Can you get rid of a fetish?

I have a Female-On-Male rape fetish. I think a woman forcing a man to come against his will or him just not enjoying it at all, is the hottest thing in existence.

At the same time I absolutely hate myself for having this kink. I honestly want to get rid of it.

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How long have you had it?
If you got it from porn addiction you'll probably be fine just stop masturbating, I've had it since I was like age 8 or something and I don't think it'll ever go away though

How long have you had it?

I think since adolescence,

No, not really. You could try abstaining from anything related to the fetish. Personally I just masturbate and that clears my head of my rape fetish for the most part.

i absolutely hate myself for having this kink

Yeah watch out for the thought police

Why hate yourself if the chance to experience that fetish IRL is more rare than winning a lottery?

Because rape is WRONG!!! I don't want to have some weird fascination with it.

You're the victim in this scenario, so who cares?

If you want to get raped, is it really even rape anymore? A real rape fetish (wanting to rape others) is obviously wrong because you actually get off to seriously harming someone else, but reverse rape is basically just wanting a woman to be forceful with you, there's nothing "morally wrong" with that

because you actually get off to seriously harming someone else

Unless you're raping someone, you're just getting off your imagination and fantasy of raping someone. I don't see what's morally wrong with that.

As someone with a terrible fetish I would love to get rid of sometimes, no absolutely not. You cannot get rid of a fetish without EXTREME therapy like literally electroshock Ludovico technique type shit. The way fetishes form is a result of the way the human brain works and forms neural pathways. Essentially we have individual concepts represented by neurons in our brain that can connect to each other. When one of these connections happens, if the out come on your body is positive that connection becomes stronger and more likely to occur. Due to the way that sex works, connecting anything to it is almost a guaranteed way to have a positive reaction. Thus if ANY concept gets connected to sex it basically creates a feedback loop that endlessly strengthens the connection. You can make ANYTHING a fetish. All you need to do is force yourself to have sexual thoughts about it and it will develop into a full on fetish. The sad result of all of this is that it's essentially impossible to get rid of one after it's already formed. The next best thing you can do is to replace it with a different fetish, but that's hard enough and you'll probably just end up with two fetishes in the end.

If you're worried about it, why don't you just whack it to assertive femdom stuff, where it's not rape, but there's still that huge sexy power dynamic of a dominant woman ans submissive man.

Do you know of any femdom stuff that doesn't involve pegging?

But then how did I make that neuron connection happen to me in the first place?? I was never even raped in my life!

I used to think o had this fetish until I realized I dont want to get raped by a girl
Instead I want to see someone (preferably a gay twink) get raped by a girl

What about that fembot that raped a femboy?

anon, most rape fetishes are just wanting to be overpowered, there is nothing wrong with that, in fact in our culture makes sense to eroticize power imbalances

If rape is wrong, I don't want to be right.

It's not that hard, any site with a functioning tagging system will let you do minus (- symbol) a tag and remove it
so ex. you could just do "femdom -pegging -futanari -dickgirl_on_male"

The femboy sounds like that annoying type of gay that is overly misogynistic so she should do it again to teach that queer a lesson

rapist with a pussy

Just say girl ffs

As I recall, her doing it turned him straight or at least normal

rapist w/ a pussy

victim w/ a cock

im tired. im so tired.

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here is the problem, the moment you start fantasizing it (or rather desiring it happens to you), it stops being rape because now youre into it and consenting to it
now its just violent sex, its kind of like an alchemical property, its either hot or cold.
in this case the mind is the deciding factor that determines the status of it as being consensual or not, and whether its rape or not.
these are concepts/ideals that decide the classification of a situation.

