, which is true
I've literally had men cum in 5 seconds from looking
Yes. Sometimes happens to the best of us. Also, I'd rather say boys, than men. I'm talking about adults, member? Not a virgin teenager.
doesnt take a lot to make most men cum vs women.
If a man is in the right mood and mentally okay and physically okay, the yes. Have you ever considered a possibility, that when everything is not okay men simply do not initiate sexual intercourse at all? Or put it other way, if a man expresses the desire, he does check all the boxes and will cum?
Look at the science behind it ITS TRUE
of course. premature ejaculation is real. but relatively rare in adults, unless a person has a pathology and a chronic premature.
women mostly need MENTAL stimuli in order to orgasm vs men,
no, you're mistaken, men need it too. Maybe it's the lack of your experience in life yet, but you will see it or hear about it at one point or another. Like you do know. Arousal, strength of the orgasm, partially stamina are mental for men as well as women. Even the firmness of the erection depends a lot on the mental arousal.
its not a baseless claim is it biology anon.
yes, right. but biology is deeper and more expansive than you think, know, or have experienced so far. Men rely on mentality just as much if not more than females do, with age anyway. We're not strangers to this concept.
Still doesn't have to do with your erogenous zones and the kinds of stimulation you personally enjoy the most. It's okay to communicate them to your partner. if you choose a good caring partner who is interested in you.
kek, shut it, mein neger, i'm not in the bed with her. but I do know how to communicate and observe and the female anatomy. It's teaching, not pleasuring here.
I mean basic research in the sense that over 80% of women can't cum without clitorial stimulation, some research even suggests that women that claim they have had vaginal orgasms may have just been having their clit stimulated at the same time based on where the clit is located on their pussy (some closer to the opening more than others)
If I expressed that I knew any of this you'd say I learned it from porn.
I am socially inept. I've never had a relationship develop organically without sex like that mostly cause I just don't know how. I HATE lying and when I'm with and talking to a woman I find attractive I don't wanna lie to her and lead her on. Doing that shit makes me feel sick. It's not that I want her JUST for sex. That couldn't be further from the truth. I just have a really high sex dirve. I want to be best friends who fuck like rabbits and feel like as a man I'm shamed for doing so and am told i'm objectifiying women when their mind and personality is one of the sexiest parts about them. Maybe i'm not making any sense, i'm just rambling but i'm frustrated. I'm 27 so i'm not a kid anymore but I'm not ready to settle down and start a family I just wanna enjoy each other's bodies and minds and fall deeply in love
Have you ever considered a possibility, that when everything is not okay men simply do not initiate sexual intercourse at all?
I am not saying there's no exceptions here, but I have actually talked to men about this subject, they claim that they can still get off when they are going through grief and depression vs many women that cannot. Look up how mental stimulation is more important for women vs men.
Senpai, I am the dyke in the thread, you need to listen to me when I am bullet-pointing the reasons you are missing out on orgasms
they do not think like us, that's not from being a meanie, they literally have different brains and hormones, they are different than us
do you really think the ones we send to war are gonna cum the same way we do? or consider *things* the way they do?
it's a learning curve, maybe lean in
I'm still a virgin. I'm waiting for my wedding night to lose mine to my husband. I don't like the idea of it, but that's a part of the deal of being married. I love cuddling, so I hope it feels even better after sex.
Then why do I as a male love eating pussy so much?
I used to be a rotten gooner until I got access to dick, by sharing my roommates bf with her. It's not a relationship so I have zero incentive to please him, it is purely just for my own enjoyment.
Of course I would want a bf, or husband, to have and enjoy sex with. But in a vacuum removed of everything else, just plain sex -the act itself, yes it is wanted.
Stop larping as a woman, no woman would actively defend men that didn't even care or try to attempt to make his women happy and blame her for not giving step by step instructions and not putting any effort in. Imagine if he came in 5 second and then just left her laying there and he never once asked her if she came? it's a very, very common thing that happens and women just let it slide because we have learned to not give a fuck about our own pleasure during sex and just prioritize men who don't give a damn about if we are satisfied or not.
