My bf love bombed me and ghosted me now I have to see him tomorrow at uni I really loved him or maybe I am...

My bf love bombed me and ghosted me now I have to see him tomorrow at uni I really loved him or maybe I am overreacting but he hasent contacted me in two days ik he is talking in his friend group tho idk a lot about men ar people in general idk what to do

Ruin his reputation

How can I do this anon ???

Sometimes men just have things to do and don't remember to message. He doesn't mean anything by it. Just act normal and it'll be fine.
t. man

Hypocritical moids always defending their poor actions and giving each other the benefit of the doubt even in the most evil circumstances

Is not messaging for couple days really that evil?

either has a crippling fear of intimacy or doesn't like you that much. hard to say. need more data

Yes. If a man was really interested in you, he would make time for you. If he isnt obsessed, he doesnt love you. He just thinks he does, and sees you as a placeholder subconsciously.

My bf love bombed me

He bombed you? Is your "boyfriend" an "Israeli" by any chance? You might need to contact Hamas for help.

She's a ghost now, didn't you read the whole OP? How is Hamas going to help if she died in the bombing?

No, but I'm worried he feels really distant this couple of days maybe he realized I'm too much of a baggage for him and wants to leave peacefully

lol chad claims another victim

Why would you say that? I have trouble understanding his actions and idk how men really act ik men don't have beehive mentality but I'm scared he just ran away bc I'm too weird and disgusting

He probably masturbated to you then during his heightened state caused by post nut clarity he saw you for the vile woman you are

What would make a woman vile? I really want to better myself for him, and be the best gf but I feel more lonely now that I'm with him than when I just liked him

lovebombed

what does it mean? how did he do that?

We went to see the Minecraft movie as friends and never left my side and took me out every day and bought me stuff (little things like Minecraft a necklace and other details) but since last week he feels more cold and distant doesn't check on me and just doesn't go out anymore

Have you tried dating a man in your league?

Lovebombing is someone who shows an overwhelming signs of affection

(I'm too lazy to download an image of a projector here so just imagine one)

Wtf do you mean by that, he is a 5'9, long hair, acne, paper white, skinny and nerdy I found him really attractive but I'm still realistic that he isn't the most conventionally attractive and I've turned out 2 guys since then

5'(11)

long hair

(mild) acne (scarring)

paper white

skinny and nerdy

Wow he's just like me! Except no girl has ever liked me because my face is unattractive. He probably has great bone structure, perfect jawline, strong eye area etc.

he isn't the most conventionally attractive

I'd ghost you too if you said that about me

love bombed

ghosted me

I fucking hate young people and their stupid mind game slang. Just suck his dick and tell him that you love him. Stop complicating things you bitch. All the hatred you retarded zoomers receive is completely justified.

You guy are always moaning abt this things fucking you up, I'm sorry but I'm bitter I just wanted him and he shitted on me and I feel bad

Why can't you foids just understand that sometimes you can't get the man you want? I suppose this is the natural outcome of a lifetime of coddling and entitlement.

Uhm Anon, you have a penis.

You know that, right?

Well you've now experienced 1/4th the pain of an incel. You'll live

Nah, not really. Inceldon is akin to a lifetime of starvation, the most females can ever experience is the equivalent of missing lunch a couple of times which they have the gall to believe as equivalent. In OPs case its not even that, it's the equivalent of going to a buffet but throwing a tantrum because you wanted steak with foie de gras sauce but they only had HP sauce. Typical disgusting and entitled female behavior.

Why tf he asked me to be his gf and that he saw a future with me if he wasn't sure? Men really lack empathy and want me to just become nuts

1/10th I guess. I was being charitable

You're talking as if women are capable of love.

gets rejected by the man she wants

takes it out on men she's revolted by

Foid classic

This has actually been observed in studies. Literal subhumans.

If I had a penis I would've had a mid girl jumping on my dick with no attachment but I'm a woman and I'm too emotional to do that

My dick is too important to have it wasted on a mid girl

he hasent contacted me in two days

Jesus help me, WHY are you women like this?

I did this to a girl I thought I loved one time. Was dealing with my disabled father and felt really depressed so I got drunk and went offline for a few days. Then she got really upset and blocked me.

My God. I was even thinking about marrying her.

Kek love is pure pain I tell ya.

Was dealing with my disabled father and felt really depressed so I got drunk and went offline for a few days

And you couldn't send her one little message?

She couldn't even wait before blocking him.

She waited a few days. Dude couldn't take 5 seconds of his time. Not like he needed to write an essay.

She waited a few days

She could have waited longer.

To be fair, it was a long distance relationship, and I really just wanted her to be with me in person. It hurt too much to talk to her without being able to see her.

Idk about your situation though, can't speak for that guy.