He defeminized but I don't think the poster said he became straight
It might be apart of a defense mechanism where rape victims change their appearance to get raped less
In this case he became more masculine to avoid getting raped again by her

The trick is that she continues after he cums
The post nut clarity will hit like a truck and he will start moving frantically like a saw movie montage

maybe if hes still into the fetish outside of horniness its still possible who knows

I've had it since I was like age 8 or something and I don't think it'll ever go away though

me with preggo women. even when doing everything you're supposed to what i find alluring about them is buried deep into my psyche.

what is there to get rid of? its a based fetish

i wish women were more aggressive

also lmk if u want a greentext of my previous female roommate likely graping me lol

I want to see that anon

sublet in an apt near campus, after graduating

another tenant's gf sublets her bf's room, bf is out of state

she is a southern girl, brunette and blue eyed

she's more outgoing, we connect through music, philosophy, she makes thats what she said jokes

she's boundary pushing, enjoys having influence, likes trolling, and is teasing in general

she brings her blonde girl bestfriend, we go to an arcade and i think it was at this point she told me a secret so i told her mine too

we have late night tipsy conversations about random shit

i think i got sick by not sleeping with a thick blanket and there was AC or something, but she wanted to help me in my room and inspected and said i need to get another layer to not get sick

she knows the lock on my door does not work through this i think

i wanted to sleep but she trolled me by sitting on my bed and stalling

she pretended to leave, but when i turned the lights on again, she was still in my room near the door

when she left, i turned and i felt her grabbing my ass (left cheek to be specific)

autism.exe i pretended nothing happened and went to sleep

ffw

i go home after drinking with friends

i pass out in my bed

have the most realistic sex dream like i was being ridden

i dont remember how i felt after i woke up, but i think i had a mini hangover. she could have very likely raped me when i was passed out because her personality and boundary pushing, her knowing my lock doesnt work, and the fact that she knows im not confrontational and wouldnt speak against her (she would know through our interactions) prob increases those odds

nah that shit never goes away, but hey, it could be worse. you could only be able to get off to vore or some shit.

have thing happen to you

growing body is growing body and random connection to sex happens

I mean it's more likely to happen if you have an explicit sexual memory associated with it, but it can legitimately happen almost completely randomly.

Can you describe her in more detail? Also, lucky you, I wish a girl would use my cock like that.

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she is above average female height, skinny, very blue eyes, i typically prefers blondes but facially she is objectively attractive, she has a complex about having a smallish chest because she wears a chest pad, catholic and prolife, long light brown hair, she cooks in the kitchen sometimes barefoot and i quickly steal glances at her feet

i dont support cheating at all, but she could have just asked me instead of what was most likely raping me when i was asleep. her grabbing my ass was also something i was not expecting at all

Do you wish she'd do it again?

If this was a real story there would be some anecdote like "I checked the zipper on my pants and it was undone" or "I came but there was less present than there should have been" or "the blankets looked re-arranged" or something, the lack of that tells me this is fake

theoretically yeah but she is not my roommate anymore and we havent spoken in almost 2 years. she definitely was predatory because she saw that i didnt speak out against her touching my ass

i sleep in my underwear, ie i dont wear jeans etc to sleep. i asked chatgpt if it was possible if she was sneaky enough and it was possible, plus if she raped me, she would be smart enough to clean up. it was summer and i also was passed out so i wouldnt have felt her to wake up. im also not perceptive enough to notice minor blanket changes since i would think i just moved in my sleep

Not lucky
What if anon was gay or something

Why don't you try to get in contact with her again? I imagine that simply getting a text back would be enough to make you rock hard.

1. im shy
2. im scared of women
3. i dont want to make the first move
4. i only recently realized just how predatory she was and prior to realizing, i texted something and didnt get a response
5. that leads me to believe maybe something did happen and she feels guilty
6. my ex ruined me

Well yeah, that looks complicated then. Do you think your sexuality has been "damaged"?

she would be smart enough to clean up

So what you're saying is that there was no cum at all left over, then? You 100% got raped in that case, (if this is true at all) any person having a realistic sex wet dream would ejaculate and wake up at the end of it