What did you imagine your love life would be like?
What did you imagine your love life would be like?
That I would eventually meet someone online or at an in-person event who, as we spoke to each other, realized we had nearly the exact same thoughts and beliefs about how the world should be structured, in music, in art, in media; we so naturally align that we end up wanting to spend all of our time together and thinking about how it's only going to be us, focusing on each other, against the world. No kids, no marriage, no celebrations - both of us meeting by chance in life and dying alone together, never to return. Even if we don't like the same things, and open-minded would be nice.
I was always told by older women, that I would grow up to be very successful with women, because I apparently was a very cute kid, but then puberty hit, and I got horrific acne that left my face scared and disfigured, and now I'm a 25yo virgin with non-existent self-esteem..
i imagined it would actually exist outside of my head
sadly that is not the case and probably will not be in this life
I thought I would marry my long-term GF of 10 years from the age of 12 but that didn't work out and now im 30 and lost
Me and my cousin made a pocket pussy back in the mid 90s. Strangely it was his idea. Was he fucking gay????
tfw told i'd be a good husband
what did my aunts mean by it
I didn't think about my future at all when I was a kid
perhaps subconscious assumptions you realized you had when things didn't happen?
I would marry the handsome nerdy blonde twunk I met online give him my virginity and we would ride off into the sunset and have 7 kids or more and wear lolita and jirei kei for him cook for him clean for him serve him etc
I was homeschooled and heard a lot of right wing radio about colleges being giant 24/7 degenerate orgies, and was really excited to get a blowjob in the middle of english 101 my first week and have shittons of sex
Currently 41 khv
I always thought I would meet a cute girl in high school or college and then marry her and be together until I die at an old age after many years of happiness. Things didn't work out that way, I'm KHHV and I'll be 28 in a few months.
you guys get to have rightwing radio?
When I was 13 I'd imagine myself as a Sonic OC cat with a blue Sonic OC fox and I'd just imagine fucking her in different locations and playing with her tits. I'd continue to do this all throughout my teens with different anthropomorphic characters but eventually I moved away from that and now I just want a cute gf who'll go on hikes with me and trips to the market.
as a kid, usual cringe about relationships because of how adults teased me when I was near a girl friend
as a pre-pub and puberty, be so alone I deleted the idea that a girl would like me
as a teen, grow my despise for women, notice hard how they change behaviors depending the guy they're around
16 and onwards, just chalk all women as whores, be right 99% of the time
possibly relevant
on the death of approaching women, and a generation of men assuming women will
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i thought i would have already turned pretty and gotten my firsts by now
i thought i'd get to fuck winona ryder
checked, and what happened?
In America yes we still have free speech (as long as you don't criticize Israel)
that i'd meet a nerdy computer programmer and we'd be nerds together.
nothing like that in my city and i'm too old to find one now, so i date incredibly kawaii asian girls a few years younger than me.
just hooked up with one a year old though and desu i think i'm in fucking love. could be the one lads.
am i detracting from the thread with these pics
thought i'd marry the first girl i loved and we'd live happily ever after
thought I would marry my highschool-college sweetheart of 3+yrs. She dumped me out of nowhere while she was study abroad in Japan, leaving me baffled as to why and feeling worse than if I had died. I went to go be a monk, cuz thats what I thought I was supposed to be doing, and this was a sign from God to go do it. Come back and she is already married. Feel like I made a mistake, but trying to keep myself sane and convince myself otherwise. TL;DR: none.
closest we got feels like a couple 'mr. controversial' controlled opp. (same)
I knew it was over at 12 yrs old so I never really imagined one
love at first sight
She saving from my boring life pretty much, not surprised it didn't happen lol
actually i moved out of my parents' and a bunch of girls i knew were frothing at the mouth at the prospect of independent me trying to date, but not because they wanted to date me, but rather, they wanted to see what a pussy hunt looked like.
I was ostracized for essentially my entire childhood. I didn't have a real friend until I was out of high school
I am unable to feel positively about interactions with people. I have never felt the urge to meet a gf or feel love because I only feel "man I fucking hate people".
At one of my jobs there was this cute chick who was clearly interested in me, but I broke off our first date before it happened because I "man I just don't like people" and it wasn't fair to her to lead her on.
A monk? How'd that go?
What it is right now. Nonexistent.
It was always shit and there was only one point where I was able to delude myself into thinking things would be ok. She was pregnant, and I thought we'd be together 5ever and well things would be rocky at times we'd stay strong and in love....
Boy was I stupid. Now I'm old, too bitter and broken for anything resembling a healthy relationship and she... Well she's probably still doing the disgusting things she does.
Long story short, I entered with a fresh porn/self-abuse addiction. Made it almost 2yrs chaste, but then I relapsed and I couldn't recover over 2 more years. Was sent away to get some counseling and maybe try again. The thought has been slipping in more though, "what have I done, I ruined everything." Worst is she is validly married so thats pretty much that, but the monk door isn't closed yet, so there is still at least some hope.
Just be a monk, retard. Why are you hanging onto a woman who clearly doesn't give a shit about you and is happily married? You haven't ruined monasticism. The whole point of it is to be for people who want to turn away from their sin and spend their life chasing God. It can never, ever be ruined.
Basically since I was in 4th grade I feel like the only thing I actually wanted in the future was some sort of love. I would constantly imagine the cute things that'd come from different stages of life like my first girlfriend, going to dances and prom together, going off to college together, getting married, everything like that. Then as I got older and felt more rejected with each passing year and every crush I had, those same sort of romantic stories would still play out in my head but nothing would ever change. I remember imagining finally asking my high school crush out and going to prom with her, thinking of ways my friend could help me set us up together. Then when it didn't happen, I imagined somehow running into her one day in the future as adults and we got together then. Even now I still imagine hopefully one day getting that romance story moment where I somehow meet that right person and things happen that bring us together and it all works out, but at the same time I feel like I don't deserve love and that it's never going to actually happen. I will say, at no point in my life did I ever expect I'd be in my mid-20s having never had a relationship...
You know what man, thank you for that. Pray for me.
when it didn't happen, I imagined somehow running into her one day in the future as adults and we got together then.
ahhh god iktf
the lack of closure and years of lingering hope beyond hope
Always. Pray for me. Pray for the Church. May it be blessed.
What did you imagine your love life would be like?
That I'd eventually have a loyal wife, and up to five sons.
Also be a successful back office drone who made good money.
Instead, I'm almost 39, trapped as an autist NEET, and have never had unpaid pussy. I want to die.
I was told this, then I became a bald manlet autist NEET shut-in.
Weirdly, I was told that I am still photogenic, and I still get (meaningless) likes and matches, yet I've only ever gotten to fuck escorts.
So much for 'you'll have to beat women off with a stick' and being 'a lady-killer'.
A woman would have to throw herself at me for me to get laid, and they have never done that.
All I get IRL are women staring at me every several years, never actually speaking to me, and always having company with them. FML.