I'm saying that if you are a normal man, then yeah, you should want to go that
I'm saying that you people want to pleasure women
I know that's hard to hear because no one has ever said that in r9m before, but I am telling you that I know got a fact that men want to make women cum
(some restrictions apply, results maybe vary)
but on default, you guys are eager learners
YES! II LOVE making women cum and have studied how to best do so. I think that is the norm, no?
I'm not defending them
I'm trying to teach you to cum whenever you want
I'm using yhem
to give instructions, just to you
because I really, really like making girls cum
do you understand what I'm saying?
you don't need to answer that, just think about it
It is not the norm at all because most men learn sex from porn and most porn doesn't serve women. This person is feeding you an idealistic version of men that is NOT the majority.
But yes I love men like you and I wish there were more of you and I would love to be with an anon like you. Keep being a pleaser we love it.
I'm a perpetual optimist and am gonna challenge that and say that maybe r9k isn't the best place to find a quality man focused on pleasing you femanon. But genuinely thanks for all the really sweet compliments. I was having a sad day and you really helped cheer me up
If you get a good husband you will probably enjoy it, a lot of women are turned off by the idea of it in theory because of the way our culture treats it but find the reality to be something different. I've heard a few people describe it like that anyways
you see how you kids reeally are the same deep down lol
i've said this to a female that talks about how men only ever want sex:
almost everything women do is to FACILITATE the act of sex. it's just that they don't initiate, so we can never pin the obsession on them. but everything they do leads up to it. the great lengths they go to to beautify themselves isn't for them, and that's why they act exactly the same way when they're actively looking for male attention. they are ALWAYS behaving and dressing in a way that is seeking male attention.
it's the norm, the girl you're talking to still doesn't understand what "a man" is yet, it's not anybody's fault
I mean, it's the governments fault, and I won't get into grandma's thoughts about Israel, but I mean to say that she just isn't old enough to be able grasp the full scope of empathy yet, and the opposite sex is the last group we, as humans, gain insight into
and that's why when women are young, they should be with me because it's like a safe stepping stone up the path
Thanks for sharing. I have never met a woman who didn't care about sex and yes, they always blame men, even when they own sex toys, watch pornography, do one night stands, and ignore men who don't try and fuck them. That last one is crucial because most women see being used for sex as validation, they are not interested in love, only orgasms.
Think of it like Cuddling+. If your eventual husband cares about you in all other aspects it would be a top 10 anime betrayal if he turns out to just want starfish sex and roll over after he's finished.
Rapists mindset thinking everything a woman does is to sexually attract men....disgusting. When I dress and wear pretty things, I feel awkward and weirded out when someone looks at my chest or smiles at me weird. I like to look pretty because I like to feel pretty...NOT for men. You need to sort out your mindset if you think that's all EVERY woman wants when she puts effort into her appearance.
Funny, because I try to communicate openly with my gf to try to make sure she is satisfied but she refuses to talk about it at all. I know I've made her cum many times but she's too shy to actually talk about it 90% of the time so I can't improve in any meaningful way
The purpose of looking attractive is to attract the opposite sex. Your confidence when you look good stems from the internal concept and subconscious knowledge that other humans when looking at you will have a more favorable reaction. That favorable reaction 99% of the time is sexual attraction.
Whenever dumbass women like you say things like that the only thing you accomplish is outing yourself as not being able to understand your own basic emotions. Which is why it's funny to always hear women claim they are somehow the more emotionally mature sex
you need to work harder on your bait, mane
People were supposed to do this in many traditions, and the key is always communication. If people really are compatible they will figure out how to have a sex life that satisfies them both. I refuse to accept that people who divorce out of sex incompatibly aren't in fact suffering from many deeper personal incompatibility issues. Men tell these to women to provide sex for them hoping for commitment, but sex should only ever happen in a committed relationship.